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goodness gracious i'm confused about this boy...
14/f (sorry this is long!)
okay. normally i'm really good with relationship advice, but apparently i can't help myself with this one. so, there's this guy at my school-we'll call him 'trevor.' so, i have liked trevor since the beginning of the school year. he had a girlfriend-let's call her 'jenny.' jenny is really nice and we talked a little bit. but anyway, i liked trevor but trevor was going out with jenny. well, we flirted a little bit and trevor and i became friends. then, we had a sadie hawkins dance at our school. i went with a guy friend. trevor went with his other friend that's a girl (she couldn't find a date, they're like bro + sis), and jenny went with one of her friends that's a guy. well, trevor had absolutely no fun with his date, while jenny flirted it up with her date. trevor breaks up with jenny. jenny comes to me and tells me everything. she says she's over him. he now flirts with me nonstop. it's just funny little things, sports things, or me making jokes (i'm the funny one =]) and him saying that i'm really funny/cute/cool. i want to go out with trevor more than any other guy. EVER. but still, i have this weird feeling that i would be betraying jenny. help ! what do i do ?
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If you tell her how you liked him and he likes you that maybe shell understand... Id ask the guy out seriously girl drama can be over the next day... Do want your heart tells you... But I think you should ask him out cuz its sounds suuper obvious that he likes you so just go for it and "Jenny" should understand or shes not a real friend to you
-Chicka376
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I would advise that you tell her how you feel about him. She should understand that. Tell her how long you have liked him and how much you want to date him. If she is a true friend this shouldn't affect your friendship. I wish you well. =]
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talk to her about it. true friends can work these kinds of things out. tell her that you have feeling for him, but you don't want to be betraying her. if she says its okay, and she really is over him, then its okay. if she's not okay with it, just tell her to let you know when it'll be okay. you don't wanna think back to this and wonder what if. what if you had gotten with him. and all that stuff. bottom line: talk to her. i know it's easier said than done, but theres really no other way to go about this.
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