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i'm a horrible person
Ok... so I will start by saying that I thought I had good morals and was a decent person, but that seems to have changed. I fooled around with a co-worker last night, not quite had sex but close enough. Thing is I am in a horrid relationship with a child and he is unhappily married but loves his wife. I was very drunk and him sober...and I believe that alcohol is never an excuse but I also feel like if I was not drinking I would not have made that choice. I feel so incredibly crappy today..really really crappy. I want to do something to make it better which is probably impossible. I cannot tell my boyfriend because he would literally kill me or hurt me very badly. I just really lost all respect for myself and need some advice. please don't be too mean with the remarks because i already know what I did was VERY wrong. thanks
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it's usually a bad idea to cheat. but i can't see much good coming out of telling your guy that this happened. i would get tested though for stds/hiv. i'm assuming that even though you didn't have intercourse that the possibility of stds remains. you at least have to know that all is well and that you can't make another ill. if your relationship is that bad, opening up will only make things worse. i think that you have to keep things a secret. you do have a burden on your shoulders and in some way it seems you need to get that weight of of your shoulders. for now, i'd just stick to telling people in a forum such as this.
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Well you could try to keep this a secret, but wouldnt that hurt too much inside? You were pretty confident that your bf would realy hurt you. Think about your relationship with him..maybe you did this because deep down you are not happy with him..maybe you will realize deep down you want to end things with your bf. You could break up with your bf and not tell him what you did with your coworker..keeping your actions a secret would hurt too much inside, and would make your relationship be based on a lie. In the end the choice is yours, but im thinking maybe you want to end your relationship anyway. Why do you think he would literally hurt you? Has be been abusive in the past? In the end its your choice, my advice is to not keep it inside. It will hurt too much..and i also think you should take a little bit to really reflect on the inside of what you want and what is best..
good luck
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