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To cheat or not to cheat?


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 8:35 pm

How many of you would cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/fiancee/fiance if you knew they would never find out?

I adore my boyfriend, we've been dating for almost two year and I am head over heels in love. But, he doesn't completely...satisfy me if yall know what I mean. And he is aware of this at times. I have a chance do be satisfied by a guy I've know for a long time and does not really have any connections to my friends, or my bfs friends so there just about no chance of him finding out. I can't hurt my boyfriend, and I don't want to cheat on him but I need to be satisfied atleast once... I would just like some input on what yall would do. Thanks

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dont like making out?


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 8:26 pm

18/f. well i've madeout with like 3 guys. i actually find i quite disgusting haha. but i am attracted to guys thats 100% sure, not like im gay or anything but is it weird that i dont like making out? i will kiss a guy, and i like doing other things but not make out. never really had a boyfriend, maybe because everytime a boy tries to kiss or make out i pull away because i dont want to make out and what do i say, uhm i dont like making out? they would probably think i'm crazy. i dont know what to do! :( i feel like i'm the only person who doesnt like making out haha.

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The I Need a Break Talk :(


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 6:18 pm

My question is Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months and we rele love each other but when she finally told her ma her mom banned us from talking an we still alked bt very secretly. in the last month but all we ever did waz argue in that month now shes tired of it. and thinks i dont care. What do i have to do to prove that i still love her an that r flame for each other hasnt gone away???

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is it possible to not love?.. ever? (a question for all)


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 3:43 pm


im asking this out of sheer curiosity.

if it is possible for a man to love a woman or a man to love a man or a women, a women. is it possible for a man or a women to not be interested in either?
it would be quite hard to find this i think because of our basic primal instincts to love or lust for another's attention or company.

its one of those things were my mind thinks about it. then agrees with it, then thinks about it again to only get confused. what do you think? i would like to have some very explanitable and scientific answers. Thanks

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marriage


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 3:34 pm

OK...so me and this boy were talking about 7 months but we have only been together for about 2. Anyways it was love at first sight and we're crazy about each other, yesterday he actually got down on one knee and asked me to marry him...i love him and my answer is yes but i think we're too young for that.I'm 17 and hes 19 any advice is helpful.

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he wnt kiss me :S


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 12:37 pm

heyy

ive been kinda seeing this lad for a while , and we have had sex and everythin, but hes never kissed me , i try too kiss him but he pushed me away, everytym i see him i wanna ask him y but its embarissing, is a kiss a bit more than sex if ya get me ? does it mean hes not interested or sumthing

thanks

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I'm really sad, so help!


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 9:50 am

Me and this guy really liked each other and we had a great time going out and he stated many times that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He is nt that rich whereas I am a princess. Well on his birthday I finally tell him that I like him and I want him t be my man, but then he says "No". Coz he thinks I'm really rich and he's a nobody.And that he and I can never be together. He says its ok if we're "Just Friends" I tried to reason with him and convince him that its ok but he's just stuck on it and he just doesn't want me. He seems to be normal about it but I'm still in the hope that he will say yes. How can I tell him that its okay? And if you think its not going to work how do i move on?

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What do you think is the oldest a 16 year old could date?


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 6:07 am

What do you think is the oldest a 16 year old could/should date?

No details, other than it would be legal. I just want to gain opinions on this.

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My bf???


Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 2:11 am

Ok so this guy asked me out a couple days ago. We don't go to the same school but we know each other and stuff. We go to the same church. So we are going out now. But I saw him today but he didn't say anything to me. Like yesterday we sat next to each other and talked and stuff because we just started going out, I don't move fast. Well is that weird or something? I'm really nervous around him too. The thing is that he didn't talk to me at all. He looked at me alot but maybe he was nervous or something? Oh I'm 14/f. I know this is a weird question but if a guy first asks you out shouldn't he talk to you more? He was kind of busy and had to leave early with his parents but idk I'm really confused. Sorry if this was a dumb question or whatever but please help. Thanks!

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What do I do?


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 11:15 pm

THIS IS CONFUSING, PLEASE BEAR WITH ME...
Heres the situation: my best friend went out with a guy. he cheated on her. they broke up. he asked me out. i immediately called my best friend and we're perfectly fine. i said yes.
Heres the problem: one day he wants to get back with my friend, and he likes my other friend..and the next day he hates her guts. but, he's still fine with me, and kisses me goodbye..but we are not as cuddly as we could be, and haven't made out, which my other friend says is odd that he hasn't mentioned it. AND my best friend is pretty flirtatious with boys. So, I was wondering what I am doing to make myself so jelous and not as close to him as I know I can be. Please help me adress the situation. Thanks!...

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cheating


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 10:21 pm

alright... i kinda think my boyfriend might be cheating on me... i've done the whole look at the phone thing and stuff like that, but he would probably delete everything anyways. i saw something on the computer before like a program that would make it so you could see all the texts and calls he makes and gets from your computer or something. does anyone know of anything like this and where i can find it? thanks :)

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here goes...


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 10:06 pm

this might end up being kinda long... anyway, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months and about a week ago i saw a picture with him and this girl on facebook and someone left a comment saying something about her making her move or something anyway... the other day him and i were hanging out at this place he usually goes with with his friends and he was calling some of them to see if they could come hang out with us, and he called the girl from the picture, if something was going on between them would he have wanted her to come hang out with both of us? or would he want to hide her more or whatever so i wouldn't get suspicious about anything? anyway, if anyone has any advice let me know.. thanks :)

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Okk this guy is my lifee.


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 9:08 pm

Okk.
Well i like this dudee. (lets call him blahh..haha)
well i like bahh. But he has a girlfriendd...he knows i like himm but like he talks to me 24/7! Like he texts me out of nowhere..and on myspacee talks to me all the timee.
And idkk if he likes me backk and i dont wanna ask blahh..soo help?

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Some plan to win him over and get him back to me?


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 8:33 pm

Well...I'm having one of those moments where you don't know whether it's better to follow your heart or what makes sense.

Like you might've guessed already. It's about a guy. Now, he's no normal guy that I've liked; the most special guy I'd say; soul mate, if you will. Even he thought that I was his for some time.

Yeah, we did go out for 3 months, but then after some nasty arguments we broke up with him saying that it's better to just be friends. I still like him, a lot. I mean...I've been through a lot for him and I don't want to give up. It was all out of my own free will too. He's...not exactly the nicest guy from the start. Don't get the wrong idea though, he could also be extremely caring and I'm not being...

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ex boyfriend/bestfriend


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 7:34 pm

For about 4 or 5 years I've liked my best guy friend. We were on and off liek that entire time but he goes to a jewish camp every summer, so we'd always just date other people. And don't get me wrong, during those 4-5 years, I had other boyfriends, not many, but I did. But i always, always liked him. I really think I loved him. But i don't even know if i did, and then, at the end of summer he was in LBI and asked me out. he even wanted me to come down for a few days with his family, i thought it was so sweet :] but my mom wouldn't let me. [btw, our families are friends ..] so we had made it offcial and he was my first kiss. it was always him that i wanted my first kiss to be with. :] he plays guitar and he played our song ... rhcp:i could d...

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love or lust


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 6:31 pm

how can you really know the difference between love or lust?

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valentines day


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 4:06 pm

i know this is thinking like wayy ahead but ive never had a boyfriend on valentines day before and i was just wondering what girls do....we say i love you and stuff so like maybe bake a cake and write i love you on it? what do girls usually do? i will be dating my boyfriend for 6 months by then.

im 16/f hes 16/m btw

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If youve ever been in love....


Posted Monday December 15 2008, 1:51 pm

this isn't really and advice question. well it kind of is...
basically if you've ever been in love, id like to hear about how you met the right person, y you fell in love, and basically a quick summary of what happened and how/if it ended...i need a few stories, and please they have to be true! if you leave your story it'll be worth your time =) thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

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bboy busy?


Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 11:09 pm

okay, so ive nevert had a boyfriend, and ima 16/f.
sooo lately ive been wanting to be more than friends with alot of my guy friends, but i knowi dont really like them.
i just feel this way because i really want a bf.
does that make sense? so i get "hurt" alot, but its all my fault because i trick myself into liking them. i know it sounds like im a freak, but how can i get over this?

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Does he like me?


Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 10:41 pm

15/f
Yesterday was my birthday party, and my crush was there. At one point, we were watching TV and there was a commercial for this restaurant that they had a new dish or something. Anyway, we were watching a show and it asked a multiple choice question and I asked him, do you want to bet on it? And he said whoever wins, buys the other person the meal we saw on the commercial. He won and he said "you owe me dinner!"

This might not mean anything, but I am curious. Could this possibly be him asking me out?

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