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this might end up being kinda long... anyway, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months and about a week ago i saw a picture with him and this girl on facebook and someone left a comment saying something about her making her move or something anyway... the other day him and i were hanging out at this place he usually goes with with his friends and he was calling some of them to see if they could come hang out with us, and he called the girl from the picture, if something was going on between them would he have wanted her to come hang out with both of us? or would he want to hide her more or whatever so i wouldn't get suspicious about anything? anyway, if anyone has any advice let me know.. thanks :)
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Hate to say it, but we don't know any more than you and the answer to your question is simply: maybe. Maybe (and most likely), they're just mates and he enjoys her company.
You shouldn't ever feel threatened by others, though. I know sometimes, jealousy may get the better of you, but at the end of the day, remember he is with YOU and only YOU. He's allowed to talk to other girls and hang etc. If it makes you feel a little uncomfortable, tell him, so he can put your mind at ease.
P.S.. if there was something going on, do you really think he would let it be posted around on the internet? ...I very much doubt it..
Talk to him!
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It's natural to be a bit jealous; after all, this is your man. However, it sounds like you should trust the guy. Talk to him about it if you are worried, but he's done nothing wrong that you know of. I certainly think that you should not trust the girl--I do tend to be the jealous type and personally would make it clear that the girl is to steer clear, but that may not be your style, haha. Most guys, I believe, would try to hide that they hang out with the "other woman" at all, so I don't think you have much to worry about at this point. Good luck!
~TD
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Try bringing up your discomfort around her. He may consider her just another person in his group of friends. That comment may have been a joke, or it may be that she is interested in him. If you have a healthy relationship, chances are he'll explain everything to you as long as you ask him in a way that doesn't sound like you are attacking him.
I went through a similar situation where there were two girls posting flirty comments on my boyfriend's wall. I asked him about it and he told me that they both had wanted to hook up with him the previous year, but he had refused both of them because he liked me (we weren't dating at the time). I've gotten to know one of them and we really get along, but I'm still a little uncomfortable with the other. Now because he knows I am uncomfortable, he talks to me before he hangs out with her. I would never forbid him to spend time with her, but it means a lot to me that he is now aware of my feelings since I brought them up.
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Communication is a big part of a relationship. Yes he would want to hide it more but i think you should talk to him about it and see what is going on his head. because you are going to get your self worked up about it and it may be nothing.
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