Question Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 12:37 pm
heyy
ive been kinda seeing this lad for a while , and we have had sex and everythin, but hes never kissed me , i try too kiss him but he pushed me away, everytym i see him i wanna ask him y but its embarissing, is a kiss a bit more than sex if ya get me ? does it mean hes not interested or sumthing
kaoss answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 8:02 pm: wow. okay this is the weirdest thing i've ever heard of. and it can only be one of two reasons. number one, he's using you for sex, and he just doesn't want to kiss you. but i highly doubt that's the situation, because even most guys that use you for sex will start by kissing you. i don't see any other situation that can lead to sex.. but anyways. the other thing could that he's embarrassed or scared or something. maybe he has bad breath. or maybe he's not a good kisser, or something has happened that made him not want to kiss people. either way, you should probably just ask him about it, don't just start assuming things. just throwing out ideas. good luck and let me know when you find out why, this is interesting. haha. [ kaoss's advice column | Ask kaoss A Question ]
TanDancer answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 7:58 pm: I also agree... I have actually never run into a situation quite like this. A kiss is a sign of affection, so it certainly sounds like he only is using you for sex. Hate to say it, but you may want to break it off with this guy, unless you are okay with being used. Good luck and much love.
fleebailey33 answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 7:53 pm: I disagree with the first two. Although that could be the case, maybe he has traumatizing issues in the past that he does not like kissing. Someone very close to me also had that problem. I would talk with him about it [ fleebailey33's advice column | Ask fleebailey33 A Question ]
rawrlolol answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 7:40 pm: I agree. He seems like he just wants sex. Kissing you would imply he wants something more.
sAmeMistAke answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 7:36 pm: This sounds bizzar. If I were you i would have kissed him before doing anything else. I would say hes not interested and a bit creepy.Sorry but it just sounds to me like sex is ALL he's inteested in , especially if he wont even kiss you. [ sAmeMistAke's advice column | Ask sAmeMistAke A Question ]
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