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THIS BOY
okay i dated this guy for 2 years and i was in love with him! he broke up with me at the end of his senior year (i was a sophmore) we would still talk for that month we were broken up but i was devastated. we would still talk since we would see eachother at school a lot and i know he still had feelings and i obviously still loved him but when summer started it was basically the end cause i knew id never see him again unless it was somewhere random or quinceidental. during the summer i really started moving on and i started getting over him i even started to like a boy which was extremely weird cause i never thought that would happen! anyways at the end of the summer as school was coming close he went to college and before he left he actually texted me telling me goodbye. it was the most confusing thing ever cause i didnt understand why would he text me? i ignored it and a couple days later he actually called me. we talked for over an hour and he told me how he really wanted to see me and what not. we kept talking for the next couple weeks and evntualy i went up to see him. obviously it made all my feelings come back. i visited him a couple more times, but every time i did.. it was like sooo much fun but then when i went home if i would call him or text him hed either not respond or just be like hi. ya. things like he didnt really care? i got fed up with this because i felt ilke he didnt actually care so i finaly brought up the whole situation and he didnt act like he cared he was like "ok" things like that so i just felt like i was wasiting my time so i told him i was done with his games. about 3 weeks later i heard he was going to be in town and that weekend he called me.. he wanted to hangout cause he was in town so i went to his house and we watchd a movie until he had to go to his buddys house. it was kind of awkward, but it felt good being there with him. he tried to have sex with me but i wouldnt beacuse i didnt want to get hurt cause when i had went to visit him at college we did and it ended up hurting me more cause we would have sex and he never would ask me back out or anything. i said i didnt want to get used because we probably werent going to get back together and he just laughed and was saying things like "what are you talking about" "who cares" "stop being gay" it was kind of disrespectful?? idk im so confused what do i do i want to be with him but its like i cant tell if he still has feelings for me or if hes just using me or i dont know how to talk to him about it because whenever i try to talk to him about how i feel hes just like "omg stop" ERRRG
sorry if this was really long..
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ditch him. he's obviously using you if he doesn't even care about how you feel. i'm sorry that this is harsh, but sometimes you just need a wake up call. you got over him once before, you can get over him again. i'm tired of hearing stories like this about girls that fall in love, it's just so sad. don't be one of those girls that waits around her whole life for a boy to decide to care about her. you don't need him. there's plenty of other boys out there. find someone worth your time. he won't even listen to you. and he doesnt want to talk about your feelings. why ? because he's avoiding the situation where he has to tell you he doesn't like you and he doesn't care because then he knows you won't have sex with him. so stop lying to yourself and pretending he cares. he doesn't, and you're just wasting your own time. tell him it's over. get on with your life. find a boy that's not such a jerk. otherwise, you'll just end up getting hurt over and over again. trust me, i've been there.
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Hey,
I think you should ditch him. He's being a real tool. Don't bother with him anymore. If he calls or texts don't answer. I know that's probably going to be hard but he's not worth it. He's definitely using you. Just walk away. He sounds like he's only looking for a good time at your expense. Plus any guy who will disrespect you like that when you don't have sex with them is definitely only looking or sex.
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I think you already know that he's using you.
Stop letting him hurt you. He doesn't respect you. Don't give in to him anymore.
You'll find someone better.
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