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If youve ever been in love....
this isn't really and advice question. well it kind of is...
basically if you've ever been in love, id like to hear about how you met the right person, y you fell in love, and basically a quick summary of what happened and how/if it ended...i need a few stories, and please they have to be true! if you leave your story it'll be worth your time =) thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
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I was only in love once...
I've known of her for probly... 8 years, only got to know her about 8 months ago though.
I gave myself over to her, made myself part of her interests, and fell so in love with her, I haven't stopped thinking of her since I first got to know her...
We went to concerts together, and she was my first kiss.
I used to text her a different message every morninig, telling her I loved her.
She was so great, but she has a really busy life, and ultimately, had to dump me, cause she had too much on her plate, and I was "The easiest thing to get rid of" :(
I still love her, and I understand she had to do it, hurts real bad tho...
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Mine is kind of weird...I was at an alternative/continuation school for the last semester of my senior year. The last thing I wanted was a boyfriend, I didn't even bother trying to make friends. But this guy in my social justice class started talking to me, added me on myspace, we messaged a little bit. I thought he was cute but didn't like him like him, cuz like I said, I didn't want a boyfriend. Texted him pretty much 24/7 and people started saying he liked me but for whatever reason (shyness?) he wouldn't ask me out. We were still kinda together, though. Like two months later he finally did but we still weren't official since neither of us wanted to talk about things. I thought it was gonna be a two or three month relationship, we had a lot of problems (mainly my drinking and doing stupid shit). Summer came, I left for a four week trip, planning on dumping him during or after. That was when I realized how much I missed him and really liked him. When I came back, I had mono, so I didn't get to see him for even longer. When I finally did, was sooo happy. Things just kept getting better and now we've been normal bf/gf for a few months...been going out for about six. Totally in love, he makes me so happy and I don't know what I would do without him :)
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My story started out in kind of a funny way. I met this guy, Brian, in my freshman year of college. He was in three of my classes, or something, and the only other person I'd met in my age group with perfect pitch like me (basically, it's the ability to hear a pitch played on a piano and know what note it is, or sing any note on the right pitch at all times). So, I started talking to him. We hung out a few times, and he came over to my dorm to study music theory with me one night (we were both music majors). His brother, Jeremy, tagged along...and we hated each other.
Jeremy and I shot insults at each other all night, and wound up talking on line a few nights later. After a few conversations, Jeremy said I was boring and told me never to IM him again. I said fine, and took him off my buddy list. Ten days later, he IM'd me and we started talking again. Among these conversations were jokes, things like "you're just saying that because you want me," and other similar things, none of which either of us took seriously.
One night around mid December, he picked me up and took me to a 24-hour coffee shop. We spent all night there, talking. Around 8 in the morning, he went to drop me off at my dorm, and I suggested he crash with me for a few hours, considering I had two beds in my room. He laid down in mine. I thought nothing of it, as I have a lot of guy friends and they're all pretty cuddly people (I just figured he was one, too), and laid down next to him. As we lay there, I heard his heart begin to pound. I lifted my head from his chest, asking if he was okay. He just nodded and smiled a little. I laid back down on his chest and his heart pounded harder. Next thing I knew, he was kissing me and I was kissing back. I wasn't even aware that I liked him until the moment our lips met.
We dated for seven months after that, then "broke up" due to some depression issues on his end. But we never really broke up. We got closer and closer, and he was still calling me his girlfriend, and I was still telling guys "sorry, I'm taken."
We connected that night at the coffee shop more deeply than I could ever imagine connecting with someone. Even now, when we touch, it's electric. When we kiss, the feeling of absolute affection, understanding, and compassion is overwhelming. I trust him more than I could ever trust anyone, and he trusts me. We know each other like the back of our hands, and can't imagine life without that. Even if we fight, and believe me we have fought. I've even written him a goodbye letter and told him I didn't want to see him ever again. Even through the hard times, we have been there for each other, and we have loved each other. No matter what we fight about, we still hug at the end of the night. We are not currently "together," but we're most certainly not apart. As far as I'm concerned, it hasn't ended yet. Not until one of us starts dating someone else.
That's my story. Hope it was worth your read.
-Siren =)
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i fell in love when i was fifteen, and he was eighteen. i met him over myspace? haha but he went to my school so it wasn't creepy or anything. we hungout on december 22, 2007 for the first time and we hungout every weekend after that. at first i was really drawn to him and things were great. he truly was my bestfriend and he knows everything about me, just as i know everything about him. we really were in love, and we even said that we wanted to be together forever which i fully meant. he took my virginity on april 6th.. we had been dating for about 3 and a half months, but i was the 3rd person he'd had sex with. we did EVERYTHING sexual together, even grosser things like anal and 69 and all that. we were just really comfortable around each other i guess. things started getting bad over the summer and we started argueing more and more over stupid things that don't matter. so in the beginning of august we decided to take a break. it didn't last one day and he came running back to me claiming that he'd made a mistake- the only mistake made though was me taking him back. so things got significantly better in out relationship, he even got me a promise ring on september 15th for my birthday. it's funny how things happen though and how your plans change. he broke up with me exactly a month later on october 15th. then went out with another girl who i had suspected he liked while we were dating about 2 weeks later. me and him dated for 10 months. he and his new girlfriend are still dating but it's only been about a month.
i can't go 10 minutes without thinking of him. i'm only 16 but i mean he really did break my heart as cliche as that sounds. i don't regret it and i wouldn't do anything differently. i've realize that when you love someone sometimes you have to sacrifice your own happiness for theirs. so everyday i wake up and he's not there but then i think of everything and i know he's ohk and i know i'll be ohk and that makes it alittle better i guess. we talk occassionally but we're not friends. when we see each other we don't make eye contact, we don't say hi.. it's like we never loved at all.
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I am very in love. I first met my guy freshman year of high school, and had a crush on him from the very beginning. We became friends, and of course I continued to like him... he was (and still is) funny, cute, and sexy! We argued back and forth about whether we should date; basically he was a big chicken, and I wanted to give it a shot. I finally gave up on him my junior year and got another boyfriend. However, that was long distance and did not work out, so I dumped him, and guess what? My guy asked me out a week later. We fell in love over about six months, and we have now been together for three and a half years. We plan to get married in another few years after he gets out of law school :)
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Well, I fell in love with my best guy friend. He was sweet charming, funny, musical, athletic, smart, and really well-rounded. We had known eachother a few years before getting together and making it official. We always hung out and he would give me his guitar pics. One day I was over his house and he made me close my eyes, then he put a necklace around my neck. it had a guitar pic on the silver chain, i looked on the back and it had both our initials and then a heart around it. he looked at me, kissed me, then asked me to be his girlfriend. we were together for a while. it was nice and sooo fun, but he went to camp and cheated on me with another girl. we broke up and he said it was a mistake but i couldnt handle it, I was heart broken. but yeah, that's my story for yaa. :] [i gave him back his necklace with an ex going through our initials and the heart]
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