THIS IS CONFUSING, PLEASE BEAR WITH ME...
Heres the situation: my best friend went out with a guy. he cheated on her. they broke up. he asked me out. i immediately called my best friend and we're perfectly fine. i said yes.
Heres the problem: one day he wants to get back with my friend, and he likes my other friend..and the next day he hates her guts. but, he's still fine with me, and kisses me goodbye..but we are not as cuddly as we could be, and haven't made out, which my other friend says is odd that he hasn't mentioned it. AND my best friend is pretty flirtatious with boys. So, I was wondering what I am doing to make myself so jelous and not as close to him as I know I can be. Please help me adress the situation. Thanks!
ps. i don't care that he likes other people, because everyone does. and i do not want to break up with him at all.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TanDancer answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 11:05 am: I agree with TheLaura. You could do so much better than this. I would never, never date a guy that had cheated on someone else, let alone my best friend! Not everyone wants to date other people while they are with someone. You are not "making" yourself jealous. It sounds like your being jealous are warning bells! If you guys haven't made out and your friends know he moves quickly, could he be cheating on you? You know this guy and I do not, but it sounds like a possibility here. I would not trust this guy at all. And I think that it is important for you not to get too close to this guy. I know you do not want to break up with him, but please guard your heart--this situation is a broken heart waiting to happen. Much love and good luck.
thelaura answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 9:58 am: Hold on..
You're going out with a guy who wants to get back with your friend and he likes your other friend?
Are you insane?
No.. not everyone likes other people. That's the point in having a boyfriend or girlfriend - so you are with them and just them. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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