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The I Need a Break Talk :(
My question is Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months and we rele love each other but when she finally told her ma her mom banned us from talking an we still alked bt very secretly. in the last month but all we ever did waz argue in that month now shes tired of it. and thinks i dont care. What do i have to do to prove that i still love her an that r flame for each other hasnt gone away???
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I'm so sorry; that's tough. I would like to know if the majority of the arguments are about anything in particular. The best gesture would allay her fears that are causing the arguments. However, since I don't know that, I think that the first step is to talk to her. A good, long, deep conversation is the best way to show you care--and remember to listen carefully to her, and try to understand how she is feeling. Everyone is different of course, but if that had been me in her situation, I would feel guilty that it was MY mother that had banned us from seeing each other. Whatever the cause of the arguments, try to figure it out and address it. If you are with each other when you are talking, small affectionate (non-sexual) gestures may be comforting, such as brushing her hair back, holding her hand, or a gentle hug. I also think that itdependsonyou's suggestion of some jewelry is good, but I would make sure that it is meaningful, but not flashy, so that she doesn't get in trouble with her mother. One suggestion that I have is a pendant with a birthstone or a ring to put on a chain to wear as a necklace. It might go a long way in reminding her how much you love her, even when you are not there to tell her so. Good luck and much love.
~TD
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aw man :[ that really sucks, I'm sorry. Okay, here's some tips...
-tell her that you're going to do everything you possibly can to keep both of you together
-talk to her about how you care about her and that if you didn't, you wouldnt be trying to explain yourself to her right now.
-make her a card or letter or poem [something meaningful to make her smile]
-maybe you could even give her a bracelet or necklace engraved with both ur initials or something along those lines.
i hope it all works out for you ! and i hope that i helped ! xxo good luckk :]
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Try inviting her and her mother to dinner at your house with your family, this will prove that you still care and that you want to put in the effort for your relationship. Try explaining to her how you feel. Wright a long note explaining your feelings for her. Stop arguing. Just suck it up. If shes clearly wrong tell her shes right and just end it. I'm sorry, but thats the easiest way.
thats all i can think of right now but if you want more detail or a better answer drop a question in my inbox.
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