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Valentines Day - Guys gift!
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 11:14 pm
What to get My boyfriend for Valentines Day. I was thinking of a personalized mug or bowl but he lives with his parents and that wont really have much of a meaning cuz it wont actually be his. I might get him boxers but What else can I get him. Something cute and small we dont want to spend too much money on each other? What do you think?
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Sex in a hot tub?
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 10:10 pm
Okay, Me and my boyfriend are thinking about doing it in a hot tub or a bath. How does this all work? Does he put a condom before he goes inside me and then we go into the pot. Me and him both want to use protection. He doesn't want to make any risk. But what if he is inside me without a condom, and when he is about to ejaculate , he pulls it out and ejaculates into the water? What happens then? Is there a risk of getting pregnant or?
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B.F !!!! PLEASE HELP ME
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 6:31 pm
ok sorry if this is long but i really need help i dont know what to do.
me and my b.f have been going out for about 3 months soon on january 16th and recently i started talking to this guy that i met and now i think i like this guy way more then i do my own b.f. because he talks to me the way my b.f would never and tells me things we hung out yesterday and it was amazing no i didnt cheat im not like that but the problem is how can you like someone more then the person you lost your virginity to because me and my b.f had sex recently and i dont know that felt wrong like i know your first time is suppose 2 feel right but it was just all wrong and this other guy likes me and i know he doesnt becuase he told me today and im reall...
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manilipation by my wife
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 3:36 pm
my wife pressured me into a big mortage and many other fininical areas.I know it was my fault for saying yes, but i could not handle the rentless pressure.Now i have lost almost evreything i had even my will to succede.I love her but not in love.i feel she has taken advantage of my heart.now she is trying to fix it but i dont want her to. I am lost in life what should i do
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he's taking me for granted
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 7:53 am
hi. my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months now. I am not sure about my feelings right now but i think i am not happy anymore with our relp. I don't know but until now he hasn't even let me check his cellphone. Not that it's his obligation to fetch me after school or buy me simple gifts but he hasn't done any of that until now. I am happy when im with him but he's not putting too much effort in our relp for it work and stay strong. i haven't talked about it with him coz maybe it's just his personality that he's not expressive but im starting to get used to it. Another thing, when some girls admit that they like him, he entertains them. and is it ok for him to call them Babe? do guys are really born flirts? I'm afraid that he's push...
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need advice on guy trouble..mixed messages?
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 12:21 am
okay so i met this kid and i don't wanna seem obsessive and clingy but hes kinda sending mixed messages i met him at a party a couple weeks ago and we've been talking and he came over once and said i was cute after but whenever he texts me he just stops or is like well what are you doing today lets hang ill call u after work and crap but never does..and it bugs the crap out of me so i stopped acting like i care and he kind of noticed he sid i was being "quiet" so what should i do is he interested or not?
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Mixed signals... =/
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 12:11 am
Alright so i was dating this guy and he left me for his Ex and like Im still friends with him not nearly as close of friends of course but still friends and like at random times he'll text me or something and say things that make me think that he still likes me and I dont know how to take it... like the other day he text me and was like "hey" and I was like "hi whats up" and he goes "oh nothing just listening to Death Cab and it reminded me of you" and if you didnt know Death cab is a band they are really called Death Cab For Cutie but which was the CD that I bought him for his birthday when we were dating and some of the songs on that CD ment alot to the both of us... and i jsut dont know what to think of what...
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how do i know if he likes me?
Posted Thursday January 1 2009, 8:48 pm
Hey im 17/f. There is this guy at my work who is 20/m. he is really cute and very nice. Can always make me smile. He has been flirting with me alot lately people have been realizing. I know this may sound stupid but i dont know like how to flirt back and let him know im interested. I dont even know if he has a girlfriend or not or if he likes me. How do i find all these things out myself? Please and thank you for your time!
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boyfriend issuessss :[
Posted Thursday January 1 2009, 8:27 pm
Alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 and a half months and things have been a little rocky we usually fight about stupid small things but we get over them quick so its really nothing serious, but lately the past maybe week i guess he has been acting really different like he doesnt want to have anything to do with me and its making me really upset. I talked to him about it and he just said that he says that lately all we have been doing is arguing and he is scared im going to leave him, im not but if things dont get better i might have to consider it. i love him very much and i just know we can figure it out but im scared to bring it up to him becuase he gets mad whenever i talk to him about these things. But last n...
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Might see ex's gf
Posted Thursday January 1 2009, 2:21 pm
16/f... soon I will be traveling to visit my ex boyfriend, who is my great friend now. A few months ago he promised me that I wouldn't have to see his girlfriend while I am there. I figured that was a great idea because I'm still madly in love with him and I think that would hurt me too much, especially while I'm trying to enjoy my vacation. Well today I reminded him about his promise, and he was saying things like "Oh yeah, I'll have to try. She's best friends with the host of the party that we're going to." I reminded him that he promised and he said he would try, but I'm really upset. I mean, he DID promise to me earlier and I was really looking forward to visiting him since I didn't have to worry about that. But now, I'm not s...
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Am i just the Backup Plan?
Posted Thursday January 1 2009, 7:52 am
btw i'm 14. 15 in april
ok so i went ot with this guy about 5 months ago and it took me a while to get over him.You see he dumped me for his ex girlfriend in another town about 3 hours away.He broke up with me over the phone and it tore me apart.it took meso long just to trust him again.Well about 2 or 3 weeks ago he told me that he sorta liked me again which was kinda weird to me because i had started having feelings for him again around the same time. We flirted for a while and he eventuall broke up with his girlfriend. He said it was too hard having a long distance realtionship.So we weren't sure what really to do so we decided to meet up. We went to the beach and sat on some sand dunes. after about 2 hours of talk...
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truth. lies. in the middle??
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 10:08 pm
okay my bf broke up with me not even a month ago. i was devastated and under the circumstances that he was telling me i shoulda said fuck you, but i stayed around and i messed around with him even though he had another gf already. bc he said he 'still loved me' B.S. right? i didnt know whether it was or not. his best friend tyler begain talking to me after he broke up with me. he told me that he has had a crush on me. i told my ex and he got really pissed (the purpose of telling him). but as i talked to tyler i learned he cheated on me 3 tiems while we were datng and he is tellling me all theis stuff about my ex that i didnt know and it pissed me off. do you think he maybe exagerateing bc he likes m e or telling me the truth. im kind of in the middle because i don't really know/.
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Parents errrr..
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 12:23 pm
Everytime I date a boy my mom only lets me see him on the weekends. She thinks weekdays are for school and family and friends sometimes. And of course, this causes everyone to break up with me. What can I tell her?
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confusedd :/
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 9:26 am
hi im 16 nearly 17 and this lad who i like said he liked me and it was great until 1 day when he stood me up and didnt let me know he wasnt going to show up
it was great before that we were like together(we wasnt but he told his mates we was) we slept together a few times and he wanted to see me every day
but now i just feel like ive been used coz we havent spoke for ages and i still really like him
i know he has commitment issues because one of his exes cheated on him with his best mate do you think that has something to do with it?
or was he just using me for sex? does anyone no? plzzzzz help </3 xx
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Jealousy and trust issues
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 6:26 am
18girly
Ive had a horrible past and childhood growing up...i grew up not being able to trust anyone not even my family and especially my dad...Now i am such a jealous person and i cannot trust anyone...my first boyfriend and i thought i loved just made thing even worse...but I'm over that one now...
Right now i am with my boyfriend of three years...i love him to death and i would do anything for him...but about a year ago he cheated on me with a married woman...and i found out its been going on for about a year...its been a while since that's been done with...he told me hes done with her and he wants to be with me he sorry and that he loves me...and he wants to merry me...i know he does love me...and i want to ...
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I am confused, what should I do?
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 2:47 am
A guy that I have been mainly friends with for close to a year now I told him I have real feelings for him and wanted to know if he does for me. I told him if he doesn't to tell me and he won't hear from me anymore. He wrote back this>> I do have feelings for you, but I don't think they are as strong as yours are. I do not want you to go away but if you feel you need to I understand, then typed BIG HUGS, like usual. Is this real caring? Will he start to love me? He has told me he is slow and once told me he was scared. I am confused. I am 46 female and he is 48. Please help, sincerely?
Thanks so much!
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trust meter=very low.
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 1:11 am
i had this boyfriend about a half year ago and he took my cherry but cheated on me a month later. and then broke up with me. it really stung and i never got over him. i was mad at him for lying, and it nearly drove me over the edge.
we kept in touch for a while and reconciled our friendship. he asked me back out about 2 weeks ago. but the problem is i dont trust anything he says. we just had a fight because he told me he had something i really wanted, but wanted me to tell him something that i did the other night that i wouldnt tell him. i told him and he felt "bad" and told me the thing he had was a fake and said that he thought i'd tell him a lie.
i dont lie to him! the only thing i would lie about ...
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willlll he use me
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 10:47 pm
oaky, i met this boy a few weeks ago and we would talk and then we started getting a little closer. friday night i went to the bowling alley with a few friends and one of my friends is dating his bestfriend so he was theree and we were talkin and stuff. he calls me babe and told me he was starting to like me. he walked me home that nightt and told me he really did like me, not just starting and thenn he kissed me. thenn i went home..blah blah blahh and then he texted me the next day and said it was alot of fun and he was glad he walked me home. thenn we would just text all weekend and i went to his show last nioght, cause hes in a band and wanted me to go. his band was firstt then he came off stage and went and talked to like every girl be...
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pillowcase for anniversary
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 10:15 pm
so me and my bf's 1 year anniversary is coming up very soon.
i wanted to get matching pillow cases that just say i love you in script on them. where can i get this done?
is there a website that i can do it on and they will ship them to me or is there a store i can go to?
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BJ and HJ first time
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 10:13 pm
16/f
** sorry this might be a little graphic **
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months now and we are going pretty good. actually very good. We have been talking about doing some sexual things, but not sex. because we are both not ready and both want to wait. He is the first guy for me to do anything with and i am the first girl he has done anything with. my problem is that I am not a very sexually active girl... I dont like wearing tampons or fingering myself. so basically i'm not very comfortable sticking something "up there". (i have not told him this because i think it is too embarassing) there was a couple of times when i let him "finger" me but it was only like his fi...
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