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willlll he use me
oaky, i met this boy a few weeks ago and we would talk and then we started getting a little closer. friday night i went to the bowling alley with a few friends and one of my friends is dating his bestfriend so he was theree and we were talkin and stuff. he calls me babe and told me he was starting to like me. he walked me home that nightt and told me he really did like me, not just starting and thenn he kissed me. thenn i went home..blah blah blahh and then he texted me the next day and said it was alot of fun and he was glad he walked me home. thenn we would just text all weekend and i went to his show last nioght, cause hes in a band and wanted me to go. his band was firstt then he came off stage and went and talked to like every girl besides me..i was like okay wtf. then he came and sat next to me and grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and was cuddling with me for a while.. his ex gf was there too and he was talking to her alot but i guess there good friends..i mean he was holding me while talking to her so idk and then when i left he asked for a kiss so i did..then i went back to my friends house..the one dating his friend..and she said he told her boyfriend that he really liked me and stuff. then i texted him a few hours later and he was getting drunk with his friends and he started saying like i wanna get laid..and siht like that and i was like is that all you want he was like no im sorry its not i just get like this when im drunk..and he says he really likes me, tells his friends he does..idk what to do..
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I don't think he's trying to use you, I think hes a standard stupid teen aged male when drunk.
Tell him that "I wanna get laid" messages aren't cool, and that if hes going to drink he needs to learn to manage to still be something of a gentleman while doing it. Tell him that you don't date guys like that and that you would really like it if he made sure he wasn't a guy like that.
Should shape him up. You express interest and disapproval, he'll probably shape up.
Doesn't sound like an asshole, just sounds like he needs to grow up a bit.
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well to me its seems like he might like you but then again he was all up on other girls...maybe hes into groupie love...and the drunk calling...you know what they say truth comes out when your drunk... maybe you should try him and see whats his deal and if your not liking his flow then drop him like a bad habbit 8]]
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theres no question to be answered here. he obviously LIKES YOU. a LOT. and people change when they drink. their hornier, more "out there" side comes out and they say things they do or dont mean. maybe he does want to sleep with you, or maybe that was just the booze. who knows? only him. meanwhile, he was probably talking to all those girls to get the band more well known. its all part of having a band. they have to circulate to get popular. it meant nothing, trust me.
he obviously has a lot of feelings for you already. live in the moment! dont let doubt get in the way of a great thing that could happen.
but get to know him better before you try anything more than cuddling or kissing. :)
but take care and i wish you the best.
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