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I use to date this boy and we broke up so whatever. I was really hurt and cried all the time but now I am getting better. I really don't even like him no more. But.... He is going around telling people that I sucked his dick. (itz not true at all) I just don't know how to handle this. Everybody sayz to just ignore it and all that stuff.. But I can't. We go to the same school so I have to face this EVERY DAY. Its dayz when I don't even want to get out of bed because I know what I have to face. Can anybody help me? I am 14 years old, a female and in the 8th grade.
Please somebody.. I don't know how long I can handle this. (link)
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if i were you id make funn of it just when they say ish just be like "o yea all two inches of it" and embarrasss him...hell just stop if you make him look bad.... 8]] the more you deny the more it sounds like the truth...
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im totally and completely in love with my boyfriend. and im pretty sure he feels the same way. but im worried about our relationship.
we have sex and do foreplay, and its all nice and such. but we've only been dating a couple of months and already this flame (being our relationship) has gotten so high. im worried that in the longrun, its just going to start feeling like a routine. and then it'll get boring, and we'll both wind up bored and end up splitting.
ive waited so long for him. and i finally got him. how can i keep the flame burning high so we dont get bored?? (link)
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you could try stuff like role playing...or sex toys...just a variety of things i recommend you read karmasutra... but the other person is right too 8]]
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whats a death march? [in the times of the holocaust] (link)
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it was when they would take the jews to this hella far up a like mouain i guess you could say..
and the week people wouldnt be strong enough to make it up and they would drop dead as the were marching,....therefore death march
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HIIIIII :)
18, female.
still a virgin
well i'm just wondering how many girls do you think have gotten their cherry popped while getting fingered? i will be so embarassed if this happens to me, the guy will be grossed out, right? the guy i'm thinking about doing this with has only had one other sexual partner, and that was his girlfriend of a year and i'm pretty sure her hymen and cherry was popped before they even started becoming sexual so he has never experienced this before and it would be awkward talking about it beforehand but if while we're doing it, it happens i will be so EMBARASSED! i dont know what to do! there is a possibility that it has already popped. i've been using tampons for about 4 years now and ive played 4 sports but nothing has ever really hurt badly enough down there so i don't think it has popped? i just dont know what to do, i know its a normal thing but how do i overcome this problem. (link)
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I CAN TELL YOU THAT YEA IT CAN HAPPEN because WELL IT HAPPENED TO ME...BUT I D K IF ITS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE but it ddnt realy come out till a little bit after we were done...and it might help if you tell the guy that your a virgin and it might happen...because i dont think its a for sure...maybe if he like does it rough enough then yes but then again were all diffrent...i really think you should give him th head u though...just well to ease the embarrassment...
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alright so last night i was with this boy i like. we were sitting next to each other in the chair and i was like stretching and put my arms up and he grabbed my boob. he kept doing it and started like rubbing it and stuff, it was kind of awkward haha. i dont know if its just me, but girls do any of you feel like, um okay well what am i suppose to do while he is doing this? i think when guys touch or grab or rub my boobs, its just kind of awkward but i know they like it so its like whatever! but there were other people around, and we were under blankets so nobody else knew what was going on ;) haha. sometimes i would like push his hand away and look at him and smile. but what do you girls do when a guy does this with you? without just having to sit there and feeling awkward!
18/f! (link)
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haha you probaly shouldnt let random people/guys touch you...but what i do [[with my bf]] is i rub on his d**k...get him hard make out a little and then yea give him a ha**j*b...it feels less awkward if your doing something to him as well... but like yea NO RANDOM GUYS!
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Ok well my boyfriend and I have been talking about fooling around but hears the thing..I have never given a bj before so I was wondering if you could give me some tips on what to do. (link)
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well hey ive done this a few times with my boyfriend so i think i can help...
just remember the most important thing is lip and tongue
first:you grab it like ih you were gonna give a hand job
second:with the tip of your tongue
trace the head and the side of his dick
[just so you can get used to the taste
and feel]
third:lick your lips and cover your teeth with them
put the head in your mouth and move your tongue around...
fourth:slowly slide the rest down and make sure your lips stay moist so its easy.
last:just continue going up and down and you can
do the moves from the beggining at any time...continue until you dont wanto any more or he comes... 8] good luck
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16/f
** sorry this might be a little graphic **
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months now and we are going pretty good. actually very good. We have been talking about doing some sexual things, but not sex. because we are both not ready and both want to wait. He is the first guy for me to do anything with and i am the first girl he has done anything with. my problem is that I am not a very sexually active girl... I dont like wearing tampons or fingering myself. so basically i'm not very comfortable sticking something "up there". (i have not told him this because i think it is too embarassing) there was a couple of times when i let him "finger" me but it was only like his finger pad. so one of my questions is.... how do i get more comfortable with something "up there"??? another thing is that i have touched his dick and it was my first time and it was really weird. I didn't see anything because his pants were on, but it felt weird. I need advice on like how to give a hj and how to give a bj. and also just some supportive guidance on all of this "first time" stuff.
PLEASE no links. and in case you have forgotten, we dont want to have sex so please no tips or advice on sex. just the other stuff.
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!
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okay i just recently went through like a month ago this is what i did and it helped me ease into the whole situation this and what you gotta do for the whole fingering part is just relax and let him do his thing your not going to ever get truly conferable with anything "up there" if you think about it to much...just catch the flow...and it helps a lot if he kisses you cuz then your mind isn't really to much on whats going on in the "down there" area
as for the hand job here's what i did and it worked...obviously you have to get him hard... but it would be easier to do it if you know exactly what he wants...so grab his hand in yours and whisper in his ear[just for sexiness]"show me how you like it"...so you can get the flow and how to do it [how he likes it to be held]and then once you feel the rhythm move his hand and just imitate what he was doing...
for the bj...well basically its all tongue and lip you gotta be supper careful...what you could do is when you start start of holding it like if you were going to give him a hj then with tip of your tongue trace the head and then again with the tip of your tongue go down the side of his dick...that's kinda to ease you into how it feels...and it feels good to him...then lick your lips... and cover your teeth with them put the head in first and move your tongue around kind like with a lollipop
then just slowly push it it to your mouth as far as is conferable for you...and just do the in and out motion...and you can combine the hj and bj as you go up and down with your mouth and moving your tongue you can move your hand up and down as well yea then weather he comes in your mouth is totally up to you...but make sure to tell him ahead of time weather you want him to or not...also tell him you want to take it slow because some guys like to move your head and they get a little to rough for the first time...
GOOD LUCK
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oaky, i met this boy a few weeks ago and we would talk and then we started getting a little closer. friday night i went to the bowling alley with a few friends and one of my friends is dating his bestfriend so he was theree and we were talkin and stuff. he calls me babe and told me he was starting to like me. he walked me home that nightt and told me he really did like me, not just starting and thenn he kissed me. thenn i went home..blah blah blahh and then he texted me the next day and said it was alot of fun and he was glad he walked me home. thenn we would just text all weekend and i went to his show last nioght, cause hes in a band and wanted me to go. his band was firstt then he came off stage and went and talked to like every girl besides me..i was like okay wtf. then he came and sat next to me and grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and was cuddling with me for a while.. his ex gf was there too and he was talking to her alot but i guess there good friends..i mean he was holding me while talking to her so idk and then when i left he asked for a kiss so i did..then i went back to my friends house..the one dating his friend..and she said he told her boyfriend that he really liked me and stuff. then i texted him a few hours later and he was getting drunk with his friends and he started saying like i wanna get laid..and siht like that and i was like is that all you want he was like no im sorry its not i just get like this when im drunk..and he says he really likes me, tells his friends he does..idk what to do.. (link)
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well to me its seems like he might like you but then again he was all up on other girls...maybe hes into groupie love...and the drunk calling...you know what they say truth comes out when your drunk... maybe you should try him and see whats his deal and if your not liking his flow then drop him like a bad habbit 8]]
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18girly
Ive had a horrible past and childhood growing up...i grew up not being able to trust anyone not even my family and especially my dad...Now i am such a jealous person and i cannot trust anyone...my first boyfriend and i thought i loved just made thing even worse...but I'm over that one now...
Right now i am with my boyfriend of three years...i love him to death and i would do anything for him...but about a year ago he cheated on me with a married woman...and i found out its been going on for about a year...its been a while since that's been done with...he told me hes done with her and he wants to be with me he sorry and that he loves me...and he wants to merry me...i know he does love me...and i want to be with him more than anything in the world but i am so depressed about what he did to me...still...i cant stop thinking about all of it...i don't know what to do...but i know i want to make things work...
any advice or anything...i'm just so depressed and stressed...and confuses...
thank you for you time in reading this
Nikki (link)
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my opinion is once a cheater always a cheater...
and i think that maybe you need to take a small break to kinda watch what happens weather he still calls or if hes out triying to get ass much ass as possible before getting back to you... and just give yourself time for you... to think things through...cuz alot of guys who get cought cheating always throw the marriage card...they want their cake and they wnna eat it to...he cheated on you for a year sooo then think it through...
--------------friendly advice weather you take is up to you
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hi im 16 nearly 17 and this lad who i like said he liked me and it was great until 1 day when he stood me up and didnt let me know he wasnt going to show up
it was great before that we were like together(we wasnt but he told his mates we was) we slept together a few times and he wanted to see me every day
but now i just feel like ive been used coz we havent spoke for ages and i still really like him
i know he has commitment issues because one of his exes cheated on him with his best mate do you think that has something to do with it?
or was he just using me for sex? does anyone no? plzzzzz help (link)
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hunn i aint gonna sugar coat it...if he aint called you by now there was nothing there on his side all you were was a booty call...so keep ya head up and move on cuz your young and theres millions of guys out there to choose from...
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alrightie.
so me and this kid like each other and everything is good until his best friend always seems to get in the way.
He always tells his best friend our personal buisness and then his best friend always gives me shit for it.
and the part that pisses me off the most is that when i confront either one of them about it theyre always like well we were just kidding you always get mad over little things. his best friend is always making fun of me and telling him not to like me im getting fed up with it.
his best friend is going to ruin things between us but i really like this kid! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. (link)
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tell your guy your tiered of his friends shit and that its coming between you guys...tell him how you feel about him and that you dont want to let little things ruin what you guys have...if he doesnt try to make things better then he wasnt the one for you 8]]
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Everytime I date a boy my mom only lets me see him on the weekends. She thinks weekdays are for school and family and friends sometimes. And of course, this causes everyone to break up with me. What can I tell her? (link)
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okay i had like that same problem and what i did was i talked to my mom and told her how i really like this guy and didnt want to push him away by not spending time with him and that maybe at the very least twice a week and on weekends would be fair considering my age...so basicaly compromise
maybe group dates...or "study dates" could work...
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Hi im thirteen & i have these two guy friends that are older then me like one 16 and the others 17 . And they wanna hang out with me . But im not sure if i wanna hangout with them cause im younger and + my mom probally wouldnt aprove of me hanging out with them once she heres there ageses . Everytime they ask me to hangout with them i always have to make up an excuse that i cant that im grounded or something like that ... & there both nice . But i don't know what to do . ?
should i lie and hangout with them and sneak around or should i just keep putting them off . Please help ! Im in a giant state of confusion & id apreciate it greatley .
- torii babiiee * (link)
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honestly stay away from them because your so much younger and there probably looking for things you dont wanna encounter yet so stick with kids your age or maybe a year or two older...and stay out of trouble 8]]
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