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Jealousy and trust issues
18girly
Ive had a horrible past and childhood growing up...i grew up not being able to trust anyone not even my family and especially my dad...Now i am such a jealous person and i cannot trust anyone...my first boyfriend and i thought i loved just made thing even worse...but I'm over that one now...
Right now i am with my boyfriend of three years...i love him to death and i would do anything for him...but about a year ago he cheated on me with a married woman...and i found out its been going on for about a year...its been a while since that's been done with...he told me hes done with her and he wants to be with me he sorry and that he loves me...and he wants to merry me...i know he does love me...and i want to be with him more than anything in the world but i am so depressed about what he did to me...still...i cant stop thinking about all of it...i don't know what to do...but i know i want to make things work...
any advice or anything...i'm just so depressed and stressed...and confuses...
thank you for you time in reading this
Nikki
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my opinion is once a cheater always a cheater...
and i think that maybe you need to take a small break to kinda watch what happens weather he still calls or if hes out triying to get ass much ass as possible before getting back to you... and just give yourself time for you... to think things through...cuz alot of guys who get cought cheating always throw the marriage card...they want their cake and they wnna eat it to...he cheated on you for a year sooo then think it through...
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i feel your pain. im still with a guy that cheated on me a few months ago. but we're only in our midteens. -.-''
but just talk to him. tell him how you feel. tell him you love him but you cant fully trust him again. ask him what he'll do to earn your trust back. remember your motive: he cheated on you. YOU'RE the victim here, and hes scum (but not to you) and tell him that if he wants to make the marriage, and your relationship in general work, he has to promise to be done with other girls except you. he has to commit 110%. or no deal.
i hope it all works out for you.
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