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Crazy rumors...
I use to date this boy and we broke up so whatever. I was really hurt and cried all the time but now I am getting better. I really don't even like him no more. But.... He is going around telling people that I sucked his dick. (itz not true at all) I just don't know how to handle this. Everybody sayz to just ignore it and all that stuff.. But I can't. We go to the same school so I have to face this EVERY DAY. Its dayz when I don't even want to get out of bed because I know what I have to face. Can anybody help me? I am 14 years old, a female and in the 8th grade.
Please somebody.. I don't know how long I can handle this.
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The best thing to do is face it head on. You are just starting to get into the drama and rumors you will have to face in school. I can't tell you how many things have been said about me that wasn't even anywhere near being close to any kind of truth.
Keep your head up, and when people talk, just flat out say it isn't true. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone. If they don't believe you then they don't matter. Don't let it get you upset or ruin your day, because it just really isn't that important.
Next time you talk to him, tell him you think he's a total loser for making up such a pathetic rumor, and tell anyone who asks you about it too. He'll eventually stop.
Before long someone else will be the center of gossip, and it will pass.
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Your friends are right. Hard as it is,
try your best to ignore those rumors.
If you get upset or show it even matters,
this rumor spreader wins. He gets you upset
and that is what he wanted to do. Don't
give him the satisfaction!
Don't deny the rumors or in any way respond
to them. Your true friends know they aren't
true. But denying the rumors, unfortunately,
keeps them going and makes people think
they are probably true.
So ignoring is best. They will soon go away.
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Wow.
I'm really sorry about this situation. He shouldn't be saying all of that because it is really unnecessary and damaging. The only thing that I can really say to you, is that in life you have to live for yourself. As hard as it may be, you have to ignore the opinions of others. You have to know that as long as you know what really happened it shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks that happened. I know it isn't easy, but you have to be strong. If anyone says anything to you, then simply tell them that it isn't true and if they don't believe you, then there is nothing that you can do. This is just something that you have to face and let go so that it doesn't affect you. When people see that you are strong and confident and don't care what they think, they will stop constantly mentioning it and everything will be back to normal. Anyways I wish you the best of luck and just remember that you have the power to handle this.
All my love.
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if i were you id make funn of it just when they say ish just be like "o yea all two inches of it" and embarrasss him...hell just stop if you make him look bad.... 8]] the more you deny the more it sounds like the truth...
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