ok sorry if this is long but i really need help i dont know what to do.
me and my b.f have been going out for about 3 months soon on january 16th and recently i started talking to this guy that i met and now i think i like this guy way more then i do my own b.f. because he talks to me the way my b.f would never and tells me things we hung out yesterday and it was amazing no i didnt cheat im not like that but the problem is how can you like someone more then the person you lost your virginity to because me and my b.f had sex recently and i dont know that felt wrong like i know your first time is suppose 2 feel right but it was just all wrong and this other guy likes me and i know he doesnt becuase he told me today and im really confused
i think yea i really do like this kid but something isnt just there with me and my b.f so any advice on what i should do
oh and me and this kid have been talking for a bout a week now so im gonna have 2 wait i know and please dont give me any advice on following your heart or rap like that i herd enough of that so please anyone with normal advice please i need help i dont know if ill make a mistake by breaking it off with my b.f becuase he had a lot of problems in his life and im his longest relationship so i dont know
any advice please and i will rate high! thanxxxx =]
masterclinic answered Sunday January 4 2009, 2:20 am: Well it seems like you don't know what you want. You lost your virginity to someone your not in love with. Thats not good. Tell your boyfriend that you have feelings for someone else so you can stop wasting his time. I suggest you start thinking about what you look for in a relationship b4 you get in one. Make sure the person has almost everything you want. By almost everything i mean you can look over the little things (Doesn't have to look perfect). You need to do this so you can lessen the chance of this happening again and other things that cause relationships to end. Good luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
laurenn answered Saturday January 3 2009, 11:43 pm: welll , i know your probably expecting this, but make sure your not staying with your boyfriend just to make him happy. your happiness comes first so remember that. Alsoo if your feeling bad that you lost your virginity to him and now you don't want to be with him, remember that most people do that. I messed around with a guy i really liked but we wernt together and now we don't even talk and i think its better that way. If you like someone else make sure you really think hes better than who your with. it might just be a "show" do pro's and con's. or you may even tell your boyfriend about how this other guy is treating you better and ask him to be more like that. he may like that your talking to him about it. but don't feel GUILTY.
hope i helped(: [ laurenn's advice column | Ask laurenn A Question ]
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