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parents and my guy
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 10:49 pm
okay, so im 15 female, and im hispanic.
so this is whats going on, im talking to this boy, hes superrrrrr sexy! ahah and hes mexican and black. (i know that doesnt sound like a sexy mix, but omgggg, this boy is gorgeous ;] lol) and the problem here is that my parents dont like me dating black guys, and no there not racist, they jus think its wrong for me to be with a black guy. which i think is dumb... but anyways, im just thinking like if me and him do end up as something serious, and start going out, how would i tell my parents? cause i would like for them to know about him.. and i wouldnt be able to keep it from them cause i have older bros and cousins that will tell and then eventually they will find out! advice? thanks <33333333333
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Boy problems..
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 9:42 pm
Okay so I been talking to this really cute guy, I'm really starting to like him. Like his really nice and we talk on the phone like all the time, but the problem is I guess you can say his been know to be a player and none of my friends want me to go out with him, but he I asked him if we were to date will he cheat on me or anything and he said "No, because I know how much im really starting to hurt girls who really like me when I do that." thats what he told me plus my parents know his parents pretty good so I don't know if he'll do anything like that, but now also I guess his the kind of guy that you have t watch out on him trying to make " the moves" on you, but I know how to handle my self. So do you think I should ...
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Guy Problems
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 7:52 pm
This is a letter that I wrote to him that I'm never going to send. It sums it up: (sorta long):
I don't know what to say. I don't know now, and I won't know tomorrow, just as I didn't know yesterday. I walk dutifully to the school everyday. I look for you, just to see you laughing, just to see you smile, just to see you talk, just to watch you warm my day. Yet, you never notice me. That one class is my exception. You sit right there, in front of me, walking perfection, yet I'm the only one who sees it. Kind to everyone, serious and smart, yet funny and sporty. Even, nice to me, the one who just sits there, who's NOT funny, and has little outer beauty. I could only hope that you would look at me. Yet, you do. Just ...
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getting over a guy...
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 7:50 pm
i need to get over my ex. we dated for 9 months and he was my first love. he broke up with me on sunday but said he wanted to hang out alot over the summer and maybe if that spark came and fate brought us together we would date again but theres a really small chance so he told me to not get my hopes up. however i still want to stay really good friends with him, and he does too and he says he loves me more than a friend but not enough to be in a relationship with (can anyone explain that?) so my questions are
A.) how do i get over him?
B.) is there possibly ANYTHING i can do to reproduce that spark over the summer and remind him why he fell for me in the first place? (we also met during the summer of last year and started datin...
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only sexual
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 6:06 pm
16/f/bisexual
i feel like everyone only looks at me in a sexual way, boys and girls. i really want a true relationship but to them its only a sexual thing.
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A long story but HELP
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 2:52 pm
ok! i like two guys but of them dont really show much of attention i need from them and it kind of hurt sometimes cuz im a person who love attention from people. one of the guy have claimed me or whatever is not but just happen to tell me he need space ... complicated but the other guy who say he dont want a relationship right now but i jus found out he has a gurl but at the same time he styll wants me to be all smooch up on him he had once mention he liked me but im not pretty convince .. long story short i want to get away from this guy but it seems like he jus sticking there and getting closer and more closer he gets the more i seem to get hurt ... WAT DO I DO?
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"Intimate"?
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 1:03 pm
This is more for the older crowd on the site, but I'm open to all ideas, I suppose.
I'm 21, he's 23. For physical reasons I won't disclose here, my boyfriend and I can't have sex or do anything sexual for awhile. He's dealing with some depression symptoms, and saw his psychiatrist today. She said we should do everything we can to be intimate.
But I need some ideas as to how, exactly, to do that without airing on the sexual side of things. Sex has always been the icing on the cake for our relationship, but we both have pretty strong sex drives. We haven't been very close physically as of late, and it's kinda driving me crazy. I don't NEED to have sex with him to love him, or to show him I love him, but I need ...
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): dont know what to do
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 1:01 pm
Hey everyone, i am 15/f and i had a boyfriend that wasn't talking to me for about a week and a half, i didnt know why, then today at school he texted me and said he got a new girlfriend on saturday and that he just didnt know how to tell me. Yet he says he still loves me and that im his best friend in the world... I dont know what to do he is the only thing that has kept my living the past 9 months... Im a very depressed person, and he was the only one that was there for me, and i knoe he will still be there for me, but i also know he wont be there as much as before, and to top that off his new girlfriend hates me with a burning passion, and doesnt want hiom talking to me. Im scared i might lose my best friend because of his "girlfrien...
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Asked to death
Posted Tuesday April 28 2009, 11:55 pm
18/M
I know this question is asked to death, but I've read every one of them and they haven't helped. Maybe I'm just venting, but maybe someone can help me.
I can't ask a girl out. Simple. I've been alone with her a million times. The words get stuck in my throat like I'm choking on them. I can't push them out. I have her phone number. If I try to call her, my hand shakes so much I drop the phone. Well, not literally. I can't even do it online or in a text, even though I know that would just be insulting. I'm confident normally, but I freeze. I think things like she'll never want to talk to me again, she'll be disgusted, even though I know they're not true. I just want to ask her to go on a date with me, her to...
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Heart beats
Posted Tuesday April 28 2009, 10:26 pm
Hi everyone! Okay, this is a really dumb question, but is it normal to hear your heart beat? Like, I was sitting abnormally close to this guy I like, and he joke-flirts with me a lot because of the looks I give. These horrified looks. Well, he took my hand, and suddenly I could feel my heart beat in my neck, and it was really loud, and was going like, a hundred miles an hour. Is this normal? Sorry for the burden, I know this question is stupid. Thanks!
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help
Posted Tuesday April 28 2009, 7:14 pm
I have been dating bill for eight months. We are both 16 years old. We wrote notes to each other every day which we often exchanged at lunchtime and bought each other little gifts. But i just found out that the last two months he has been spending with another girl. I had no idea this was going on until bill told me he thought we should break up. At first i was stunned. Now i just cry every night. I'm not interested in meeting any other guys. I cant study and i don't want to anywhere with my friends what should i do ?
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what could this mean and what should i do next?
Posted Tuesday April 28 2009, 5:08 pm
16f
I'm really sorry about the length, but I'm very detailed and it's hard for me not to be but I need help!
A bit over 3 weeks ago (and about a week before spring break) I admitted to my guy friend from school (we'll call him Nathan) that I liked him in sortof an unorthodox way (it was through text during chem class while he was sitting behind me, it was stupid but we;ve gotten past that). Nathan didn't respond and we didn't talk for a couple days but we started talking 2 or three days before break and the only thing i found out what that I pretty much scared the shit out of him, but that was the last time we spoke about it. A week ago we got back from break. The awkwardness is still sortof there but most of it has dissolv...
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Horrible predicament with girlfriend...
Posted Tuesday April 28 2009, 3:56 am
Hey everyone. 19/male here.
My girlfriend (18) and I have been going out for almost 8 months, and so far we have mostly had fun. This has been my first serious relationship and I am completely in love with her. We do fight somewhat often, but we usually manage to work it out and make up. Unfortunately, we both have different goals for both the summer and for the future... she wants to move out by the end of the summer because she can't stand her family and needs to get her own space and be her own person. She says this is a necessity and she has to do it with or without me. I originally told her I was on board, but after really thinking about that I don't know if i'm ready, or if I can take a semester off of college t...
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so i met someone thru facebook...
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 10:58 pm
16/f
Some guy clicked on me on the 'Are You Interested' app on FB and added me. nbd, its happened before. I'm not really into that type of stuff but I really didn't think much of it. But we started talking and we have a bunch of mutual friends (he lives a town or two over). We've only been talking for a few days but he keeps calling me "beautiful," saying "we're perfect for each other," etc etc. I think he wants to start a relationship & start seeing each other in 'real life' (for lack of a better term) but online dating just seems really weird to me. Like I never use that application and when guys talk to me, I reply but only as a friend, not really flirtatiously. idk I just really don't feel comforta...
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FLIRTING
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 9:04 pm
15/f
my friends tell me when they notice that guys are hitting on me and flirting, personally i cant tell at all! how do i know! how do i know when i am!?
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help with self consciousness
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 8:07 pm
okay, i'm 15/f and i am a bit taller than thhis boy who likes me and to tell the truthn im starting to like him. the only problem is my self consciousness of being tall. im usually not this shallow but if u were me, u would probably feel the same way. i was hoping somone could give me some advice on not caring about what other people thought and being more confident in myself and what i want! tips please!!!
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he told me, "i got you.."
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 8:01 pm
18- female. so i've been friends for this guy joe for about four years now. we were like best friends until his girlfriend came between us for three years. i see him like once a month now when i use to be with him all the time. i was talking to him last night and i poured my heart out to him. this is what i said:
today i was really mad and so i went out with matt. well he wanted to know what was wrong and i realized that i couldnt let myself tell him and it made me reazlie that you really the only guy that i could tell everything to before but now i pretty much feel like i can't tell you anything. its like were not even friends anymore and that scared the sh*t out of me because i cant trust any other guy. and now that i dont ...
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should she leave or shouls she go
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 5:17 pm
see my bestfriend meet a guy and she has falln in love with this guy and i mean in the begining things were goin great but then out the bkue one day we found out he has been texting our other best friend (at the time the other best friend didint knw about her) so we set him up and when we al pop up together he looks really stupid but anyways he ends up act n funny after the whole thing goes dwon so im jus sayn should she stay or should she go but keep in mind that she is so in love with him
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Dont wanna Lose Him
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 5:05 pm
I have this friend and she was best friends with my ex and well things started to get bad in our relationship and when we broke up, I told her "Oh, I like..(lets say)..Bob". She told my ex I liked Bob, and I was upset because thanks to her it seemed like I cheated on him when really he cheated on me. I started liking Bob, and I realized to not trust this "friend" anymore. I started going out with Bob and I told my friend not to talk to Bob because I didnt trust her with my relationships, thinking she will ruin this one too. Hopefully not yet, but I dont want her to. How can I save my relationship? What if she tries to ruin it again? Bob is my friend's ex though but she doesnt care about him and I believe he doesnt care a...
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i really like him
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 5:00 pm
there is this guy and me and him have been okay friends for about 2 years. him and my best friend have dated before and she still is so in love with him. but if she found out i liked him she wouldnt talk to me anymore but, she dated him when i liked him. so doesnt that it ok? i dont know if its ok to like him like that. **also my other best friend likes him too** i dont know what to do!!?
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