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parents and my guy
okay, so im 15 female, and im hispanic.
so this is whats going on, im talking to this boy, hes superrrrrr sexy! ahah and hes mexican and black. (i know that doesnt sound like a sexy mix, but omgggg, this boy is gorgeous ;] lol) and the problem here is that my parents dont like me dating black guys, and no there not racist, they jus think its wrong for me to be with a black guy. which i think is dumb... but anyways, im just thinking like if me and him do end up as something serious, and start going out, how would i tell my parents? cause i would like for them to know about him.. and i wouldnt be able to keep it from them cause i have older bros and cousins that will tell and then eventually they will find out! advice? thanks <33333333333
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Just talk to your parents and tell them that you really like this guy and you know that they dont approve but he makes you happy. Tell them to remember that your only 15 and you and this kid most likely arent going to last. That you just want to see whats out there. And hopefully they will understand and if not then tell them that your old enough to make your own decisions and if they dont like that then you dont need to tell them whats going on in your life. But whatever you do dont hide it from your parents they will find out and it will just make them not trust you. Hope i helped =]
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Keeping him from your parents, if something became serious would be bad. What I would suggest doing, is to wait, and see if this 'relationship in progress' goes anywere...
If it looks like it's going to start up soon enough, have a 'sit down' with your parents and talk it out. Explain to them that you really have feelings for this boy, and if they love you they'll respct that. If, they are still uncertain, maybe have them meet with this boy before things get to serious and then they can see that maybe 'black boys' aren't as nad as they thought..
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