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My boyfriend is 19, is our relationship illegal?


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 5:16 pm

Hey, I'm Hayley, and my boyfriend is 19. I was just wondering if there was any laws against the age of dating? I know they're laws against sex, but we haven't had sex and he hasn't forced me to do anything sexual at all. As a matter of fact, I don't even want to have sex until I'm married and ready.

I'm actually 13, and I've been called a whore for dating him. The names won't change how I feel about him, but some people just don't know how to shut up. Is our relationship, illegal? Can he be charged? Should we break up so he doesn't get in trouble?

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closure


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 2:28 pm

i'm seventeen/female.
i need closure from a guy that i have been talking to for almost two years now, yes i like im a lot but i just don't see this going anywhere because it hasnt so far. he is holding me back from other guys.

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Ribs showing , going to white water with girl i like.


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 1:37 am

Well heres the problem. im a 13 year old guy who used to have a reallly skinny body but iv been working out for about 9 months and iv gained a lot more muscle mass and i look better too. But before i started working out a lot of my ribcage was sticking out, but i never really paid attention. Now since iv been working out its gotten alot better and less shows but it still sticks out. im going to WhiteWater with the girl i like and some other guys and girls too in 5 days, 6-20-09 . i wanted to know if there is anyway i can reduce the amount of rib that sticks out. And another question, i wanted to know the things NOT to do and how to be nice and friendly to her. or what i can do to get her attention. THANK YOU.

Sincerely,
Ashkon.

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Were to turn


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 6:48 pm

okay well...you see im in love with this boy..lets call him Jasper...lol..but yeah like we went out for 5 mounths, but Jasper felt that he needed to be alone and that he didnt want the responsibility of me or something i didnt understand that. But yeah the first day we wnet out he told me that he would never leave me,and i believed him,stupied girl i am..but he said the reason he said that is cuz he has never had a real gf so he felt that he would never leave the one he does get. then i was dead inside like you have no idea i felt horrablie without him, he started to too i could tell he was going to crack soon.. but then like he told me that he doesnt want to date anyone for like a year which made me cry even more. Then last thursday he tol...

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major love triangle


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 6:12 pm

i'm going to try and keep this short! i dated david*, broke up with him due to lack of feelings, now i'm starting to like his cousin whom i've been friends with before i dated david. however, the cousin likes MY cousin...

should i tell him that i like him? or should i just not say anything at all?

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how to excite my man?


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 5:19 pm

i'm asking both guys/girls for advice on this subject. so, my boyfriend and i have been heating things up lately, (having sex, naked makeout sessions, etc.) but i've been looking for new ways to turn him on while we're making out/laying near each other. so girls, tell me your dirty little tricks to get him horny, and guys, tell me what you like. (eg. kissing tricks, what to do with my hands?) thanks, anything will help. [:

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Should I divorce him? Kids involved.


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 4:14 pm

I have been married for 7 years. It has not been the easiest of roads. However, usually things seem to work out, but only to go down the same rocky roads over and over again. My husband has been my best friend, a good provider, and a good daddy. However, he goes on drinking binges. When he does, his brother is usually over here. His brother is a very nasty man that my husband happens to adore. His brother gets really friendly with me, and I usually take the kids and leave. Or my husband gets a nasty attitude with me and I have to take the kids and stay with a friend or at a hotel. This happens about every other month. I have begged him to get counseling and he promises never to drink again, only for his brother to come over and th...

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How do I make my wife fall in love with me again?


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 3:40 pm

I recently discovered that my wife isn’t in love with me anymore. She hasn’t left me, but it’s come pretty close. I know that after we had our child, that the spark hasn’t been there. Our focus has become our child and our careers. I also know that I have made some mistakes in our marriage. But I do believe that I am a good man, and a good husband. She doesn’t have high hopes that we can ever get back what we used to have, but I do believe we can get through this. I love my wife more than words can describe and I just want to win her heart back. Has anyone gone through this and succeeded? Can anyone give me advice on how to make her fall back in love with me?

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Treating her rough


Posted Sunday June 14 2009, 12:46 pm

Hi. 17/m. A week or so ago, my girlfriend said she likes when I treat her 'rough', but how can I do this? I don't realize what I'm doing when I'm with her, so I don't know what I did that was rough? So yeah...how to treat her rough, without being too agressive? Thanks.

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torn between two


Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 10:43 pm

Hey im 18/f Im torn between two really great guys. This may be kinda long but i rate high! So my current boyfriend matt hes 21 and i really like him we've been dating for about 6 months and the relationship was going sooo great in the beginning and now its slowing down and not so exciting which i understand relationships are like that! We also started noticing we're starting to fight with each other. The other guy is 18 and hes one of the guys i went to school with. We've always had a thing but never really acted on it. Hes so nice and hes in the military which kinda stinks because he told me he was going to get deployed in 2010 he was told. The only bad thing about that situation is that hes going to be gone for a while =( they're both suc...

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Guy only, pleaseee.


Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 6:03 pm

How long do you have to give one head for him to cum? I mean like, i've given my bf head, but only for like 5 minutes, I feel like he doesn't even feel good. I mean I know what i'm doing, and everything, but idk. & he always gets mad when I stop. So should this mean that he likes it ? Or..

Thanks in advancee ! <3

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Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 3:18 pm

Im a 19 year old female and have not had sex yet. I had a boyfriend for a couple months but he we never tried to have sex. I really want to experience it before i turn 20. Is it worth it? And is it ok for it to be someone i really dont want to be with? I dont know what to do!!!

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Being called a "Tease"


Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 2:50 pm

16/f So Ive been in my relationship for 9 Months and we have Not had sex, we plan to wait for a while. So We were making out the other day and I am the one who kinda started the making out, But then when we started to make out I just stopeed and smiled and didnt continue... So He looked at me and called me a tease, now Im not positive what a tease is and is it a good thing or bad?!

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my boyfriend.


Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 1:47 pm

hello i am 16yrs old and me and my boyfriend have been dating your about 2yrs and he said i should go on the pill just in case it happens and i told him that i wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but he like always carries a condom and i am scared he mit prssure me into doing it and i even sat him down and talked to him about it and he bought me a loundry outfit from victorias secret for my bday and i am getting kinda scared please anyone help me thank you!

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Need someone to talk to asap about something..


Posted Saturday June 13 2009, 12:16 am

I dont really want to post it on here so if you are good at giving relationship advice, then message me on AIM: xxdont4get143xx


Thanks!

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Not seeing him entire summer


Posted Friday June 12 2009, 11:45 pm

My boyfriend and I have just started going out, as of a few weeks. And I just found out that I won't be able to see him until end of august. I'm going to be at volleyball nationals the entire month of June, and then he is a camp counselor and will be working from July until august. I truly believe that I love him and I can't take my mind off him. He's so amazing. I'm already crying because I know how tough this will be and I don't think I can endure it. He won't even be able to text or talk on the phone that much. I honestly think I'll go crazy...

I need advice on what to do. How do I make myself feel happy? I don't want to forget about him and I don't want to get together with another guy. But I don't want our time apart to ...

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Posted Friday June 12 2009, 11:27 pm

im doing a class project and have to find out how many people die a second. anybody know?

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How to talk to him?


Posted Friday June 12 2009, 10:37 pm

15/f
Hey,Okay so my mum and dad just started renting a pub

its owned by this reallyy nice local family who are fairly well off. see the father is a polititan and his eldest son just got elected.
anywho,so the youngest son is 17 and reallyy good looking and nice..there was a big party on last saturday night after his brother got elected and i had to work behind the bar everytime he came up to it he smiled at me,I Kept catching his eye all night too.

my mum told me today that the other day he asked her who I was that he thought I was nice & pretty ,my mum didnt let on I was his daughter though and she said oh "thats jess,shes only 15 though"
she said he laughed then and said t...

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confusing crush


Posted Friday June 12 2009, 10:10 pm

13/f
my freind recently told me that he liked me i didnt make a big deal of it because i think im too young to date. now when i ask him who he likes he doesnt ever give me a staright answer but he makes it seem like its not me anymore. He told a lot of people that he likes this other girl in my school that i think is really bad for him. today i asked him if he really did like her and he said that he was just lying.. i really want him to still like me because i like him back to but i think i lost my chance, how can i get him to tell me who he really likes? i've already askeed him many times and he wont tell me so how do i get him to??

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best friend love


Posted Friday June 12 2009, 10:02 pm

14/f
I've had this huge crush on my best friend (who is a guy) and i've always been to afraid to tell him or anyone. People were always teling us that we should go out cause we act like a couple and we look cute together but nothing ever happened. Last week he told me that he has had a huge crush on me since spring break and he asked me out. i didnt give him an answer but i realized that i didnt like him anymore..is that normal to not like someone after liking them for a year? i dont know what happened. please help me figure out what to do

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