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Im a 19 year old female and have not had sex yet. I had a boyfriend for a couple months but he we never tried to have sex. I really want to experience it before i turn 20. Is it worth it? And is it ok for it to be someone i really dont want to be with? I dont know what to do!!!
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Personally, I don't think it's worth it. You want to lose your virginity to him just so you can say you lost it before you were twenty? Why not wait until just the right moment with just the right person? Is the age as important as the person? It's up to you.
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I personally don't think it's okay to have sex with someone who you don't really want to be with. Sex is a really emotional thing, and can drain you if you're not ready for it. Trust me when I say that if you have sex with someone you don't really can't see yourself with, or care for, you're going to regret it.
You should wait until you're with someone you truly love. If you just have any random hook-up, it's just regret that's going to build up & you won't be able to change what's already been done. Losing your virginity is supposed to be special. How special can it possibly be if it's with someone you don't care for?
Just wait. Sex is too much for someone to handle when they're not ready. Clearly, you're not.
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I think a lot of people don't realize the emotional baggage that comes along with sex. If you're truly in love with your boyfriend and you feel ready -- than do what you feel is best. I don't suggest you having sex with someone you dont really want to be with. If you have to question it this much, I highly suggest that you don't. Just doing it for the sake of doing it, is never a good idea. Hope this put it into perspective for you. If you have any questions or need anything feel free to message me.
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I personally think that you should wait untill you find someone you care about, & expirence it with them. Other than just anyone. But if you do choose to just do it with anyone, you'll most deffinatly regret it. I suggest you wait, and you'll thank me later (:
I hope I helpeddd<3
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