My boyfriend and I have just started going out, as of a few weeks. And I just found out that I won't be able to see him until end of august. I'm going to be at volleyball nationals the entire month of June, and then he is a camp counselor and will be working from July until august. I truly believe that I love him and I can't take my mind off him. He's so amazing. I'm already crying because I know how tough this will be and I don't think I can endure it. He won't even be able to text or talk on the phone that much. I honestly think I'll go crazy...
I need advice on what to do. How do I make myself feel happy? I don't want to forget about him and I don't want to get together with another guy. But I don't want our time apart to ruin my summer. Even though it kinda already has. What do I do???
I know how old-fashioned and lame that sounds, but it could work. If you sent letters to each other, then you would always be looking forward to getting a response back, and it could help you keep your mind on him, and keep hope that you do eventually get to see him again.
jpar answered Saturday June 13 2009, 10:43 am: Try to make the best of it. I have been in a similar position and what I did was mope around all year. Thats right a year. But if I made it you can make it. I am still waiting. It may seem like forever. Just make the best of what time you have left. Go and keep your mind off things. But all I want to do was mope. But not good idea. Make the best of your summer and go back to him [ jpar's advice column | Ask jpar A Question ]
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