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hello i am 16yrs old and me and my boyfriend have been dating your about 2yrs and he said i should go on the pill just in case it happens and i told him that i wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but he like always carries a condom and i am scared he mit prssure me into doing it and i even sat him down and talked to him about it and he bought me a loundry outfit from victorias secret for my bday and i am getting kinda scared please anyone help me thank you!
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Do not feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do.
Tell your boyfriend you want to wait until marriage to have sex, which is really honorable.
If he can't accept that, he's probably not worth it anyway.
--Jack
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Okay, first of all -- it is YOUR body. Don't forget that. Just because he suggests you to go on the pill, doesnt mean you need to do it. If you've already expressed to him your desire to wait until marriage, than he should respect your wishes and not pressure you. Always remember that you can say NO, and he cannot make you do anything you do not want to do. If he does, that's a whole different can of worms. In your relationship -- there needs to be respect and if he cannot respect your wishes than he's not worth it.
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You know, if you don't wanna have sex then don't. It's not that hard.
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It might seem scary now but it is just the mind of a typical boy. He is almost like a girl who likes to prepare in advance. For example, the prom, a girl will plan a prom up to 2 years in advance. You have nothing to worry about unless he physically tries to take your clothes off. Until he does that, you have nothing to worry about. If it does go this far then you need to be strong and set boundaries for him. Let him know who is in control and in charge.
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