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How to talk to him?
15/f
Hey,Okay so my mum and dad just started renting a pub
its owned by this reallyy nice local family who are fairly well off. see the father is a polititan and his eldest son just got elected.
anywho,so the youngest son is 17 and reallyy good looking and nice..there was a big party on last saturday night after his brother got elected and i had to work behind the bar everytime he came up to it he smiled at me,I Kept catching his eye all night too.
my mum told me today that the other day he asked her who I was that he thought I was nice & pretty ,my mum didnt let on I was his daughter though and she said oh "thats jess,shes only 15 though"
she said he laughed then and said that wouldnt bother him considering hes only 17 and that he thinks im nice
then mum goes "shes my daughter" and he obviously got all embarassed.
anyway my problem really is that i really like him and hes coming in to help clear the office overhead and mum asked me to help so basicly itl just be the two of us up there working all day..im worried about what to talk to him about?I dont wanna say something stupid or look like an idiot.
and do you think he likes me?(my friend said she thinks he does but like weve never properly even talked and i find it hard to believe how he could like me he could probably have anyone)
or what mum said scared him off?,should i even try start something with him or am I just kinda running away with the idea that something will happen and being naive
sorry if this seems stupid but id aprciate any advice or opinions on what I should do and how to go about it! i sometimes get nervous and mess stuff up when i really like someone and I dont know how to not!
thanks for any help,
sorry if this is long! =)
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Be yourself. Honestly, that's my advice in a nutshell. If you try to change yourself to impress him or dumb yourself down to not intimidate him, you're leading him in a different direction.
If you're honest about who you are, and how you act, and he starts liking you, then you know he's liking you FOR YOU, not for what you're pretending to be.
Talk about things you'd talk with any male friend of yours.
--Jack
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this is whats called "lowering the rent". and your mom's obviously trying to hook you guys up. just bullshit with him while you're up in the office. its not that hard, just don't act too nervous. you're pretty much going to get with him at this point. don't fuck it up by being completely silent all day, or talking too much. thats the only way you can.
-gunner
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The truth is, you are both attracted to eachother, but how could you really like eachother when you don't even know the first thing about what is important to the other.
When you are hanging around up there working, make it a point to find out these kind of things. What music does he like? What things does he take seriously. What does he think should change about the world, and what does he think is just fine. What does he plan on doing next year, after that, and after that?
Really, you should look at it like you have an infinate amount of subjects at your disposal, since you don't know anything about him. Could you even name who his best friend is?
I wouldn't concentrate on trying to find out if he likes me or not until he knows me.
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You should get to know him better. Yea you could ask for his number or just give him yours. I think that it is better to ask if he likes you. Its better then not knowing. But dont make a big deal about it. Maybe he does like you. But dont expect him to say yes. It will get your hopes. Dont expect no it will bum u out. expect nothing. expect only a reply. does that me sence?
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