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Ribs showing , going to white water with girl i like.
Well heres the problem. im a 13 year old guy who used to have a reallly skinny body but iv been working out for about 9 months and iv gained a lot more muscle mass and i look better too. But before i started working out a lot of my ribcage was sticking out, but i never really paid attention. Now since iv been working out its gotten alot better and less shows but it still sticks out. im going to WhiteWater with the girl i like and some other guys and girls too in 5 days, 6-20-09 . i wanted to know if there is anyway i can reduce the amount of rib that sticks out. And another question, i wanted to know the things NOT to do and how to be nice and friendly to her. or what i can do to get her attention. THANK YOU.
Sincerely,
Ashkon.
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Honestly, if the girl isn't interested in you because of your body, then she's shallow. You can't control your ribs, can you? Didn't think so ;]
As for talking to her, just be yourself. Don't try to change how you normally are just to impress her, because if she ends up liking you, it's for someone you definitely aren't.
Just compliment her, but not too much. Laugh and smile.
That's about it.
--Jack
(17/m)
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look man im going to give you some personal advice here when i was in wrestling i used to eat alot of protein because it makes you look bigger like in the ribs and stuff you look buffer but youll have to eat alot and your going to gain some weight in muscle but after you eat it try to do some bench press btw im 13 too and when im with a girl i try to compliment her on her loos like for example you look really preety and then move up when you feel comfortable but dont creep her out either
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Hey there, =]
okay honestly all I can tell you is theres not much you can do to reduce your ribs sticking out thats just something you have to come to terms with everyone as bodie parts and stuff their insecure about like when I go to the beach in a bikini even though I have a slim figure I get seriously paronied that people are looking at me,but then i remind myself how ridiculous are and the reality is people dont even care! chances are your friends and the girl you like arent even going to notice trust me,the only way they will is if you draw attention to it by being insecure about it. be confident in yourself and it will show =] thats also a great way to get the girls attention (but dont be cocky or anything)
your friends wont care they will hardly notice and if they do make some smart comment ehich they more then likely wont,can you really consider them friends?
okay moving on to the girl the best way to get her attention is to be yourself in a nut shell.
ask her stuff about herself what kinda music she likes etc things shes interested in i know it can be a bit intimidating but us girls love when a guy is interested in us and talks to us and actually tries to get to know us! trust me =]
just relax be yourself and youl be fine!
good luck hope i helped and have fun,
Much <3
Jess.15/f
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Hello, I obviously don't know what your body looks like since there's no picture, so I really can't tell you much.
What I can tell you, though, is I was born with a condition where my chest is a little concaved and my two last bottom ribs stick out. its horrible. i plan on getting surgery pretty soon, im 19.
but here's a tip. wear a wifebeater.. it might make you feel more comfortable all in all...
hope this helps a bit!
sincerely,
heirdusoleil
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