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Should I ask or should I wait for him to ask me out?


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 5:05 pm

Hi!!(Sorry it's long... please read?)


Well, the guy I like he dated me first, than he broke up with me for my friend. :/ when dating my friend,I warned him about her,before that. She's never 100% to her boyfriends and that she liked many guys before while dating someone (and she did while dating him she even asked someone else out while dating him!) I told him I was worried that he would get hurt, and he did..really bad. He told me he was sorry for not listening to me, and he put me in his top on Myspace. That made me happy, but I was sixth and my friend who broke his heart was first and a girl a grade younger than me was 2nd. He asked me to the movies,(I was so nervous..I don't think it was a date but he acted l...

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I know there must be a reason why he did this, but what?


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 4:30 pm

16F

Quick sidestory: told the guy i liked, we'll call him R, that I liked him a bit less than 2 and a half months ago, we were pretty good friends before that. He didn't respond, we didn't talk until 4 days later, we're still friends but things are still somewhat awkward and we're not the friends we used to be. He still never gave a clear response to it, we literally barely spoke about it, which isn't surprising because that's how he is.

So my friend, who we'll call N, is also a close friend of R's. We all have chemistry together, so I figured as long as N and I needed to study and get his help, I'd invite them over to my house so I could accomplish SOMETHING with him after all of this. So I told N about ...

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Decision


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 3:57 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for about seven months but we were close friends before that. Our relationship has never been plain sailing and we have had countless problems and arguments, even briefly splitting up once or twice. Recently it's just got to the point where we're barely together. We rarely see each other, when we speak on the phone we just argue. Neither of us know what we want, we've said 'I love you' to each other but I don't feel like that anymore.

I keep thinking about my ex and how happy I was with him, we split up over a year ago but I know I'm just thinking like that because I'm not happy with my current boyfriend.

I know it sounds obvious that we should just split up, but everytime I try and ...

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Boysss :|


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 2:08 pm

Okay so my promblem is I am torn
between two guys. My boyfriend and I have
dated before this twice, and we broke
up because we sort of just "died off"
and got annoyed with eachother. He's
really sweet and I can tell he generally
cares for me. But this other guy that we
will call "Ivan" feels like he is the one.
He is so honest and innocent and has my
best intrest in mind. And I fall for him
more and more eachtime we talk. My boyfriend
is out of town & keeps thinking I am
going to cheat on him and that's something
I would never do :|

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This guy I met at golf camp.


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 1:49 pm

So I'm doing golf camp throughout the summer and there is this boy there. I like him alot and hes really cute but I dont know if he likes me. He always wants to be on my team when we have games and compititions. One time I was sitting on the ground with my knees bent and he hit a ball through my legs. One day me and my friend were talking about how we were going to go to the movies after camp that day. After the movie was over we stood up and saw him sitting right behind us, we think he followed us. He always seems to be listening to me and my friends talk at lunch. I dont know if he likes me or not, could anyone give me a hint?

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bi?


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 12:01 pm

So I met some girls and I was hanging out with them well I have been hanging with one the past 3 days and when I leave al I can do is think about her and wantin to see her asap I am straight but could I be turning?

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WHAT DO I DO?????


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 11:49 am

There's this guy named Airronn. I've known him for 3 yrs and we dated a couple times, but i broke up with him because he was cheating. The last time I broke up with him I told him it was his last chance with me and he'll never get another one. Now he's calling me all the time and begging to get back with me and wants to know who called me and told me he was cheating and i dont know what to do anymore. I still love him, but I really dont want to get hurt again =( HELP ME!!!

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in love with him but dont want to be


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 6:44 am

18/F

I'm in love with a man I've known for many years, but the problem is, i don't want to be. He's hurt me so many times and lied to me...but no matter what, he's always in my mind. I get so jealous when he's with another woman..even though I'm in a relationship with someone else who i've been with for a few months.

I don't know what to do. When i talk to him or see him i become weak..he knows i love him and he keeps saying he loves me, even after he recently almost got engaged to another woman. these feelings i have for him wont go away and i really want them to. someone helpp
:(

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My exboyfriend and first love wants me back. I'm 19


Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 2:42 am

I was in a very, very close relationship with a guy last summer. We were in a committed relationship for five months. I was 18, now I'm 19. He was 20, now he's 21. It was our both first real relationship. It seemed perfect.

Anyways, he broke up with me in August. It seemed out of the blue. I cried a lot and was very depressed. In September, we got together because I hoped that we could start a relationship again. He ended up using me for sex and then ignored me. This happened again in late October because I still missed him. So he used me twice, basically.

Then in late December, he contacted me again. This time, I told him that I wanted friendship or a relationship and nothing in between. Of course, he stopped ...

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In love and confused?


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 11:08 pm

Okay so I am honestly in love with this guy, but he doesn't feel the same way about me. He told me a while back that when he broke up with me he knew we'd never be able to date again but I have this feeling that says I don't think he was telling the truth when he told me that. At the same time there are some people who have shown interest in me, and I mean my mind tells me it's just smart to move on and not keep emotionally hurting myself over this guy, but also wouldn't it be unfair to both the guy I'd be dating and to myself if I dated them while I was actually in love with another guy? I've tried getting over him but I just can't, and I feel as if I could wait for him forever even if I never did get him back. I know I'm young, but I als...

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Dose she like me?


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 10:46 pm

Ok I was at a party and I was kind of fliritng with this girl. We were both sober. Later that night we sat next to each other on the couch and she let me put my arm around her. Then the two of us made out in the rain. When I left the party I texted her later that day and asked what her favorite part of the party was. She replied it was meeting me. Is there more to this or is this just like a party hookup kinda.

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for him? romantic


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 10:30 pm

i want to get my bf something nice but i don't really know what to get him. i've got about a hundred dollars and i don't want it to jus be a gift.
i want it to be like a romantic thing, symbolism of my love for him sort of thing.
what do guys think is romantic?
i don't want physical things, i just want things that guys think are cute and romantic.
ideas?
thankssxx

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stuck between the two.


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 9:02 pm

ive been dating this guy on and off for about 9 months now and big problem he hurt me alot and hes a reall bad boy drugs sex alcohol. he played me with other girl.. not because hes a player just because of where he was raised and how his mom and dad werent really in his life so he felt lonely and depended on girls to fill that whole and not only one girl can satisfy him which kills me inside. because i love him so much i want to help him become a better person but what had happened was he had left me hanging after i lost my virginity to him and a week later he calls and he apologizes and now we're sort of together but he's opening up to me and he's actually seeing his wrong and changing attending school no more drugs out of the playing girl...

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Does he really love me?


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 8:52 pm

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a yeah and a half and I love him to death. We both went to a place called job corps and I graduated 4 months before he will be graduating. Every time I try and talk to him he acts funny but when I'm with him he seems like his normal self. He's caring loving and willing to do anything for me. but when he's not around and back at job corps he acts different. What do you think that means. I love him and he acts like he loves me. What do you think is going on up there when I'm not around? Do you think he still loves me?

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Posted Monday June 15 2009, 8:52 pm

Im 13.9 years old and I rarely get a girl friend. I have made out before. I think it's because Im a tinny bit overwhieght , Im 5'3 and whiegh 145, Is this the reason , I am normal , I hang around with all the popular guys.

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i like this girl who's taken


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 8:33 pm

I'm a 15 year old, pansexual, girl. I told one of my friends that i think this girl is absolutely gorgeous and seems sweet, i don't really know her but i wanted to get to know her. so my friend messaged the girl her telling her that i think she's gorgeous, she answered back, "this valid", and my friend never answered back cause she's never online and i tried calling and texting her but she's grounded, so my friend can't respond back to her reply. My friend sent that message a DAY before she got taken by this guy. I really, really wanted to get to know her, but it's to late and i feel like a fool. what am i supposed to do now?

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Posted Monday June 15 2009, 8:03 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. We get really mad because we RARELY get alone time. Every time we are together someone always interrupts. Even if were in the middle of nowhere there was always an interruption. But we've had our kisses and stuff we just don't like to do it that much in public. So, i was wondering how we can get to be alone? Also we haven't officially kissed like make-out and stuff. The relationship isn't getting boring but i want to go further if you know what i mean. How can i do that? & Some tips on making out would be helpful please.

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Posted Monday June 15 2009, 7:25 pm

Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

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How to closer connect with my girlfriend over the internet


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 5:54 pm

I've been talking to this girl for over a year now. I'm 29 and she is 19 and we talk for hours! We talked for 11 hours straight Saturday even. We haven't talked on the phone or anything like that yet though. She lives in Canada and I live in the states. I suggested that we could call each other but she can't because she is afraid of what her parents would think of me because her mom pays her cell phone bill and she looks at who she calls. We have talked about meeting some time but I told her that I'm not in too big of a hurry because she is definately worth the wait. She is afraid that her family won't give me a chance because of one she met me off the internet and two of my age being so much different than hers.

So do you t...

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Kissing my girlfriend on the forehead


Posted Monday June 15 2009, 5:31 pm

Is it okay to kiss my g/f on her forehead while we hug? Would she find that weird or ok? I love her a lot and want to show more affection for her. I don't want to make her uncomfortable or unhappy though. What are your thoughts on a guy kissing his girlfriend on the forehead?

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