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Should I ask or should I wait for him to ask me out?
Hi!!(Sorry it's long... please read?)
Well, the guy I like he dated me first, than he broke up with me for my friend. :/ when dating my friend,I warned him about her,before that. She's never 100% to her boyfriends and that she liked many guys before while dating someone (and she did while dating him she even asked someone else out while dating him!) I told him I was worried that he would get hurt, and he did..really bad. He told me he was sorry for not listening to me, and he put me in his top on Myspace. That made me happy, but I was sixth and my friend who broke his heart was first and a girl a grade younger than me was 2nd. He asked me to the movies,(I was so nervous..I don't think it was a date but he acted like it) and I went with him, he was SUCH a gentlemen!! He pulled down my drink holder for me, shared his candy with me and he wore cologne.. and he kept wiping his hands on his pants. So he was nervous to?? Why? Was he trying to impress me?? He told my friend (I asked her to ask him..haha) if it was a date he said "no". So?? I'm so confused!! The next day my friends and I 4 wayed him on the phone and he didn't talk that much and he said " There's to many people on here...and I have to go". Than he hanged up. So did I. A few minutes later he called ME, and he asked if I liked the movie , we talked it was cool..and I was happy because he only called me once before. :) So.. what's going on? I really like this guy..he's like my best friend..and he cares and he knows I'll always be here for him. I want to date him but, I want him to ask me out.. my friend asked him if he liked me and he said "as a friend", but for some reason he lies, when people ask him about me, because the first time I asked him out(my friends asked him) he said no.. so I gave up and I was going to talk about it to him why he always says yes than no..and he said he liked me and he's like I thought you were going to ask me out. I told him I was but you said no. So..I'm confused!! What should I do..should I wait or ask him out?? I really don't want to get hurt again.
Thanks for reading!
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Well maybe you should confront him yourself instead of friends. Sometimes friends have big mouth's and might tell everyone and he'll get mad. Give him time and just keep hanging out with him outside school and maybe flirt a little. If he flirts back he will probably ask you out within the monthh. Good luckk!
Tiffany♥
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It seems like you've already asked him a lot.
So give him the chance.
If you find yourself having waited too long, then maybe just move on.
But, I would give him a month. Some guys get nervous about asking girls out. It's nerve-wracking!
--Jack
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