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WHAT DO I DO?????
There's this guy named Airronn. I've known him for 3 yrs and we dated a couple times, but i broke up with him because he was cheating. The last time I broke up with him I told him it was his last chance with me and he'll never get another one. Now he's calling me all the time and begging to get back with me and wants to know who called me and told me he was cheating and i dont know what to do anymore. I still love him, but I really dont want to get hurt again =( HELP ME!!!
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he's cheated on you.
That's it game over, isn't it?
I always say, if he does it once, he'll do it again. How could he feelings for you, but magically erase them away to cheat with someone else - he couldnt = he never really had strong feelings. He never took it seriously..and thats his mistake right there
People get second chances in life, but you have dated a couple of times, he should of learnt from his mistakes a long time ago. simple.
you deserve someone who is going to treat you right, and only you.
Of course, you still have feelings for him, they dont just disappear..(unless your him!)
Answer his call. But you tell him, you dont want to date at the moment. You just need a break, and some time (whether you reallly do need a break..or you never want to date him again is up to you) so he will leave you alone - and that will help you get over him because he wont be calling you - reminding you of him. Try to shut out all ways of communication with him, just for a bit so you can have space to breath, and have a take on the situation.
Also, he has been calling you a lot. But I bet he isnt really concerned with you- he just wants to know who said he cheated.
Don't fall into the trap, he doesnt deserve you.
Plus, going back out will be such a bust, as there will be no loyalty,faith or trust
Don't be someone who hurts you, simple.
Good Luck
Sage :)
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To me the answer is obvious. You guys dated and you broke up with him because he cheated on you. You told him that it was his last chance and that he'll never get another one. You need to stick by that. You don't want to get hurt again, so don't date him again. Chances are he will do something again that will hurt you. Do you really want to go through all the pain again? You need to stick with the decision that you told him. Yes, you may still love him but do you love him enough to get hurt by him again? I know this is a cliche saying but, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Don't stick with the guy who cheats on you and hurts you. He may only be calling you and begging you to get back with him, to see if you are going to stick with what you said or because guys always want what they can't have. He knows that since you said he will never get another chance, that he can't have you. Stick with that. Good luck. If you need anymore else, drop it in my inbox. :)
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
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