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I cant take it
My parents told me the first day of january that they were getting a divorce. On the 24 of janurary my aunt died who was the most important person to me in the world. Six weeks later a very close family friend died. Four weeks later I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. It seems like my life is just going to hell. I am constantly deppresed and see a grief councilor but it dosn't help.
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Im really sorry to hear about everything thats happened recently.
Your parents divorcing may be the best thing for them both. They may have been unhappy together for a long time so them getting divorced will mean that they can both live happier lives but apart. Talk to them and tell them how you are feeling about it all. Im sure they will be understanding.
Life can seem like its falling apart for you but I honestly belive that everything happens for a reason so there must be something good coming your way soon, you definately deserve it.
Id go to your GP and just tell them about it all, he may give you anti-depressents and even though this might sound scary and you dont want to take them it could help you in the long run, you will start thinking more positively. Also tell him/her that you see a greif councillor but it isnt helping. Maybe seeing the councillor isnt helping because your not ready to come to terms with the loss of your auntie, maybe you dont want to accept that she's gone. Id definately try talking to a doctor and see what he/she can do for you.
When life gives you 10 reasons to give up, show that theres 100 reasons to carry on.
I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need to talk then just send me a message and I will try to help the best I can
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first of all, i'll tell you about my life, (not in a mine's worse than yours way). I was sexually abused from the age of 9 until i was 15, then at 16 i attempted suicide for the first time, at 17 i moved house, i was then involved with a man who beat me for 6 months, then my dad died unexpectedly in my arms the week before christmas, i lost my job, got into another relationship where i was attacked for 9 months, got sectioned, had 4 miscarriages, saw my brothe go to prison, and take another 17 overdoses in attempts to kill myself!
now the good part, i am 25 years old.
I have just this minute taken another overdose, my 4th in 5 days, because i'm just not doing it right!! I do, however believe that your life will get better! i dont knw how, but you seem like a nice young guy who will look back in 10 years and be proud that you came through this difficult time!
best wishes
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