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Boysss :|
Okay so my promblem is I am torn
between two guys. My boyfriend and I have
dated before this twice, and we broke
up because we sort of just "died off"
and got annoyed with eachother. He's
really sweet and I can tell he generally
cares for me. But this other guy that we
will call "Ivan" feels like he is the one.
He is so honest and innocent and has my
best intrest in mind. And I fall for him
more and more eachtime we talk. My boyfriend
is out of town & keeps thinking I am
going to cheat on him and that's something
I would never do :|
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Well it sounds like you like Ivan more, and since you've dated the first guy and you died off, why not try dating this Ivan person? Break up with your current boyfriend first though. It's not fair for you to be feeling things about this new person while still dating someone else. Its unfair to your current boyfriend.
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Hey there okay,
from what you say you seem to like this ivan guy more then your boyfriend.
I know youl always care for your bf but like you said you sort of "died off" and the spark is lost.
thats something thats important and you need in a relationship to make it fun exciting and interesting.
you have a really hard decision to make and its toally up to you but from what I can gather I think its time to maybe move on?
before you let it go on too long with your boyfriend not being really happy and then loosing out on other expeiriences and guys who you feel you like more,my sister was in a relationship with a guy for nearly 3years but around the 2year mark things just werent going anywhere she felt stuck in a rut was always moody and not nice to be around she finally decided it wasnt worth it and they split and shes never been happier,
thats my advice if you dont feel the same for your boyfriend and you like the other guy more take ivan to the prom.
but obviously explain your feelings to your boyfriend in the easiest nicest way possible sure hel be hurt but he will in time understand and move on.
btw its not fair of him to think youd cheat on him thats another factor that makes ME think you should pick ivan,but i dont know your boyfriend so as i said totally your choice!
good luck with your decision hope I helped in anyway
<3
Jess [15/F]
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