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a long complicated story of confusion about my love life at


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:30 pm

well, my ex boyfriend and i not matter what, i feel are always gonna be attracted to eachother. we went out for 6months, since dec. 17, 06 and maybe more, on and off. i really like him but, i just don't want a boyfriend. we are gonna call my ex boyfriend frank. i first brokeup with frank to go out with this kid josep. i have always found josep attrative because we play a sport together. a week later josep breaksup with me because he never really liked me. he just wanted to give me a "chance". minding you, josep and i did alot in a week, if you know what i mean.. than i went back out with frank, for like a week and than i i dumped him for the second time. than i move on to this kid who has been my bestfriend since kindergarden. we ...

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crush on a senior


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:28 pm

15/f
Okay, so theres this guy in my Theathre class. Hes a senior and I'm a sophomore. We do alot of exersices with partners, and sometimes my teacher lets us pick our partners. The 2 times that we were allowed to pick our partners he wanted to be my partner. (the 2nd time i wasnt his partner cause I already had a partner). During theathre, we make alotttt of eye contact with each other. I also always pass him in the hallway after 9th period. He always looks me directly in the eye! Today, he was literally face-to-face with me. When we passed each other, our shoulders almost touched. Thats how close we were. And he was the one who came closer to me.

So, I sort of developed a crush on him. The thing is, hes a senior. I ho...

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He broke up with me because of flirting..


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:28 pm

So me and this guy went out for 2 months, we knew eachother for 2 years almost 3 before we started going out. Just a couple weeks ago though he broke up with me because his friends were telling him i was flirting with them, which is complete bs. I left him alone for a week then talked to him about it. I told him the story which is that his friend was flirting with me and would do stuff like not let me go and say i can fuck you better than your boyfriend, so basicly rude disrespectful things. I couldn't ever get away from him so i would just smile and say anything to get away. I know that sounds bad but its cause hes my ex-boyfriends friend and i didnt wanna be the reason they werent friends anymore. Well i told him that and he will not beli...

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long story about one guy, he hurt me and yet i still love hi


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:26 pm

Okay, let's see if i can get this right. i am 15 and i am female. ive liked this one guy for a long time, almost two years now, and ive like him the whole time (even when ive had other relationships and other crushes). at one point in time we were extremely close but never dated, meaning, we were always together and flirting and whatnot. After a few weeks, he asked me out, and i said no because "i didnt want to ruin what we had", which i extremely regret now. Anyway, we kept flirting and doing things even when we werent going out. He even told me once that he loved me and i completely believed him. He was always there for me and when my grandfather died he was the one that gave me a shoulder to lean on. Then my friends starting ha...

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crush on friend


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:25 pm

hi my name is Sarah(girl/15) and i have a little bit of a problem actually a big problem i like one of my friends. his name is Josh(boy/15) and we've known each other for about 3 months. i don't know if he likes me or not and I'm really shy so i cant ask him out and if i do and he said yes i wont know what to do because he will be my 1st boy friend and my parents might not let me date. so i NEED some major help DX

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Slowing it down


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:23 pm

I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now. Before he started liking me he asked me to find him a girlfriend. After hanging out a couple of days, i started to like him. We went to the movies etc. When he kissed me I thought for sure that we were going to end up dating. But just a couple of nights ago, he told me that he wanted to slow it down. Im my picture nothing was ever going fast. i asked him also why do you want to slow it down? He told me that he is not ready for a girlfriend. What does this mean? im so confused right now. Thanks!

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Lack of conversation


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:22 pm

17/m. Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 weeks - we were friends for 7 months before that. Whenever we talk on the phone, there are times where there's silence. And no-one says anything. It's rather wierd - on msn or in person it's ok. Is this normal? Will our relationship ok?

Thanks

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boys are complicated


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 5:46 pm

how do i find out if a boy likes me or not? i mean its really confusing cuz i have a major crush on someone and little crushes on other people and some people say they like me but i dont know if they do or not. how can i find out if they do or not? im too much of a coward to ask them.

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how do i know if some one checking me out O.o?(and i catch them)


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 5:34 pm

could be real easy to answer this one but define it for me :P

I think i have an idea of how you know. is it when you catch them looking at you and they look away instantly? or if you catch them and they look for a a second or so then look away with the same blank expression you caught them with to try and hide it a bit.

am i right? kus theres been a few incidence's like that around college in the past couple of weeks and i think iv only just figured out what went on.

<17 male>

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she has the perfect bf


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 2:47 pm

Recently, I became good friends with this girl. She's fun and really awesome to hang out with and usually it's hard for me to get along with girls (all the drama, etc). The big problem is, I met her boyfriend who she's been with for many years, and he's perfect. He's all the qualities I want in a guy and he knocks me off my feet. I never fall easily for guys, so when I do, it's serious. He'll flirt with me constantly and one time while we were alone he kind of hinted that he was tired of the relationship. I don't know what to do and how to act around him now. If my new friend found out, it'd be a disaster since we have a whole group of mutual friends now and she'd definitely kill me! What do I do? I'm infatuated with him, but she's been really nice to me. (19/F)

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Wrong to flirt with a guy in a relationship?


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 2:10 pm

I kind of like this guy who has a girlfriend. I respect that, but he does kind of flirt with me (always trying to get me into a conversation when we're alone, even though we don't know each other that well). He's always asking me questions, but I never start the conversation first, and try not to ask him questions so as not start any drama with his girlfriend (I've never talked to her, but I'm under the impression she doesn't like me very much.. or maybe that bitchy glare is on her face permanently and she can't do anything about it).

I really want to talk to him and get to know him, and I think he's taking my reservation for lack of interest, because it seems like he's almost given up talking to me. (Although I do my best w...

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im a virgin but i think im pregnant


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:10 pm

me & my boyfriend are both virgins, we have done everythink else wev bin goin out 4 6 months. hes 16 and im 15. wel we had dry sex ages ago he came all over me and did sorta entr me 2 but only a little bit. aneways that was 2months ago i havent had a period since. can i be pregnant?

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a boy


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:09 pm

hey.

well i like this guy. he's not particularly good looking or anything, but something about his personality attracted me to him. the thing is, he's REALLY different. like really different. not different like has a mental issue or something, but just the way he thinks is unlike that of anyone i've ever met, or probably will meet in the future. he's very smart. he has a very high IQ. he doesn't study though, or do his homework, so people think he's dumb. like a mini einstein or something.

well, he told me (cause we are friends) that he likes this other girl & that he doesn't have a chance with her, etc. etc. all this stuff. so he hasn't really been talking about her recently or anything, but i kno...

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Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:07 pm

Ok My names dj and ive been with this girl that ive never met.. in real life.. i met her on the internet and i know this is dumb but ive stayed with her for almost a year and a half now and sometimes i feel like she has done things on me and she tells me shes a virgin and her friends tell me to.. we are very far apart and we talk bout having a family and all that when she turns 18 she is gonna move down to indiana with me and I'm really jealous of this dude ryan because shegave him a handjob last summer becuase i told her i got a new girlfriend.. and im scared bout this summer shes gonna have sex on me or she is having sex on me and shes not telling me the truth is there anyway i can get the truth some how.. i need advice because i tell her...

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a big crush / confused


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:03 pm

i am 15 and i have a friend and we have been talking for about a month now and i think he likes me but i know he has a girlfriend he loves to talk on the phone with me sometimes after 2 in the morning he comes to see me and dont see her he says things that a male would tell their girlfriend he takes up for me and before we always hangs up he tell me he love me and gets mad if i dint he won't hang up the phone unless i tell him what should i do because i have a crush on him to?

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telling her about "him."


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:01 pm

i am a 15 year old female and i dated this guy for about 2 months and then i dumped him because i heard bad stuff that he did. but i still like him and he still likes me. a few of my friends like him and say hes a goood guy and that we should date again, while a couple other people HATE him and say i should just forget and move on. my one friend is always trying to protect me from him hurting me, and thinks he is a terrible guy. me and her ALWAYS get in fights whenever he comes into the picture. a few people know about me and this guy still likin eachother, but i havent told her yet. should i confront her and tell her whats goin on?:S , i dont think she will understand, and i think she will get mad at me. what should i do?!?!


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my girlfriend


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:00 pm

I have a girlfriend but i'm falling for another girl again and i really like them both what should i do?

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Maybe I'm a dang idiot? or afraid of falling in love?


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 11:56 am

This guy and I have been dating for almost three months now.Is it weird we haven't kissed yet?
He asked me if I wanted to and I was like well, I don't know. Some of me wants to, but the last person I kissed was a girl, and I was basically, pressured into that. I think the only reason I haven't is maybe I might have a fear of not feeling something or possibly feel something. And I thought maybe I should have kissed him, and maybe I'm a dang idiot, but too, I feel like it should be unexpected. What do you think?

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a boy


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 11:55 am

ok i went out with this boy then i broke up with him but nowi still like hi a lot and i regret breaking up wth him i still talk to him and were still friends but not like best freinds what should i do?

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I hurt him when he set me free to do what is right for me.


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 11:52 am

How do you know when it's meant to be or fanticy. When your married I wouldn't say extriemly happy but content. Hadn't been the best some verbal abuse little physical he's an acholic but I know he truely loves me. 3 children and never had I even dreamed of straying.
I thought I could change him, but regardless till death do we part. Then a stranger not even my type of which I'd never take 2 glances at the moment our eye's meet I felt feelings I never felt in my life. I was numb no sexual desire and at once I was alive again. I had urges never before I went places I would never dare. First just innocent conversation but it was like my best friend he made me see the beauty in me again. He should me the good in me I couldn't see....

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