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a long complicated story of confusion about my love life at


Question Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:30 pm

well, my ex boyfriend and i not matter what, i feel are always gonna be attracted to eachother. we went out for 6months, since dec. 17, 06 and maybe more, on and off. i really like him but, i just don't want a boyfriend. we are gonna call my ex boyfriend frank. i first brokeup with frank to go out with this kid josep. i have always found josep attrative because we play a sport together. a week later josep breaksup with me because he never really liked me. he just wanted to give me a "chance". minding you, josep and i did alot in a week, if you know what i mean.. than i went back out with frank, for like a week and than i i dumped him for the second time. than i move on to this kid who has been my bestfriend since kindergarden. we are gonna call him ryan. he did some stuff together.. but, like he was soo i think he was just doing it for me. yeah, the list countinues but, my question is am i slut? ive went through like more than 5guys in 2months..??

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brokenwing answered Wednesday June 24 2009, 10:22 am:
hi, i am probably old enough to be your grandfather. i see nothing wrong with playing the field! an i mean playing!not doing! in reality most men want to marry a lady! regardless of how they behave! i no since womens lib things have changed! but have they really? ASK YOURSELF HONESTLY! would you rather have a new car or a used car?? i was very much in love for 47 years till death do we part! an i am glad my love was a new car!! be good: brokenwing

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JustJessOx answered Monday June 22 2009, 10:42 pm:
Hey there,okay i wouldnt say your a slut,but if you keep going this way your going to really percieve yourself as one.
and im sure you dont want that,id advice you to just focus on one boy you TRUELY like.
also don't get into a relationship just for the idea of it,and not the actual person if you get me.
be in a relationship for the person not the perks that come with it.
get to know the guy more before you do anything sexual with them or you will come off as a slut, leave it longer also concentrate on getting to know them and having fun kissing touching etc..THEN move on to the more serious stuff.
you dont want guys thinking your "that girl" who is easy and will do this and that etc.
respect yourself more and guys will too.
good luck hope i helped =)
<3
Jess

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