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long story about one guy, he hurt me and yet i still love hi
Okay, let's see if i can get this right. i am 15 and i am female. ive liked this one guy for a long time, almost two years now, and ive like him the whole time (even when ive had other relationships and other crushes). at one point in time we were extremely close but never dated, meaning, we were always together and flirting and whatnot. After a few weeks, he asked me out, and i said no because "i didnt want to ruin what we had", which i extremely regret now. Anyway, we kept flirting and doing things even when we werent going out. He even told me once that he loved me and i completely believed him. He was always there for me and when my grandfather died he was the one that gave me a shoulder to lean on. Then my friends starting hating me because my whole world revolved around him and no one else. Eventually i realized that i wasnt the only one he was flirting with and "loving". When winter came around, his sports picked up and i never heard from him anymore (although i saw him in school). I hated him so much, he had actually told me one day that he didnt have time for me and i would have to wait until summer (you can just imagine how crushed i was). after that i refused to talk to him and he would stop me in the hallway and he just didnt understand why i hated him so much.
Recently, ive started talking to him again. For some reason i cant get him out of my head and honestly, i love him, even after the heartbreak and all the tears. I just dont know what to do. On one hand im happy again after so long of faking it, then again on the other hand, i know he is just gonna do the same thing to me again.
Please help me.
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Hey chic,
here's the thing what i am gonna say is gonna make you unhappy either way but, I think you need to drop him from your life all together because as you say your happy now that you don't need to falsify your feelings but again as u say he WILL do it again and you WILL get hurt. In the greater scheme of things you need to decide would you rather get hurt now and spend the next few months with heart ache and sadness until something better comes along. Or are you gonna wear your heart on your sleeve and tell him how u feel, then hopefully have a few months of happiness before the heart break. The choice is yours and I don't mean to be cheeky when I say this. But this is what I can offer advice wise.
What I will say is, good luck and no matter what happens keep the faith if you guys are meant to be it will happen. If you guys aren't then it wont, but if you guys aren't then someone better and that will worship the ground you walk on will turn up when you least expect it!!
Hope I helped!!
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