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Weird attractions
Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 12:24 am
I always seem to go for the underdog in situations. The sort of self-conscious, not very attractive, nerdy funny sort of guys. I know there shouldn't be anything wrong with this, but I feel embarrassed in front of my friends. They all seem to think that I just lack self-esteem and go for people "not in my league"; people they wouldn't even glance at. This has stopped me from entering relationships or sexual relationships. I know I shouldn't care, it's not my friends' lives, it's mine, but still I worry they may be right. That I pick people based on feeling better about myself, or because i am incapable of being vulnerable, or something. It's bad because I do like to have the upper hand, so to speak.
I don't know how to feel...
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plann b pill
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 10:33 pm
heey , so i had sex yesturday and i am taking the morning after pill tomorrow if you take it 2 days after is there a good chance i am not pregnant anymore? i am not positive i am pregnant right now but i am taking it as a precaution.
thanks for the help!
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Signs of True Love
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 9:59 pm
So i have a boyfriend and i really like him a lot. We've been dating for almost 6 months now. How can i tell i am in love and it is not just another crush? Are there any signs? Because idk. How can i tell he really likes/loves me? Please give advise on the signs of falling in love.
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where do i get information
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 8:36 pm
ok so im a bisexual female (18) and i've only had one girlfriend before my current one. I love her so much and we havent done anything sexual yet we are taking our time. I was wondering where i can go for free information on how to pleasure her. I have to keep up with her boyfriend and i feel a little insecure about it. please help me out
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i need him
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 7:37 pm
my boyfriend just recently moved to houston. i live in virginia. we have been dating for 2 years and are both in 10th grade. the thing is, i really want to visit him so badly but my parents wont let me. i want to know if i can buy a plane ticket and secretly go and visit him? can 16 year olds buy plane tickets? also, i want to move out to houston with him when i turn 18. i dont have alot of money though so i dont know if going to an out of state college is part of my options. but maybe if i live with him and his mom it wont be considered out of state? i just want to do whatever i can to be with him. can someone give me any tips of reassurance? i really need help with this
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guys are confusing.
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 7:14 pm
okay so me and this guy have been off and on since 7th grade, we're juniors now. we recently got back together, and everything was fine. he told me that he wanted to make it work this time and he still loved me and all this stuff, then outta the blue he told me he didn't mean to "dick me over again" but he wasn't going to have time for me because of his job, which is only the summer, and that i could get with other people.. i have no idea what to do, i want to be with him.. and he claims he wants to be with me idk if he really dosent have time, or its just another lame excuse idk what to do should i just forget him and finnally move on? or wait it out.
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boyfriend and the internet
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 5:03 pm
so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years and we have lived together for a long time now too. so today i came home from work and went on his computer and for some reason started browsing through his internet history. i realized that he had been looking at tons of porn sights and had especially clicked on manyyy pictures of hott girls around my age that they took of themselves. i dont mind if he watches porn or things like that.. i think that is normal all guys do that.. but there were so many pictures of girls my age- not pornos, just pictures of them naked... is this weird? or am i overreacting and this is normal? i dont want to bring it up and make a big deal of it if it is just guys looking at girls.. i dont know. what do you think?
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I got married to the wrong man! I don't want to be married to him anymore
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 4:38 pm
I'm married and have only been that way about a month or so.
My "husband" is a SERIOUS neutral party.
He rarely speaks, he rarely gets up and goes anywhere aside from work, and more and more I'm finding out just how different we are.
When we got together he put on a jolly good show, but now that he's got the girl...the show's over folks...
Here is my complication.
I live in the states with him.
My BEST FRIEND, is in love with me and has proposed to me countless amounts of times (and still begs me to move overseas to be with him).
He says, if I get there I won't have to worry about where we live or whatever because he will have it taken care of. He sa...
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How do I tell my boyfriend of 6 years I do not want to live with him?
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 4:29 pm
In the beginning (like the first four years) I was very into the idea of living together. Now, not so much! Things have changed like my daughter (22) had baby and they live with me right now. I don't want that to change until she is ready to make it completely on her own. I see that my boyfriend might someone who wants to be in control and I am not willing to give up that position. I know he wouldn't be comfortable with my daughter and the baby living with us. I have been married four times before and I am not so good at relationships if they are too close and now I've decided that living together is not the best choice. How do I tell him that I've changed my mind?
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Nervous
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 4:28 pm
Okay. Im 14/F and he is 15/M. I really like him and could see myself dating him but we're hanging out this week and I'm super nervous. He's made out and stuff but I've never even kissed (he knows this and says he's okay with it) but he wants to kiss when we hang out... And he asked me if I would want to. I have two problems with that. 1. Its kinda like our first date right? I don't know if I want to kiss on a first date... Idk. And 2. I wouldn't know what to do! So I told him I didnt know if I would kiss him. Was this a good idea?
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dreams about my ex
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 2:14 pm
hello againnnn :)
okay so i've been having dreams about my ex...alot of them were sex dreams and we've been hanging out alot like good friends and i slipped telling him i had sex dreams about him so he made me tell him the whole story haha. but these past few nights i've been having nightmares about him dying and getting hurt...i wake up in the middle of the night and i want to call/text him because i can't figure out if it really happened because they always take place at night and i go to bed in my dream, so i wake up and don't know if it happened...i really want to call him to make sure he's okay but i feel bad for waking him up..but i think if i call him at night and talk to him about it they might go away....i just feel ...
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techniques makingout that turns guys on
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 1:58 pm
_ wellll, i like this kiiiddd a lottt & i wanna make out with him. And iwould like to twist things up with hooking up him anything that could turn guys on while making out with him that can help me? apreciate it byeee.
-toriiiiii.
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Hi! umm, can i kiss a guy first if he is just my friend but i like him?
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 3:51 am
so, do i want to kiss my guy first? i mean, we have been friends for quite a while, and we went out a lot to movies, and to the water park together and stuff, and i like him, but we never really kissed. (hugs don't count for much lol)
and btw, i've never kissed a guy, so i dunno where to start off even.
THX! -Charlotte, 15
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How do I tell a girl that I miss her?
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 2:30 am
I haven’t talked to this girl in 6 weeks and I want to say that I miss her.
The complication is that we dated for over 10 months and it's been almost 5 months since she left and I still care deeply about her.
There is a long story story behind all of this but it isn't entirely relevant. Basically we both had some personal problems and she decided to break things off. I didn’t take the break-up especially well either and did some things to push her away. (Small things like insisting that we talk about it right away)
As another note, saying to just move on is not helpful. I hear that enough from my family and friends. While it may be the easy thing to do from an outside perspective, I just can...
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sexxx
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 11:42 pm
hii guyss. well i just finished getting my period and today i had sex and iwas on top and when i got off my boyfriend said the condom fell off and it was in me. then i had sex for about like 2 minutes without a condom but he already finished before and he wasnt hardd.. so i wanna know is it bad the condom fell off ( i took it out like 10 seconds after) andd with the no condom is that bad? i know there is always a chance no matter what i do but i just wanted to know how worried i should be and if i should take the plan b pill or other wise known as the morning after pill..
thanks guys!
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I'm pregnant but not by my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 9:41 pm
This might be long, sorry.
I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He's really a great guy, comes from a wonderful family, works really hard in college, etc. He's probably the best guy out there. He's really perfect. I don't have anything bad at all to say about him.
Well, I've been cheating on my boyfriend for about a year or year and a half now. All the cheating has been with the same guy so I'm not like a whore or something. My boyfriend has NO idea that I've been seeing this other guy on the side.
Anyway, the problem is that I'm pregnant. I don't want to lose my boyfriend though!
Now, maybe you are asking, "Well, how do you KNOW it isn't your boyfrien...
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Gyno.
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 9:15 pm
So when you go visit a gyno and get checked out, and he finds something out, for example, you having a disease or something ? Do they tell your parents ? Or do they keep it a secret ?
Thanks in Advance !
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i dont know whether to abort or not
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 6:19 pm
well im 19 yrs old and im pregnat im probably like 2 months my boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby i talked to his mom and she said she would support me. i kno i could just abort and get ir over with it but im against abortion idk what to do.
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i wont to die
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 5:39 pm
i wont to die
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i want him to feel on my breasts
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 5:30 pm
I have some of the biggest boobs in my entire town. No lie. I dont fit my mother's bras or anyone's for that matter. Some guys called my boyfriend one of the luckiest guys ever. But he respects a girl enogh not to stare at their ass and boobs all day, he told me himself. We recently got to what my friends call 3rd base (fingering; hickies, all that good stuff). I long for more though, i'm not exactly proud of my bust but its the body part i love showing off. I kno he noticed them before. But i really got stuck onto this idea during a basketball game (teacher vs student) and he was on the bleacher above me, as he leaned down he rested his head on my sholder and kissed the nape of my neck to the top base of my chest. I loved the feeling of hi...
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