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So difficult to talk now.. how do I get her to like me again?
Posted Tuesday November 3 2009, 5:35 pm
Okay.. im 16/m.
So I've known this girl for about 2 years, but I almost never talked to her at all. Recently though(in the last two months), she started talking to a lot. Shes my age too. I knew that she might of liked me, because she would always be excited when I was there and would go out of her way to talk to me, she wanted my email, my friends told me that it was so obvious that she liked me. Hell, she even told me straight up that she loved talking to me. But it also felt like it was going way too fast.. because just out of no where this year she started talking to me and I wanted to get to know her a bitt more.
Anyways.. I started to like her more than just a friend after a while, but this is where it started...
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How To Get Aroused Easier.
Posted Tuesday November 3 2009, 12:17 pm
Female- Well, The Question Is Pretty Self-Explanatory. I'm Not Exactly Sure What Gets Me Aroused. It's Actually Really Hard To Get Me Aroused. So Is There Anything That Will Help Me Get Aroused By My Boyfriend? Because I'm Not Exactly Sure What Gets Me Going. Except Biting. Biting Is Awesome Haha. But Any Tips?
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How To Let Him Know I'm Ready.
Posted Tuesday November 3 2009, 12:09 pm
Well, And My Love Had A Conversation On How We Both Thought We Loved Each other Enough TO have Sex. He Said "Whenever You Are Ready, I Am. I'm Not Going To Rush You." I'm Still Kind Of A Shy Person, So How Do I Let Him Know I Am Ready? And Should I Be Playful. Any Tips Will Help Also. Thank You :]
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boys... ugh. what is his deal?
Posted Tuesday November 3 2009, 10:03 am
so im 16 F, since summer me and this guy C have had a thing. its obvious and everybody can tell. we went to homecoming together and over summer we hung out almost everyday. his friends have said that he says he likes me so much, and i like him. we spent the night together, but didn't do anything but make out. he is the type of guy who falls in love with girls, not just hook up. but he has had a history in the past with hooking up. whenever its me and him and his friends, he is so serious and romantic with me. but whenever its my friends hes never serious and is always kinda flirty to all of them, except me! so yesterday i went to one of his friends houses and we watched a movie. its been a while since we had hung out before the and he was ...
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Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind..
Posted Monday November 2 2009, 6:35 pm
So I was watching that movie today ^ And Joel made the best point ever that I've been trying to put into words for myself for the longest time. He was writing in his journal and asked himself "Why is it that I fall in love with every girl that shows me the slightest bit of attention?" This statement is true for me as well, -except for me, its boys, but you get the idea. So I've been wondering the same thing,but when it comes down to it I just honestly don't know. So I'm kind of hoping you guys know the answer? I'm stumped, but it happens to me often. Does anyone know why? Or is this just the poetic version of a pathetic question hopeless romantics ask themselves everyday? How do I change? Ah.. thanks.
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this kid..i don't know what to do.
Posted Monday November 2 2009, 6:17 pm
There is this kid,who isn't hot at all..he's rather ugly but I seem to actually like him for who he is,not his looks.He's more on the un popular side,unlike me who is more popular at our school so i'd thought he'd easily be interested in me.At first,he seemed very interested in me,but he seemed like he liked all these girls and acted like he has a chance with all of them and would contstantly talk to them! so it made me have second thoughts,but he told me I'm on of the only people he likes..since he seems to "dislike" lots of people.We had like a week break where we didn't talk at all,and now he started talking to me again.We talked on IM for literally 3-4 hours until 1 am on a school night,so i figured he wouldn't stay up talking...
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back together again
Posted Monday November 2 2009, 9:53 am
so I am a girl and I was with my first girlfriend. Well other things goin on caused us to break up but after we did we both felt awful so we went out to a bar for halloween an dI realized why I fell for her. We got back together and want to change things then before well my mom knows I was with another girl she thinks it was just a phase and doesnt see that "lifestyle" for me. I wanna tell her we are back together but what should I do?
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does he care about me or just sex?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 9:48 pm
i have a really hard time trusting guys, let alone anyone. i can never tell if a guy is truly interested in me or just using me. i've like my good friend for about 4 years now, without telling him because i don't know if he just wants me for sex.
Reasons he might actually care:
-everytime i ask him about a guy or say something about a guy he will basically diss on the guy and be like oh my god he's ugly or he's not for you.
-when i'm sad, he can always tell.
-he always thinks i don't tell him EVERYTHING about me. he always says "why dont you tell me anything anymore!?"
-every time i see him and either one of us is about to leave, he'll give me a hug
-he always flirts with me when ...
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what an a**
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 9:35 pm
This guy and I had been pretty close best friends for 3 years. He was leaving out of state and it was hard to say goodbye. We said our goodbyes, and then a week later i find out that he hadn't left!!! I was thinkin, what he fu**? Are you kidding me? So he had been hiding the fact that he hadn't left. I felt so used. I felt like wow, you tricked me into thinking that you liked me and having me tell you how much i liked you by saying you are leaving? that is some fkd up sht....when i confronted him about the situation, the boy was freaking out. He felt very bad about it....to the point where he was about to cry. He said that he had been planning to surprise me for my birthday, but the thing is he didn't say a word to me on my birthday!!!He fo...
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pants off, while getting fingered
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 9:32 pm
i might sound dumb for asking this, but i'm pretty new to the whole fingering thing. me and this guy mess around all the time, no sex though. he's tried fingering me before when there was people around! like if we were watching a movie with people and we were sharing a blanket, he'd try sticking his hand down my pants but i thought it was quite awkward because we were with everyone so i pushed his hand away! arent you normally suppose to finger a girl with her pants off, AND underwear?
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Im in love with Mary-Jane
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 8:24 pm
Im a weed head, have been for a really long time. Thats not a problem for me, because its always been a background thing for me. BUT! i just moved to fucking toledo ohio and and dont know where to get any good bud:( any suggestions anyone?
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How can I not lose her?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 7:14 pm
15/f
I am dating this girl Lexi and I really don't want to lose her. I have done some things recently that aren't good choices when I wasn't with her. She knows what I did though. And I think that they scare her a little and she is worried that I would do something like cheat on her or break her heart. And I love her from the bottom of my heart and my whole being. I couldn't stand to lose her. She's already almost left me once because our best friend Tuesday made her believe that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to convince her other wise, and I was scared the whole time. Do you have any advice on what I should do to help her trust me and help her believe I won't break her heart?
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intimacy problems
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 5:05 pm
I don't normally post questions on here about mine and my boyfriends problems, mainly because we don't really have any, but we can normally figure them out for ourselves.
We've been together for 10 months and never had any big arguments, obviously we've had silly little ones but nothing major. But just recently, we haven't been as close as we normally are (we're best friends and always been so close) and when we're together it's just like hanging out with a friend, apart from the hugging and occasional kiss. We've spent the whole past week together, and he has said that it's probably because we've spent all that time together.
So, do you think he's right or is it something most couples go through at one point or another? We ...
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To kiss or not to kiss?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 4:56 pm
Ok, i have been talking to this girl since the beginning of the semester this year at college. We met in our english class. I have developed feelings for this girl. We hung out last week and had a really good time. I want to hangout with her again this week. If we hangout do you think that it would be appropriate for me to try and kiss her? Why or why not.
Thank you.
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help :(
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 3:11 pm
so i was with this kid for a year. then he went to college and we broke up shortly after, basically because he wanted to be single but he said it was cause i deserved better. we tlked for a little while after we broke up but eventually i told him it was too much and i just needed to stop talking to him for a little while so that i could get over him and be ok on my own. he asked to get back together the other night but said that if we get back together i have to deal with the fact that when he goes out and parties girls are gonna dance on him and grind on him and its just the way it has to be. so i said no and said i dont deserve that and didnt go back to him. so its been a few days and im a complete wreck. its now been two months sense we ...
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Is he being true? or Does he actually care?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 1:49 pm
So i met a guy named josh through a friend and i have hung out with him a couple times. Last night i hung with him at a party and we kissed for the first time. How can I tell if he is really into me or just using me?
He introduced me to all his friends.
Asked to drive me, mentions future times to hang out.
Did not go further than hooking up.
Held my hand everywhere we walked and talked and noticed my own frineds.
Kissed me goodbye =]
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i need advice about asking a girl out
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 1:39 pm
I like this girl that goes to my sckool and stuff we have alot of classes together we talk and stuff and she invites me to go places with her friends but i always say no because im scared to go somewere with her friends and i want to know if i should go with her or what should i just ask her out pls help me
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saying those three words
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 12:13 pm
19/f
I feel like my love-life has become the song "falling for you" by Colbie Caillat and I don't want to scare him away by saying something. How soon can a girl tell a guy she's dating that she loves him, how long should she wait?
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We Want To But Im Nervous
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 10:17 am
Okay...Me And My Boyfriend Had A Conversation And We Both Agreed That We Think We Love Eachother Enough To Have Sex. Ive Completely Thought About The Consequences And Researched How To Prevent Them. So I'm Book Smart On This But I Just Need A Few Tips..If That Makes Any Sense. I Mean I've Never Had Sex Before, But I Know How To ((You Know, The "Speech"..Just A Graphic Version Haha)) What Should I Do? Tips On This Stuff Will Also Help
How To Arouse Him Fully
How To Become Fully Aroused
How To Relax Before
SHould I Be PLayfull Or Serious?
Anything Will Help. Thanxx :]
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should we break up?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 12:42 am
should I break up with my boyfriend? We fight about 2-3 times a day averagely; I love him still but this fighting is getting to be too much.. is this reason enough even though i still love him? we have tried to work this out, believe me.. he promised and the promises were broken.. nothing works
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