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How can I not lose her?
15/f
I am dating this girl Lexi and I really don't want to lose her. I have done some things recently that aren't good choices when I wasn't with her. She knows what I did though. And I think that they scare her a little and she is worried that I would do something like cheat on her or break her heart. And I love her from the bottom of my heart and my whole being. I couldn't stand to lose her. She's already almost left me once because our best friend Tuesday made her believe that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to convince her other wise, and I was scared the whole time. Do you have any advice on what I should do to help her trust me and help her believe I won't break her heart?
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One of the hardest things in a relationship, once you're past the initial excitement of finding the other person, is figuring out how to build up a solid foundation.
If trust is the issue, there is really only one solution: Don't do anything to break her trust. Trust, true faith in another person, can take a long time to build - even when in a fresh relationship. People have all sorts of reasons to doubt others - past actions of their partner, their own history with people, etc.
Being open and honest goes a long way towards proving your commitment, as do your actions.
I wish you both the best!
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that is so cute how you want to stay faithful to her :)....You didn't do those things while you guys were together, so there is no reason for her to worry....you guys are together, and whatever things you do no i'm sure will only be with her....the past is the past....but i think that all you have to do to show her you won't break her heart is simple. Tell her what you just said up here, "I love you from the bottom of my heart. I want you to know that I won't do anything to hurt you"....try not to make it too possesive though cuz she might look at you as obsessive and weird. But tell her how you feel....and other things you can do is to let her know you are thinking about her once in while...send her a random text saying I love you. Flirt with her. Show her that she is the shit. But at the same time without being too clingy you know...but i hope this helped...goodluck!:D
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yes stop giving her reasons to not trust you or giving her signs that you want to break her heart silly trust is one of the hardiest things to gain but the eaisest to break think about that i hope i helped good luck
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