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So difficult to talk now.. how do I get her to like me again?
Okay.. im 16/m.
So I've known this girl for about 2 years, but I almost never talked to her at all. Recently though(in the last two months), she started talking to a lot. Shes my age too. I knew that she might of liked me, because she would always be excited when I was there and would go out of her way to talk to me, she wanted my email, my friends told me that it was so obvious that she liked me. Hell, she even told me straight up that she loved talking to me. But it also felt like it was going way too fast.. because just out of no where this year she started talking to me and I wanted to get to know her a bitt more.
Anyways.. I started to like her more than just a friend after a while, but this is where it started going downhill. I asked her to see a movie with me, and she said yes. but on the day we were supposed to see the movie, she thought I would bring along a few friends. I didn't bring them since my friends already saw the movie (I didn't get to go when they did.) that I planned to watch with her.
So at the last minute we just cancelled it. Ever since that day, she seems way more distant when I try to talk to her, and its really hard for me to even initiate a conversation...because I can't ever find the right words to keep her entertained and what not..even on msn its so hard to say something. She always looks bored when I talk to her now... =/
When I try to loosen up and be funny, I end up being less funny. This never used to be a problem for me...
I actually feel like im annoying her than making her happy.
What should I do?
If it helps at all, she IS a busy girl.. and it is difficult to contact her (due to her private life).
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Well if you like her that much, try giving her some space. I've been in this situation before, but its the exact opposite since I am a girl. So maybe i could explain why she is being distent.
Maybe when you first started talking, it was really fantastic, and you knew alot about eachother. But did she ever felt distent from you before u asked her to the movies? Or maybe she felt uncomfortable becuase it was just the two of you at the movies, and it would have felt awkward. So, the cancelled.
Well I hope things will get better fo you. Good Luck. :)
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i think that you tried your part in trying to get her back..you prolly most likely told her how you felt rite? i think you should just leave things the way they are and once she wants to com back in talking to you just tell her you dont wanna bother her n what not..u kno.. i kno exactly where dis is going happened to my friends also because she is arabian and can barley hang out or talk..and he is american and its really hard..((if thats the fact i can reallly help out)) but hope i helped ya there
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