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boys... ugh. what is his deal?
so im 16 F, since summer me and this guy C have had a thing. its obvious and everybody can tell. we went to homecoming together and over summer we hung out almost everyday. his friends have said that he says he likes me so much, and i like him. we spent the night together, but didn't do anything but make out. he is the type of guy who falls in love with girls, not just hook up. but he has had a history in the past with hooking up. whenever its me and him and his friends, he is so serious and romantic with me. but whenever its my friends hes never serious and is always kinda flirty to all of them, except me! so yesterday i went to one of his friends houses and we watched a movie. its been a while since we had hung out before the and he was like holding my hand and playing with my bangs the whole time... idk what to do or what to think... any advice? and any idea what hes thinking?
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Hm..You have to think. Alot of peple are flirty without knowing. what would you do in a group full of guys?? i mean, not necessarily with him there, but think about it. He may not be trying to hurt you, but he gets a liiiiiiiitle flirty without knowing it. I mean, he's a guy...in a group full of girls...see where i'm heading here? And plus, guys always act different around their girl's friends. as do they when around their friends. he feels more comfortable around his friends. He may be actually trying to peove that he loves you to his friends. ((Guy's friends are always skeptical)
So just wait it out. And if it still makes you uncomfortable..do what I did. Just talk to him about it. Maybe say "Why do you act like that around my friends?" And He'll Say: "Like What?" And Then You Say "Well, You Kind Of FLirt WIth Them." ANd He'll Either Say "I Do?" or "No I Dont" Lolz. But Just Talk To Him Okay? Hope i helped :]
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