So i met a guy named josh through a friend and i have hung out with him a couple times. Last night i hung with him at a party and we kissed for the first time. How can I tell if he is really into me or just using me?
He introduced me to all his friends.
Asked to drive me, mentions future times to hang out.
Did not go further than hooking up.
Held my hand everywhere we walked and talked and noticed my own frineds.
Kissed me goodbye =]
thelaura answered Monday November 2 2009, 2:37 pm: None of that sounds negative.
He's clearly interested and if he's already introduced you to his friends and set up future dates to hang, he sounds like a catch! [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Ataura answered Sunday November 1 2009, 6:56 pm: Well, if he wants to hang out with you more, and he introduced you to all of his friends, and he didn't mind holding your hand everywhere, then I would have to say that I think that he isn't using you. But with guys, it's a wait and see type of thing. If the only thing he wants to do is make out with you and try to have sex, then you know that he's using you.
the_unexpected answered Sunday November 1 2009, 6:34 pm: He does not sound like he's using you, but you didn't tell us anything that suggests that, or even what he might be using you for.
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