|
|
|
|
|
Q: I am bad at relationships and I never know what I am doing wrong In relationships. I have never had a relationship last longer than 2 months. I am eighteen years old and all of my friends think that I am a "player" but I have no idea where they are comming from. I Do have alot of girls that like me, but I have a certain standard and only about 2% of the girls that have liked me meet those standards. Should I lower my standards?
Looks aren't on the top of my list, but like everyone else knows, it's a nice bonus. I am a baseball player and everyone that likes me is always hanging on other guys and I don't think that that is cool.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
You just might need to lower your standards. Not every girl who meets your standards is exactly a nice fit for you, and not every girl who doesn't meet them doesn't mean that you two wouldn't make it in a relationship. You need to keep you mind open about things.
Things like, 'never have done drugs' or 'doesn't smoke' are understandable because well....they're disgusting. But things like 'Must have a nice body' or 'Has to get along with my friends' are just a bit too excessive.
If you are on a bit of the jealous type of guys, then you might need to date a girl that you KNOW you can trust, or learn to trust a bit better.
Maybe you should look at some types of girls that you've never really looked at before. Like The Quiet Shy type girls, or the Strong Smart and Interesting.
Remember, keep your mind open. That's probably the best way to figure out what you really want out of a girl and a relationship
Good Luck
Atty/15
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: I don't normally post questions on here about mine and my boyfriends problems, mainly because we don't really have any, but we can normally figure them out for ourselves.
We've been together for 10 months and never had any big arguments, obviously we've had silly little ones but nothing major. But just recently, we haven't been as close as we normally are (we're best friends and always been so close) and when we're together it's just like hanging out with a friend, apart from the hugging and occasional kiss. We've spent the whole past week together, and he has said that it's probably because we've spent all that time together.
So, do you think he's right or is it something most couples go through at one point or another? We know for a fact we're in love so it can't be anything to do with us just drifting apart.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Well, he might be right. But intimacy and their relationship is a touchy subject for couples. You could try to be a little more intimate with him and see how he reacts, or try to talk to him more about the subject. You could also try to find something new that you two both like to do to spice up the relationship. This might just be something that all couple go through.
Good luck
Atty/15
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: So i met a guy named josh through a friend and i have hung out with him a couple times. Last night i hung with him at a party and we kissed for the first time. How can I tell if he is really into me or just using me?
He introduced me to all his friends.
Asked to drive me, mentions future times to hang out.
Did not go further than hooking up.
Held my hand everywhere we walked and talked and noticed my own frineds.
Kissed me goodbye =]
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Well, if he wants to hang out with you more, and he introduced you to all of his friends, and he didn't mind holding your hand everywhere, then I would have to say that I think that he isn't using you. But with guys, it's a wait and see type of thing. If the only thing he wants to do is make out with you and try to have sex, then you know that he's using you.
Good luck,
Atty/15
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: so me n my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times and im just so out of it. we always get in the mood and he'll be on top and sumtimes i'm on top and he can achieve and orgasm and i can't.. even when he fingers me and plays around down there i feel no sensation at all.. but i can achieve an orgasm when i am humping something . and we try different positions but doggy style anything that has him doing me from the back (not anal) its so painful why is that? but when hes doing me from the front i feel no sensation i can just feel the friction of his penis rubbin agenst my vagina walls. whats wrong with me?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
It might not be you. It might be that he isn't big enough. Its like, okay, if you are eating something, and it is too big, it feels like it is either painful or your choking, right? Well if it is too little, you can't feel it, right? It's like that. He might just be too small for you and that's why you don't feel anything. You might have to talk to him about this before you have another sexual encounter. Maybe Viagra or another male stimulator would make the sex better.
Ask me anything if you need any more advice! ^_^
15/f
Ataura
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: Having an abdominal pain and a white discharge water like kind of dischrge and sore breast, could it be a sign of anything.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
If you're worried about it being pregnancy, ask your doctor, or get a pregnancy test. Sometimes, it is easier to get your answers there than sitting around and wondering. I have looked up symptoms of early pregnancy. I am sure you can get some answers there. It seems that the only thing about pregnancy that might be a sign is the sore breast. If you miss your period, call your doctor. Get a pregnancy test done. Here is the site I looked up http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html
Good luck!
15/f
Atty
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: I feel that my friendly advances sometimes scare people off. You know, like: why is this girl talking to me? What does she want? I'm afraid to talk to, for instance, the guy I have a crush on because when I have, he seems... weirded out. I'm not staring at him or asking odd questions; I don't know what I'm doing! Either people I don't know well always seem weirded out or as if they're laughing at me. Why is this??
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sometimes, you need to let people approach you. If you are new to the area, wait until they talk to you and see if you make any new friends. If not....then well, you might still want them to come to you. And he might not be getting weirded out. He might be surprised that you are talking to him. Maybe you should try asking him to hang out with you before you start launching a conversation. Or make small chat. Again, some people need to come to you.
15/f
Atty
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Info
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Rockford, IL Occupation: Babysitter/School Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: July 18, 2009 Answers: 6 Last Update: November 1, 2009 Visitors: 2302
Main Categories:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
