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me him and her?


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 4:26 pm

okay so im 15/f almost 16:). anyway me and my ex kyle broke up about a year ago. hes been dating this new girl for awhile now. and me and him talk still like we use to when we dated he still says he loves me and wont get over me. and well i feel the same way about him, but he has a girlfriend. they fight a lot a lot. she doesn't like him talking to any girl at all. she has spies on him if shes not there she has one of her friends watch him like hes a baby, hes a big boy and can do what he wants to do. im kinda the other girl like we talk about hooking up and stuff im fine with him having a girl friend. just because i don't care about her. i know how she would feel if he cheats on her but. its like i said i don't care about her. i know what ...

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To go away or not


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:03 pm

Hello

I don’t know what to do. I’m 25 and have been dating my girlfriend for over two years now. She is in graduate school and has a big test this January. For Christmas my parents wanted to surprise me with a week long cruise in early January for me to go on with my parents and girlfriend. This was supposed to be a surprise and I only know about this cruise because my girlfriend told me. Originally it worked out so that my girlfriend was able to go with us because her test was scheduled in March. Now that her test has been moved to January, and if she misses this she will be kicked out of the program, it doesn’t sound like she will be able to go. My girlfriend doesn’t want me to go on the cruise and leave her while s...

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i don't know what to do


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 12:07 pm

Hi. Okay so this is my problem.
I have a new boyfriend. But I love my exboyfriend, and he loves me. My exboyfriend has a cheating problem (he's cheated quite a lot). Finally, I told him I was done and I got a new boyfriend, who I really like, but not as much as my ex. My ex has been telling me that he never knew what it felt like to be put through what he's put me through, and now he's convinced that he's never gunna cheat again. I want to be with him, but I also don't wanna break my current boyfriend's heart. I really don't know what to do because I'm torn between the two of them. I'm scared that if I stay with my current boyfriend, I'll go through what I always end up going through with my ex where we just don't talk for months and...

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Best friend? Boyfriend ?


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 7:53 am

I have a really awesome guy best friend who is like a big brother figure for me. He is like my guide, he always waits for me in every class and after school, he makes sure I'm alright, and he spends his free time with me... people always comment on how inseparable we are. Lately, he's been very attached and I get confused. My boyfriend and I are currently on stage where we're unsure about where we stand at the moment. Because he was away for few weeks and when he came back, I realized how I just felt much more comfortable with my best friend than with him. During the time my boyfriend was away, my best friend acted as if taking over his place; he'd do things my boyfriend would do for me [except all the hugs and holding hands etc] My best gi...

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Losing my mind again please help....


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 3:30 am

Alright so I've been talking to this guy from Germany who I'm gonna meet up with when I go home in December to see my family (Dont give me a lecture about internet dating I swear to God if I hear another word...if your gonna mention it just shut up and skip me) Anyways things ahve been going great for the past weeks but last week he didn't talk to me at all and than on sunday I got something from him saying sorry I wont be on this week, on icq becuase I ahve to work early but I will be on Wer-kennt-wen, german myspace, well that was on Sunday and I still havne't gotten anythin....I hate this and things are starting to run through my mind again. He's said he likes me and my mom said if a guy ikes you he will do anything to contact you...its ...

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girls.......


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 11:58 pm

I honestly need help with girls, like i dont know what is wrong with me.

I am 16 years old/ Male.
junior in high school

for some odd reason, i havent had my way with girls in a LONG time. like i cant even remember the last time i had a girlfriend, or even just a fling with a girl. I have no idea what is wrong with me. I am NOT fat or ugly or anything. I would say i am just average. I'm 5'7, medium build, no acne, asian. I'm not hideous or anything, and i'm NOT creepy or anything either. i have friends and all, i live pretty chill life, but girls is my main weakness. They always act like i have something wrong about me. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? EVERY time i try to even take a next step, they get scared a...

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is this normal?


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 11:39 pm

13 almost 14f
i get REALLY turned on when i smell dudes clone. is this normal or strange?

thanks(:

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our future together=foggy :(


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 8:23 pm

i've been head over heels in love with the same guy for about a year and a half. we've broken up a few times, but got back together usually within a few weeks or a month. well this go round, we're trying not to get too serious. like, we don't even call eachother "boyfriend/girlfriend" and because we don't do that, we're not fighting as much because there's no pressure tag hanging over our heads.

a few times a while back, we'd talk about the future; kids, marriage, moving in together, etc. and i thought he and i were on the same page about all that. well, now we're together but not as serious? and i asked him the other day if he ever plans to get married, but not to me, just anybody. and he said he didnt know. that a...

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did I do something wrong?


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 6:21 pm

there is this guy that I know likes me he texts me after school and talks to me. So for the past month I haven't had my phone and I know he was starting to doubt if I had really had my phone taken away which I did by the way. He told me to text him when I got my phone back but I forgot to text him yesterday when I got my phone back yesterday. So this morning he tested me say happy thanksgiving and I replied to him he then didn't text back. So like 2 hours later I texted him and he hasn't replied. I don't know I he is man at me or something. I think he thought I wasn't going to text back because I told him I didn't have my phone so he now probably thinks I am a liar. That is not true though I dealt don't want him to me mad at me. What can I do? Is he mad?

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ppl say play hard to get


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 5:13 pm

so EVERYBODY always says that you have to play hard to get for guys. what does that mean. like i dont get it because they always say to not go after them but if you dont go after them then they think that you dont like them because you never try to talk to them or whatever. just someone help me, i dont get it. i rat 5 for everybody.(:

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keeping it together in tough times


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 11:43 am

im gonna try keep this short,
well it started about a month ago i guess, my gf decided we shouldnt be together any more due to her leaving for university. obviously feeling hurt and rejected i reluctently agreed because it really would have been for the best. (we only went out for about a month then when she told me we shouldnt see eachother she still came back at the weekend and we did still did bf and gf stuff) then she mashed her car and didnt want to drive in case of more accidents, its going to cost 1000 quid to repair. its been 4 weeks since i last saw her and since then things have been breaking left right and center that need to be paid for to be repair'd. first it was my snowboard that i need for my job. then it was my skate...

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So Confused.


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 11:44 pm

Okay so I was with this guy, joe, for about four months, in the begining it was bad, he was always getting with other girls, but i always took him back. he got better and stopped with the cheating, but then i ended up getting with an old friend last weekend, and i told the jpe that i just wanted to be friends.. I started talking to this old friend and have been hanginout with him a lot. but joe keeps calling and begging for me back and trying to get back with me..

I dont know, i mean i really like this old friend, but for some reason i cant get over this joe. i dont know what to do at alllll !

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boyfriend and weed =/


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 11:06 pm

my boyfriend used to smoke alot of weed his freshman and sophomore year (hes a senior now) he hasn't done it since but today he told me he did. when i told him that i didn't like it and he knows that he told me not to worry and that he won't become a pothead. but idk...like i don't want to be the pushy gf that yells at him for doing it...then he's gonna feel like he has to hide it from me...but idk i just don't want my boyfriend to do that then me having to kiss him...what should i do?

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tips for trimming..i think this is in the wrong category


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 9:47 pm

im an 18 f and i was wondering whats the best way to trim your downstairs? im scared to wax but i hate shaving are there any other methods? thanks :D

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i like him, he knows it, nothings happening..?


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 9:20 pm

so im 16/ f. theres a guy i've liked on and off for the past year. this time tho, i really like him more.

hes the same age. actually 20 days younger than me. but anyways, we flirt alot, and he also flirts with our freind. so he knows i like him, because apparently 7 other people told him. and so i messaged him saying that i never told them to tell him, because i didnt want to ruin our friendship, but i'd totally understand if he only likes me as a friend.

so after that, nothing really changed. it seems like he's flirting a bit more, but i dont know. because he flirts with our friend too!

so anyways, im thinking i should maybe get over him, if nothings gunna happen, but my friend told me that...

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Meeting the Parents PERFECT OUTFIT?!


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 8:53 pm

So I'm finally going to meet my boyfriend's parents for a nice dinner at their house. Now his father and his brother aren't too fond of me to put it nicely. His brother is home for thanksgiving (from college) just my luck because he totally despises me. He found my facebook from his brother's (my boyfriend) facebook and my profile picture at the time was this bikini picture out back in my pool and he said SLUT and started yelling at his brother for dating me. So he doesn't like me very much even though I might be drop dead gorgeous I have the brains to match after all I did get early acceptance to UCLA & Stanford and a great personality to match. His Father doesn't like me too much either because he believes that I'm too pretty to date ...

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Justin Bieber!!


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 8:50 pm

Is it just me or is he so cute? i wish i new him he is so cute, i would so date him!!! ughh i wish i new him, he seems so cute and nice i love himm!! what do you guys think of him??
This is my fav. youtube vid of him idk why i just like it i love watching him dance<33333
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNnVqrKAnH4
Ughhh i want to no himm i love him he is soo f***** cute!!!!

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What attitude should I take towards my breakup?


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 8:32 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We decided to stay best friends because we both care about eachother very much. The problem is that I find myself still loving him and he on the other hand still likes me a tiny bit, but does not want a relationship with me because he was unhappy with it. I was a total wreck at first, but I've come a long way. I am still nowhere near over him though...Well, he likes another girl and I know that they've been having a thing with eachother, but now it turns out that she likes someone else more than she likes him. So, he's now getting heartbroken.. :/ Naturally, as his best friend I am helping him feel better about her. But it just pains me that he's sulking over HER. I realize that at some point he ma...

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My boyfirend broke up with me but i still like him.


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 7:59 pm

He asked my out and we went out for about a week and then he broke up with me saying that he still liked me and everything but that he was gonna be moving at the end of the school year and he thought it would be better if we didn't get to close. So i was like ok and we still hung out as friends and stuff. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me out again saying he wasn't moving till the end of senior year. That was on October 19 2009 and we would hang out everyday and he would say he loved me and would always kiss me and he was the first guy i have ever made out with. He got a bit handsy as in he would grab my boobs and try to get his hands down my pants but i wouldn't let him. so whatever and everything was going great im in love and so was h...

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Stereotypical Teenage Romance Question


Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 6:23 pm

To be frank, I'm in love (well high school love) with one of my marching band drum majors. Its a bit ridiculous how much I like him. I just think everything about him is amazing. Problem is, I'm 90% sure he likes someone else. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore and I think he likes a girl in his grade. I'm pretty jealous since she's very pretty, a wonderful singer, extremely talented, and pretty much every positive attribute that I am not. I'm aware that its not possible to force him to like me but is there a way to show him what I'm feeling without being awkward or completely unappealing?

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