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keeping it together in tough times
im gonna try keep this short,
well it started about a month ago i guess, my gf decided we shouldnt be together any more due to her leaving for university. obviously feeling hurt and rejected i reluctently agreed because it really would have been for the best. (we only went out for about a month then when she told me we shouldnt see eachother she still came back at the weekend and we did still did bf and gf stuff) then she mashed her car and didnt want to drive in case of more accidents, its going to cost 1000 quid to repair. its been 4 weeks since i last saw her and since then things have been breaking left right and center that need to be paid for to be repair'd. first it was my snowboard that i need for my job. then it was my skateboard which both together added up to about 195 quid alone, my computer broke a couple of days ago which could cost even more. since then gradually getting ever more pissed off and frustrated with how this month has gone... i find out that my (now ex) has found some one else while she was at uni im happy for her i really am but it really feels like i wont see her again for a long time which i guess woudlnt be such a bad thing, iv started talking to another girl as well but im still too stuppidly in love with my ex... i know times a gd healer but this actually the worst iv felt in a long time. i mean even more so than the lonliness i felt before i met her. help me please
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iv already talk to you online but i felt like i didnt say enough then i saw this.i know you really liked her and you guys did try to make it work but how long would it of worked like that?you knew it was going to be had for the both of you.it is good that you may not see her for a while it will help you sort out your thoughts.ofcourse your going to feel really sad and hurt because its natural its a good thing to feel bad in a way because it hows how much you felt for her.i want to say this in the nicest way possible.i mean here you are sitting feeling bad you lost the girl you love while shes over there with another man.did she not love you enough to not move on so quickly?usually love is about total commitment.please do not hate me for saying it!im your friend so i want to be complete with you.you should let her go...how?youll find a way.youll manage.people get into accidents everyday and loose a limb or loose sight or loose touch etc and in the end they manage why cant you?thats because you will manage.youll find that way.
i hope i havent hurt you in anything iv said.i dont mean to be cruel or mean i just want to tell you what i think is best.
xoxo sia
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