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okay so im 15/f almost 16:). anyway me and my ex kyle broke up about a year ago. hes been dating this new girl for awhile now. and me and him talk still like we use to when we dated he still says he loves me and wont get over me. and well i feel the same way about him, but he has a girlfriend. they fight a lot a lot. she doesn't like him talking to any girl at all. she has spies on him if shes not there she has one of her friends watch him like hes a baby, hes a big boy and can do what he wants to do. im kinda the other girl like we talk about hooking up and stuff im fine with him having a girl friend. just because i don't care about her. i know how she would feel if he cheats on her but. its like i said i don't care about her. i know what i want and its him. but its going to be even harder in school to see him with her and when he kisses her im going to have to live with that. he says i cant date another boy. but hes dating another girl is that fare? he also gets mad at me when we talk about our pasts and what we have done. he doesn't like the fact that i've done somethings in my past is that fare? when hes done more then me?? i don't get mad about it.
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hey girl, heres my advice because i had the exact same problem with this guy i dated for a year and we recently jus broke up but we still flirt and evrything. first off, NO MAN SHOULD TELL YOU WHAT TO DO! (: whether its who your talking to or what your talking about or even who your dating. you and your ex arent together and he has a new gf so he has no right to tell you that you cant date other guys. second, if you want to talk about your past then go right ahead. he has no right to control you.
as for the whole hooking up thing.. you can take my advice or leave it, im jus being honest because ive been there before and personally don't hook up with him. i mean he is your EX for a reason so there is obviously a reason you two arent still together. even though you dont care about his gf, what if you were his gf and he was trying to hook up with his ex, wouldnt you feel betrayed and hurt. all im saying is it isnt right because hes goin to use you and then go back to his gf and there you are all broken hearted. if he wants to be with you then he will break up with his gf. my advice is to stay away and jus be casual friends with him but move on to new guys that you can date.
goodluck and if you need any more help with this issue or anything else i am always here jus message me! (:
<3 heatherr 18/f
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