Question Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 6:23 pm
To be frank, I'm in love (well high school love) with one of my marching band drum majors. Its a bit ridiculous how much I like him. I just think everything about him is amazing. Problem is, I'm 90% sure he likes someone else. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore and I think he likes a girl in his grade. I'm pretty jealous since she's very pretty, a wonderful singer, extremely talented, and pretty much every positive attribute that I am not. I'm aware that its not possible to force him to like me but is there a way to show him what I'm feeling without being awkward or completely unappealing?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? katiexsays answered Thursday November 26 2009, 9:52 pm: Do little things for him. Laugh at his jokes, write him little notes, tell him you feel happy and at ease around him- but don't try too hard to impress him. I hate to say it and I know you've heard this a million times, but be yourself. Guys want girls that are comfortable around them and not afraid to be who they are.
The other girl might be pretty and talented, but who's to say you're not? Don't sell yourself short; you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. I know that's another overused phrase, but it really is true.
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