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Unattractive or Am I Too Sensitive?


Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 2:35 am

Every time I make friends with a guy, they treat me like a kid sister. I am teased so much! It's nothing offensive, just playful, but I don't know what to think.

Like if they look at my homework assignments, they pick on me for being too neat, or the way I write my 6's, or the way I talk. They have to say something about everything, I try to laugh it off, but it gets really old! I think we are friends, am I wrong?

Am I dealing with jerks, or am I just being too touchy? To be fair, this happens when we talk about anything, it drives me crazy!

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does he like me, he keeps giving mixed signals.


Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 1:59 am

18/female. senior in high school. this may be long but i'll return the favor to anyone who helps!!:)

i've liked this guy joe for a while now .. i use to give him all the attention and do whatever he wanted me to (not sexually) but everything else because i was basically so in love with him but he never knew. i've probably liked him for 4 years now but couldn't do anything about it because he had a girlfriend of 3 years. Now there broken up. Anyways, i just cant tell if he likes me or not. We're actually really good friends, i'm comfortable around him. now, i dont give him all the attention, i try to not show much interest and look like an annoying attached girl. well tonight me and my friend hung out with like 7 of the hockey...

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ex boyfriend mess!


Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 1:45 am

okay well im in tenth grade right now. and i dated a boy in sixth grade well call him C. we went out for the whole year but we were just young kids so it wasnt anything big. i broke up with him but in eighth grade he was in my class and we flirted a little but nothing to make us go out again. iv never really lost an interest in him but i just left it alone. in ninth grade i texted him once saying that i heard our song on the radio and we flirted a bit so i was getting more feelings for him. after a while i strait out and told him i really liked him, he said he was talking to a girl and there about to go out. then a few months after we were flirting again but just stopped when i found out he was talking to another girl. now i got a facebook ...

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is he using me?


Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 1:26 am

alright this is going to be a very long story so bear with me. Im a 16 year old female. Ive known this guy for a while now his name is collin. He lives three hours away from me. I NEVER got to see him at all until recently. THe first time i saw him was early september. For a little background information on our relationship. We have known each other for about a year now. When we first met we tried dating but it didnt work well for one we figured out id never be able to see him. So we broke up. We talked alot, well had phone sex alot.He started dating this girl named april and kind of stopped talkin to me a little but still wanted to have phone sex. I was like no. We didnt talke for a couple of weeks then started talking again. His friend aa...

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from a guys oppinion...


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 11:35 pm

do you like it if or when a girl chases after you? what do you want her to do to let you know that she likes you? i just need a guy to answer this please. i will rate 5.

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HOw to get my Boyfriend to passionately kiss me


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 9:36 pm

I mean, me and my boyfriend kiss, of course, but I'm not feeling the passion. I want a passionate kiss that will leave me thinking about it for days. But I'm kind of a shy person, so I can't just go up to him and ask him for it...What do I do? Also, Tips on turning him on? Making him hot? Anything will help. Thank You Very Much!

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forgive me


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 7:29 pm

how do you get someone to forgive you. Ok so this guy likes me and I haven't texted him in about one month because I got my phone taken away. so on thanksgiving he texted me saying happy thanksgivig and I texted him back because I had jus gotten my phone the night before. So then I texted him and he won't text back. He probably thinks I am a liar but I'm not. What's even worse is that I promise him that when I got my phone back I would text him by I didn't. :( how can I get him to forgive me? Please help me

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ex-love (long)


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 5:57 pm

16/f

when i was in 9th grade, jus turned 14 years old, i became really good friends with a junior, 17 years old. lets call him T. me and T had pretty much EVERYTHIN in common, from favorite color/food/hobbies/music, to my name bein the girl version of his, our artwork, to heartbreak/family problems, i mean everything ! obviously we bonded a lot, but he had an evil jealous girlfriend who would never let us hang out. shed send me threatening messages but she never really did anythin about it. so basically, we kept our friendship under the radar.

at the end of the year me and him began 'talkin' because him and his girlfriend broke up. the only bad part was that i got in trouble for some things and wouldnt be able...

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boyfriend didnt help me.


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 2:55 pm

my sister and i got in a huge physical fight today. she started punching me and tried knocking my door down with a fieldhockey stick in her hand. I imed my boyfriend of over a year, begging him to pick me up and help me and get me out of my house before it got worse, and he was like whatever make peace with her i got to go. i dont know what to do, was that assholeish of him or no?

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Boyfriend is still in love with ex.. from 4 years ago


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 2:00 pm

Hi, my boyfriend (19, 15 at the time) had a girlfriend that lasted for four months four years ago. I have been his girlfriend for 14 months. I saw on one of his AIM conversations with a girl and said that he still likes/loves the girl brittany, but its hard to say love because he loves me. and that he thinks about her all the time and that it kills him whenever he thinks about her. I remember i was in the car with him once and he looked in his rearview mirror and said "OMG ITS BRITTANY!" and i was like "okay, shes ugly as shit" and he goes "hmph." i was like oh okay. We were at a stop sign for about 10 minutes, as he was staring at her in the rearview mirror.
only a couple months into our relationship w...

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The tides have turned.


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 1:53 pm

19/female.

So i'm not going to lie, i always get attention around guys, i'm use to it and love it. I'm an outgoing girl, i just love to have fun and don't care what people think about me. My best friend, she is okay looking, but every guy always tells me how i'm hotter than her and nobody really thinks she is pretty. I do feel bad for her, but obviously i don't tell her they say that. Well anyways, there was this cute guy that she was interested in and i didn't think anything was going to happen with it because she is a really shy girl, she's never kissed a guy before or anything and never had a boyfriend and this guy is the exact opposite. Well we ended up hanging out with him last night and he was giving her all the attenti...

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:/


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 1:09 pm

There's this kid that i currently like and he used to like me when we first met but then he kinda said he liked me alot as a friend (after a while). He kissed me one time and then after that i think that gave him confidence to go for girls way out of his league.I like him for who he is ,not what he looks like because he's not the best looking.My so called "best friend" became friends with him and talks to him alll the time (i introduced them to eachother) yet he ended up liking her because she continues to talk to him all the time even thought she doesnt like him! she just likes him as a friend.I told her lots of times that i like him and she still continues to talk to him and say "dont worry nothings gonna happen because i d...

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This is really stressing me out.


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 11:31 am

I'm kind of surprised at myself, asking a question on here about my love life. Usually I can deal things out on my own- but lately I've realized my antics only lead to the same outcome :unhappy and alone. Here's the lowdown-

My friend,we'll call her X, used to really like this kid- Z. So it was fine, I was happy for them if anything were to come out of it.So they were on webcam, and i went on just to say hi. Then "Z", ends up telling my friend X, that he has a huge crush on me. Thing is, i found it kind of odd,seeing as usually to like someone you have to talk to them first.(that's how i am,anyway) So naturally my friend X, was crushed. I felt horrible, because i only wanted the best for them two. X finally moves o...

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completely heart broken


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 5:22 am

i need as much advice as possible because i'm so confused and torn apart...


i don't know if you remember me but i'm that girl who asked all those questions about getting back together with my boyfriend over the summer and going on vacation with him. (we started dating aug. 11.2008 broke up april 26th 2009 then started going back out july 20th 2009 and now broke up again november 27th 2008 :/)...we both are 17 by the way.


okay so tonight he dumped me. again. i can't sleep, i can't eat, and theres this huge hole in my heart. i told myself i would never get this attached but its too late, because i am. it is impossible for me to get over him....three months wasn't enough i feel like its going to be...

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this one girl


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 3:49 am

im 16/m

there is this girl in my class who i kinda like.
but the thing is she has this boyfriend who shes been with for about 2 years. The thing is, her boyfriend in in college and she always talks about how seperate their lives are. And another thing is, i know shes now happy with him. She is actually scared of him because he has a really bad tempter and sometimes abuses her, but for some reason, she sticks with him.....

And i think she kinda likes me too.. and i just wanted her to know that she could have way better than him, because she KNOWS that she isnt happy, she just says that because shes afraid that her boyfriend might smack her if she said she liked ME, which i think she does.

what do i do?


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I really want my friend.


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 2:34 am

I've been with this one guy for like 4 years, and i'm only 19. I know I love him and could marry him but I'm so sexually frustrated. My friend Roe is so shy and nerdy and all I keep thinking about is him fucking me on his table, bed, and floor. I can't stop thinking about sleeping with him. If I don't do something qiuck i'm going to jump him. But I can't cheat...nsndknfsdsd. So frustrating.

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Why am i not crushing?


Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 12:17 am

Im in middle school and i have problem. There are 300 cute guys at my school that have great personalities and i dont have a crush on any of them! The even bigger poblem is that none of them are crushing on me. I think some of them are cute but there is no attraction and i find that wierd considering im not a lesbo. I had a boy friend the first 3 and a half months of school and we were going really well until i broke up with him. Is there just someting wrong with me? Im mean im a girl and they are boys. And i know im more way more brains then beauty(straight A student thank you)and im not a snot or mean. i love to make people laugh(the nice way) but i just don't see myself getting my first kiss or being found attractive any time soon. pleas...

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BIG problem with me & my husband.


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 7:48 pm

Hey I'm in desperate need of help with my marriage....
I've been married for a year and a half now and things are definitley not going well at all....
So a little about myself...my name is alicia and im a sophomore in college. I have just recently found out that i have seperation anxiety when it comes to my husband....yes pretty ridiculous but its very hard to deal with. My husband has been ditching his friends cuz he knows how I am but honestly, i really dont want him to b/c I def do NOT wanna deny him of his friends.
I prolly wont be able to go into too many details about this but bottom line is, i dont know how to deal with it. Everytime he mentions going somewhere even places that wont take too long, i get a really...

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I'm always helping him out


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 6:14 pm

I know I'm only a junior in high school, and I'm still young. But I know this happens to a lot of people. I have really loved my close friend for the longest time. He's sweet and funny and easy to talk to. But he's confused between two other girls. One has been changing her mind on whether she likes him, and the other is older and kind of not interested. But were all friends with each other. He always comes to me on advice on whom he should go after, but I just want to shout "I'm right here, I'm always here, I would never change my mind about you." But I know he'll never see me that way. It's so frustrating because I think he knows I like him too. How do I get him to see me like that?


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Age difference?


Posted Friday November 27 2009, 5:57 pm

So there is this guy... that I really like. The problem is that he's 17 and I'm 14, almost 15. We've been through a lot together and I'd like to, well, go out with him.
But is the age difference too much? Won't it be illegal considering he is almost 18? Would you go for it?

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