Question Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 3:49 am
im 16/m
there is this girl in my class who i kinda like.
but the thing is she has this boyfriend who shes been with for about 2 years. The thing is, her boyfriend in in college and she always talks about how seperate their lives are. And another thing is, i know shes now happy with him. She is actually scared of him because he has a really bad tempter and sometimes abuses her, but for some reason, she sticks with him.....
And i think she kinda likes me too.. and i just wanted her to know that she could have way better than him, because she KNOWS that she isnt happy, she just says that because shes afraid that her boyfriend might smack her if she said she liked ME, which i think she does.
hatedfornoreason answered Saturday November 28 2009, 9:22 pm: If he abuses her and she likes you, than yeah she's afraid of getting hurt. She's in an abusive relationship and she needs your help. Tell someone(not a friend), like a parent or school Counsler for help. If she says she is happy its better to be safe than sorry. Get help for her now before its too late and someone gets seriously hurt or possibly dies. Its always better to be safe than sorry with something like this. Your her only way out. Never think that if you dont help her someone else will, because thats what everyone else is thinking. Get help IMMEDIATLY. [ hatedfornoreason's advice column | Ask hatedfornoreason A Question ]
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