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Does she wanna be friends or not?
i used to be REALLY good friends with this girl called marianne
we were bestfriends
then we start drifting
and i dont know why!!!!
its weird! :(
we used to hang out ALL the time and go to parties and peoples places all the time
now she doesnt hardly talk to me.
she doesnt wannt to do anything anymore.
ive tried explaining this to her..
but she thinks thats nothing has changed at all but it hass!
even my other bestfriends relationship is drifting as well.
it seems like we are aqquatinces now..
what do i do without her getting angry.
or should i just leave it .
does she want to be my friends or not ?? !
PLEASE HELP
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LET IT GO! let it go let it go let it GOOOOO! I'm telling you, this has happened to me many times. If someone is supposed to stay your friend they will. When the universe says that's enough or God or what ever you want to call it, when life says that's enough, that's enough. Let me tell you, the first person this happened to me with "recently" cause it's happened all my life cause my mom was a mover. The more recent one, she used to sleep with guys I liked...I was new to the dating scene and I was always taught to put friends before men so I didn't know how to handle this triffelin person. Anyway, SHE started acting stank and not hanging out with us...We tried to go against the Universal Forces that were saying NO NO NO, she's not the one, and we kept trying to make up with her...long story short, it didn't work and she got even stanker. Second most recent...This girl that I thought was going to be my homie for LIFE...stoped talking to me when she and her friend fell out. We were a group of 3, now this was not the first time she just stoped talking to me for no apparent reason...this was the 3rd time! And I was fed up, so when she called me like 2 months later I was like when you are ready to talk about why you keep shutting me out then we'll talk and she called ME STANK! ME! So now her life is just a down hill spiral...she hates her life she hates her job she is drinking all the time and so on and so on...so I'm not saying that your friends are going to turn to shit...but maybe it's time for you to meet some new types of people. Maybe there are people coming into your life to guide you along your path to help you with what you are trying to do. That's what you have to focus on, sometimes we out grow people or we are spiritually done with them, meaning what ever we were supposed to learn from them we learned and it's time to move on. So just let her go, and it's hard and it's gonna hurt and you may wanna pick up that phone and call and say hey how's it going and if you really need to do it, but don't be supprised if you get dissed haha but if you don't and it rekindles then that's ok too. I have another friend that we were BEST FRIENDS like you wouldn't not even understand, almost like we were seperated at birth and we got seperated and didn't talk for like 6 mos and you know what when I called, it was like we had never been seperated. She is my friend and she is supposed to be in my life...I have another one that moved to Japan and she still sees me as one of her best friends and treats me as such even though we don't talk much. If it's supposed to be, nothing can destroy it. Not even continents. So in regards to your friend, for now I say just let it fade out. ok hope it helped.
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