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proving my love
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 3:18 pm
I was with my boyfriend for 8 months almost to the day when I broke up with him. My first few months of college had really stressed me out and the little things started to get to me and I pushed myself away from him and we ended up getting in a huge fight and I told him I didn't love him as much as I used to which wasn't true at all it was just something I said in the heat of the moment. We broke up and it destroyed him. I regretted it as soon as it happened but he was too angry to talk to me. He got a new girlfriend after a week but it was just for the physical benefits. We broke up in early October and started texting again around the middle of November and I told him I wanted to get back together but he'd tell me that I broke his heart a...
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Like a guy, but my best friend liked him? A lot.
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:51 pm
So there's this guy, he's been my friend since like 7th grade, I'm a freshman in high school now soo. Anyway, I'm not quite sure if I like him yet, cause I'm sort of getting over another guy that I've dated before. I've been hanging out with this certain group of guys a lot and so it's not like I can avoid him or anything. But the thing is, my best friend liked him for about 2 months and is just now trying to get over him. Sometimes I think she's mad at me cause he flirts with me a lot. But I can't tell if it's friendly flirting or like real flirting. One of my other best friends had this same problem and it didn't end well. Her and the other girl that was involved aren't friends anymore, and they're two of my best friends so it's awkward w...
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my love?
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 3:47 am
I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and I couldn't wish fore a more perfect girl. But recently she has admitted to staring at other guys, even while she was with me. This thought drives me insane I don't know what to think. Please any advice would be helpful
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Stuck on him till the end of time.
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:50 am
So this is probably going to be really long sorry! So in 8th grade I moved schools and I became really close friends with this guy(Let's call him S) So S and I got really close and he pretty much told me everything. I started to like him and for a while it seemed like he liked me too because he broke up with his girlfriend and called me and asked me what I thought about that and showed me what he wrote to her and stuff and if you know him you'd know he has trust issues and stuff. So then after a while one of his immediate family members died and he was crushed. It was like he didn't want to live anymore but he leaned on me for support and I tried to help him through it. Afterwards we got really close and I felt like he was in love with me n...
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cute/sexy text messages to send girlfriend
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:48 am
what are some cute, flirty or sexy things that i could send my girlfriend just randomly in the day to make her smile? i usually do it but im just running out of things to say
thanks
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He "doesnt date"
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:39 am
17/F
so christianity is a HUGE thing in my life.... and if i ever start to like a guy, one thing i look for is if he is a christian... so theres this boy at my church who is 18, and he has a great relationship with the Lord, he is just outstanding! i started to fall for him this summer. before the summer, he was awkward to talk to, but very nice to look at! haha. we started chilling in groups over the summer... and last week we went to a parrty together. i rode with him and we stopped at his house to pick up his guitar and before entering he said, "my parents aren't home would that be okay with your 'rents? i don't want to disrespect them" and i was just sooo happy he said that because that means he respects elders... ...
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Texting a girl
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 1:38 am
Alrighty, so I'm 17. And there's a girl I like. She just got out of a relationship, so I'm keeping my distance, as I don't want to rush her into things, and I'm not 100% sure she likes me. Anywho, we haven't been able to see eachother since it's winter break and she's been sick. We text everyday. So I was wondering, what are some flirty, but subtle things I can send to her? Maybe something like a nickname or something. I don't know, something. Anything would be helpful, seeing as how I'm pretty bad with women, ha. Thanks in advance.
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It hurts to see him with her
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 7:54 pm
First of all i would like to say thank you to all those people who told me to stick with my vow, b/c it turns out he was playing me anyway.(God my love life sucks)anyway i had this friend with benefits over the summer who helped me get over some serious greif, and we kinda became attached to each other, he's the only person who knowd my deepest secrets. And we contiuned being friends with benefits until say mid-nov. Recently i found he has a girlfriend and that kinda broke my heart...not tht im not happy for him or anything thats not the case. its just the fact that whenever we were together it was like we were going out...that and people expected me to go out with him. Now, whenever im around him i get a hollow feeling and when hes with hi...
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Dad left 4 years ago, and I found Him. What should I do?
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 7:38 pm
4 years ago was the last time I saw my dad. He left without a trace. We've been tracking him and he was arrested today. I might go see him tomorrow, and I am thinking of what to do/say. I could really use some help now. I am a 14 year old male.
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So much happening...
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 6:59 pm
My boyfriend of 14 mths told me recently he joined the Air force. However he told me after everyone else new and over two weeks after he told everyone else. His friends, the lady who cuts his hair, even my neighbor knew before I did. I feel very hurt not just in the fact he kept something from me like that, but the fact he lied to me. He lied to me by saying that he was hanging out with his friends when actually he was joining the air force. I guess I just figure with as long as we dated he could at least be honest with him. I've been completely 100% honest with him from the beginning. I'm am extremely hurt as of right now and been thinking about ending it for the past week and a half. Besides he could be gone for a yr to two at a time. I j...
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ask me out already!
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 6:14 pm
Okay so 14/f I have known this guy Dillon since Grade 3. and in grade 7 he asked me out but I wasnt ready to be more then bestfriends. So now in summer time just before Grade 9, he said we could see where this year takes us and we could maybe date. well its pretty much in the middle of the year, and I really really like him. and I have health and career with him,im trying to sit with him more. these are the signs I get from him:
Makes eye contact
Looks at me a lot
Laughs at what I say
Smiles & blushes
Tries to make convorsations
And when Im outside of the school him ad his friends alway look at me and me and my best friend swear they talk about me.
So my question is.. Does he like ...
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Boy=so confused
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 6:03 pm
Well u see ive been talking with this boy,I really love him,like he is everything i need & wand there is just something about him. But he has a girlfriend. But we still talk and fool around. it kills me but i want it so bad i know im selling my self short so what do i do.Tell him its me or her? because i feel if i do that ill like be crushed. He tells me he doesn't like me as a girl friend number 2 but yet he calles me babe and he treats me like that so like what gives. The other girl doesn't even talk to him,ever but for some reason he still wants her..i just need some advice to see what i should do.
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What Cliche Things Can I Do, That Will Be Uncliche Because I'm A Girl?
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 4:25 pm
I'm with my boyfriend :) and we both know I'm not romantic or cliche. I dont agree with the whole posting it on your facebook, putting his name in your msn kind of thing. I'm just not romantic. It's our anniversary thing soon, and he loves it when I do something sweet.
I had a plan to do something that's cliche -when a guy does something for a girl - it's quite cliche - but if a girl does it go a guy - it's really suprising.
I want to do something really random, like turn up at his door step with a single red rose.
Does anyone have any ideas like that? He'll love it :) x
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I like a girl, but she might not like me. What do I do?
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 3:30 pm
I like this girl, and we talk alot. We hug, but we're just friends. I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid she'll say no. I don't take rejection well. I mean, she might say no, but she might say yes. We are in middle school. I'm in 8th grade and she's in 7th grade. What should I do?
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don't know what to say to him.
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 7:49 am
I'm 14/f and have liked this boy for a while now. About a month ago, we both admited we liked eachother, but that was it. And he never brought it up again, he told one of our mutual friends he wanted to get to know me more first, and i accepted that. But then he also told our fiend that he wasnt sure if he still liked me. So i just decided to leave it, but i still like him and talk to him. Lately, he's been getting jealous of this boy who is flirting with me and he's started questioning me loads about it etc, what does that mean? He also told me that i never make any effort to talk to him, but he doesnt with me either!? I want to talk to him about, well, all of it, but i just dont know what to say or how to bring it up, any ideas?
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TWO by ONE?
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 12:18 am
NUMBER ONE:
i've had a crush on since sophomore year, when i had a class with him. we chatted every other day. then, he was a senior the next upcoming school year and we talked a little in the hall and stuff. annddd no he guys to college out of state. when he came back to visit some people at school, i saw him in the cafeteria and i was got HUGE butterflies when i saw him. we exchanged hugs and now i can't get my mind off this kid.
NUMBER TWO:
i've known for 6 or so years. i always thought he was a major babe, but he was so awkward to be around that it was kind of impossible to like him. then this past summer, i got to know him really well on a mission trip. he stopped hanging out with his usual group on the ...
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my jerk of a boy friend
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 12:13 am
ok so my boy friend is such a huge jerk sometimes....just recently he was doing something that was fine with me(making this noise like he's punching a bunch of buttons on his cell phone)he was doing that for like a half an hour then i asked him to stop the third time i asked him he put me on hold without asking me to wait then he hung up on me after calling him for an half and hour (kinda crazy) it kept going to his voice mail he finally answers and says his phone wasnt off but it wasnt ringing either....i explained to him that i was mad and what it was that i was mad at he refuses to see things my way and addmitt he was wrong....we made a deal that whenever we made the other person upset we would apologize....after yelling at him for 5 min...
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Boy, this boy is hard to read.
Posted Monday December 21 2009, 8:47 pm
Okay so 14/f
I have known this guy Dillon since Grade 3. and in grade 7 he asked me out but I wasnt ready to be more then bestfriends. So now this year, in Grade 9, he said we could see where this year takes us and we could maybe date. well its pretty much in the middle of the year, and I really really like him. and I have health and career with im and im trying to sit with him more. these are the signs I get from him:
Makes eye contact
Looks at me a lot
Laughs at what I say
Smiles & blushes
Tryes to make convorsations
And when Im outside of the school him ad his friends alway look at me and me and my best friend swear they talk about me.
So my question is.. Does he like me...
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BOOTY CALL GIRL
Posted Monday December 21 2009, 8:23 pm
I think I have issues... every time im talking to a guy i start to like them then they always leave me... is there something wrong with me that I can't keep a guy... ???????????????
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A kid named Connor
Posted Monday December 21 2009, 8:04 pm
I need some help here. I met a boy. I liked him and it was obvious he liked me. We slowdanced twice, I got his number, and he hugged me good-bye! We texted a little after we met even. The next time I saw him he was with more than 1 different girls. We barely talked. I've been wanting to call him for a while now, but I never get a good chance. I for sure am not desperate. Don't get that impression. I just need some help.
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