Question Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 1:38 am
Alrighty, so I'm 17. And there's a girl I like. She just got out of a relationship, so I'm keeping my distance, as I don't want to rush her into things, and I'm not 100% sure she likes me. Anywho, we haven't been able to see eachother since it's winter break and she's been sick. We text everyday. So I was wondering, what are some flirty, but subtle things I can send to her? Maybe something like a nickname or something. I don't know, something. Anything would be helpful, seeing as how I'm pretty bad with women, ha. Thanks in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rayy23 answered Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:44 pm: Well I am a girl, so I might be able to help. And when guys give me nicknames, I absolutely love it. So that may be a good idea. If you're not sure if she likes you, then bring up her ex and talk about well have you moved on, is there anyone else you're interested in? Do you think ya'll will date again? Things like that. Make sure to have a strong friendly relationship before you try to make any moves. I always feel awkward when I don't have a good friend relationship with a guy and he tries to take it farther. Just get to know her a lot more, girls like it whenever you become more interested in what they like, and their lives and stuff. Hope this helped? [ rayy23's advice column | Ask rayy23 A Question ]
jazzyloulou answered Wednesday December 23 2009, 3:59 am: Well i'm a girl and normally we are pretty good at getting hints. So be subtle and try to be sensitive to her by saying things like, 'So how are you feeling about what happened between you and ......' Tell her that if she needs someone to talk to she can always talk to you. Eventually when you are better friends subtly start saying things like, 'did you hear about that new film ......., its supposed to be really good' Start a conversation about this, if she says yeah thats a good film ask her if she'd like to go and see it with you or if she says its bad then say, 'oh ok then well i was going to the cinema anyway maybe there's another film you'd like to see' Good luck x Email me back if you need more help x [ jazzyloulou's advice column | Ask jazzyloulou A Question ]
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