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would a tinted moisturizer make my face feel/look like i have makeup on? i want to be able to touch my face and it feel like nothing is on it. (link)
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Yes, they're really good for looking natural and also feeling like you don't have much make-up on. Just make sure you get a good one (i reccomment the benefit one). They will also keep your skin moisturised and looking good.
Hope this helps
Jazzy x
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So Im a female who wants to know how to make boobs bigger without surgery. I used push up bras but is there anyother way?? (link)
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Well, push up bras are really for people who have boobs so I would say you could buy a bra with padding or buying chicken fillets, which are like extra padding you can put in your bra
Hope this helps
Jazzy x
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I keep adding a person I know but the person told me she never got the friend request and said it happend with another person who was trying to add her. Is that possible that her facebook account is weird or is she purposely ignoring the request? (link)
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I'm sorry but there is no way of actually knowing. The only thing i could suggest is what you could do is to be with her when she goes on her profile then you can add yourself..
Hope this helps
Jazzy x
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how long does hicky last (link)
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It depends on how big it is... normally a small one is a few days but a bigger one can last like a week or maybe more
Jazzy x
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I met him at a soccer tournament. He is a year above me (Im graduating 8th, he is a freshman). He is going to the brother school of the all girls school I am attending next year. I am seeing him this weekend and I want to know how to make an impression. I am leaving at the end of June for a month and I want to make sure he doesn't forget me. My friends want me to invite him to a party at our beach (he lives in my town) that all of my soccer friends and I are having. Any ideas? (link)
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Well, when you see him this weekend, don't act to eager or dress up completely different to how you normally do, just be yourself. You can make yourself look nice with make-up and nice clothes but don't overdo it or he may feel a bit awkward. It would be a good idea to invite him to the party but remember that he may see other girls and i don't want you to get your heart broken. Hope this helps
Jazzy x
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should i follow my head or heart and why? (link)
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It really depends what you are talking about. If it's about love then people say you should always follow your heart. This is nearly always the right thing to do but if the person is treating you badly then you should follow your head because the heart is easier to fool. But try to use both, see how much you love him/her and think about how it's really going. Email me back..
Jazzy x
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This guy and I have been going out for four months now. Before we were together I was a virgin, and i planned to stay that way until marriage. He forced me into having sex with him. I kept telling him no but he kept on doing things to turn me on. At times I would try to push him off and he would pretend to stop and then start back up again. I was so stupid not to walk away, I should have. I should have broken up with him,and the thing is I have tried many times. I prayed about it for help and i kept firm, but the thing is he won't give up on me (or lets say let me). I guess he says I'm his first real girlfriend because his past relationships were all just hit and quit. He never took any of the girls seriously. I feel that he is too controlling. I understand the situation I'm in, but I just want to get out of it. I told him before that what he did was wrong and he knew it was true and apologized and tried to show it, but it didn't last too long because each time he forced me. I could even run at times trying to get away, but he would chase me. And then everytime he would pull my pants down, i would pull them back up. Its just too much for me. I feel that he just wants me for sex..and that is the way it is. I told him this before but like anyone like him they will deny. I want out, but at the same time i'm scared..i'm not sure why...and then i feel like i love him..but then i feel like I don't...i just want my normal life back....and all the things he does for me like buying me three phones when mine broke or got stolen....or him being faithful to me and just being so clingy...its just too much for me...or walking over to my house everyday just to hang out (not do anything)....It just feels like he is doing it for something in return...i'm so sick of it...I know this is an unhealthy relationship...I just need to be strong and get out of it as soon as possible because he will keep on forcing me to do things I don't want to...and thats going to be unhappy for me....I just need some advice on how to get out...I do want to but i'm not sure what is holding me back....thank you for your advice (link)
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You seem like you really like him and that's good but he really isn't treating you well. He is forcing you to do something you don't want to do and if he really loved you then he would like you for who you are and be willing to wait. If you do think you love him, then you should be able to talk to him about it. You need to say.. 'You are treating me badly and making me do what i don't want to, if it keeps happening then we will have to break up' or if you really don't want to give it another chance then just tell him you can't go out with him anymore. Hope this helps.
Jazzy x
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15/f & my friend greg** is 15/m .
My friends dad beats him. And according to court his dad is allowed to give him "spankings" & there's no proof that he beats him. This may be hard to follow.
Gregs mom would take his father to court, so that he would never have to see his dad again. But Greg has been to rehab before & his father could use that against them in court.
I'm so scared my friend is gonna get seriously hurt. I'm talking to him right now on face book & he's telling me how his dad left him on the stairs bleeding and he couldn't move what so ever.
What if his dad takes it too far? I don't even know what to do. My mom would take Greg into our home in a heart beat, but him & his mom would get arrested for him running away.
WHAT DO I DO ? :'( (link)
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It is very nice that you care so much about your friend. There are many things that can be done. I think the best thing would be for him to go to court. It is true that that could be used against him but after what he has done he might win. But also there is childline. They will not care that he has been in rehab, just that he is being abused.. This is the link for their website.. http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/Home.aspx and the calls are free and confidential. Hope this helps.
Jazzy x
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I have an audition on Monday, and I have no idea what to sing. I know you're supposed to pick a song that's good for your voice, but how does one know that? Feel free to give tips and maybe suggest songs. I really wanna do well.:)
xoxo
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Yeah it is hard trying to decide what to sing.... Really to see what style suits your voice you have to sing a lot of different song and see which sounds best. Do this in front of friends, family etc. to get another opinion. Also sing something u like and know well because you want them to feel like you like it and to show you are connected to it. Try and chose something that is linked to a situation you may be in.
Jazzylou :) xx
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okay, i have a problem. there's this boy that i've had the biggest crush on ever since i met him. well he had a girlfriend starting in spring of '09 and back in september him and i were at our mutual friends' apartment. we were all drinking but before we started he was telling us how him and his girlfriend were on a break and he didn't think he could date her anymore (they had been having a lot of problems) anyways, we were drinking and he was being especially flirty towards me. one thing lead to another and we hooked up, but i stopped and told him that i felt bad and that i was trying to help him by stopping. then he proceeded to tell me he didn't know what i wanted. this confused me to no end. but later on i found out that he told his girlfriend the next day that he hooked up with someone (but i don't know if he told her it was me) she said she liked him too much to let it affect them, so they went back to dating for about 2 weeks and then broke up for good. they are still broken up, but i feel bad. i don't know whether or not i should apologize to her, but i don't want to in case she didn't know it was me because that would open another can of worms. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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I think that since you like him so much and have for so long you should go for it. Though, you did say you were drunk and he still kept going out with her so he seems a bit of a player. I think the best thing to do though is to talk to her because it is the only way to clear your conscience..... Email me back if u need more help.
Jazzy :) xx
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i have a crush on this guy. lets call him CG. now i am a very shy person so one day i had my friend find out things about him in a mock interview. CG found out about this and said he only liked me as a friend. some friend he just ignores me now. so one day CG was extremely upset at school. he wasnt his normal self. he didnt joke around with people he was really quiet. when one of the funniest guys at school tried to make him laugh he wouldnt even crack a smile. he just walked around with this sad little puppy face and it was pretty heartbreaking. so later on i asked him on facebook if he was ok, hoping that he would come talk to me about his problem and that i could make him feel better and maybe he would want to talk to me more. but he never answered he just signed off and the next day never said a word to me. as i wrote this it almost didnt seem like a big deal to other people but idk i feel kind of hurt by this. everytime i try to talk to him, its like he doesnt want to talk to me and that he wishes i would just go away. i apologized for the whole mock interview thing and he said it was ok but he still didnt talk to me. i was going to ask him to a dance next year but im starting to see no point of it if hes just going to ignore me forever :( is there any hope for me with this guy? do i just forget about him or keep trying (link)
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You do have hope, never say that :)
Almost every girl goes through this and i know how you feel about the whole popular, skinny thing.
Something you need to remember is that boys are very hard to figure out. They are so confusing. Don't beat yourself up about him not talking to you when he was upset, boys will rarely talk to girls about their problems they will almost always only tell their friends who are boys, if they tell anyone. I'm sure he liked you as a friend but maybe not one of his best friends, you still have a chance but maybe you seem a bit clingy. Just be a bit subtle and flirty but don't worry if he doesn't like you, there are plenty of fish in the sea :) Email me back if u need help x
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Alrighty, so I'm 17. And there's a girl I like. She just got out of a relationship, so I'm keeping my distance, as I don't want to rush her into things, and I'm not 100% sure she likes me. Anywho, we haven't been able to see eachother since it's winter break and she's been sick. We text everyday. So I was wondering, what are some flirty, but subtle things I can send to her? Maybe something like a nickname or something. I don't know, something. Anything would be helpful, seeing as how I'm pretty bad with women, ha. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well i'm a girl and normally we are pretty good at getting hints. So be subtle and try to be sensitive to her by saying things like, 'So how are you feeling about what happened between you and ......' Tell her that if she needs someone to talk to she can always talk to you. Eventually when you are better friends subtly start saying things like, 'did you hear about that new film ......., its supposed to be really good' Start a conversation about this, if she says yeah thats a good film ask her if she'd like to go and see it with you or if she says its bad then say, 'oh ok then well i was going to the cinema anyway maybe there's another film you'd like to see' Good luck x Email me back if you need more help x
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Here's my situation:
My girlfriend wants me to give her a ride to school, because it gets cold up in our parts, and her car sits outside, so its always frosted over and unless she catches a ride with her mom, or leaves early on the bus, its impossible for her to get there. She hates the bus because the little kids on it are annoying and some mornings, her mom leaves early for work, so she can't catch a ride.
Giving her rides really isn't a problem for me, but it is for my Sister. She's 4 years younger than me, and it just seems impossible for her to get ready on time for me to pick up my girlfriend when she wants to be picked up. I tell her every night before she needs to get ready on time, and I still end up badgering her every morning to get out of the bathroom and on the road. If i try to talk to her about it on our way to school, she never listens. She acts way more immature than she really is (shes 14) and makes noises so she can't hear what im trying to tell her. Sometimes it frusturates me so much i threaten to drop her off right there wherever i am on my way to school (i have kicked her out a couple times and made her walk an extra few hundred feet to get there, (we live 10 miles away, so she's getting off easy)). She won't let me talk to her and she never learns the hard way. If she says anything to me its just whiny BS about how I do too much stuff for my girlfriend, and don't pay any attention to what anyone else [she] wants.
Of course, the obvious thing to try to do is talk to my dad about it, and ask him to enforce my sister's actions. But i've tried this and every time it happens she goes to him and whines about how she doesn't have her way, and always gets it her way. I've tried to make her ride the bus, I tell him its only fair that she rides the bus (just like I did when i was her age), and she whines and makes everyone's life hell for a while, and my dad just decides its easier to make me give her a ride instead of putting up with my sister, and I really can't blame him.
So all I'm really left with is to make my girlfriend wait for me to get there, or tell her i'll be too late to give her a ride. Every morning I do this, she basically ignores or crabs at me all day at school, and we always end up arguing about it that night on the phone. Since it's happening so often lately, Our relationship is really suffering. All she does is argue with me because I can't be there for her. and all I can say is that I'd be there for her if it wasn't for my sister. We never talk about anything exept my bitchy sister, and she asks me every morning if i can give her a ride and every night I lie and say ill be able to, just to make her feel alright, and so we dont have to spend more of the night arguing about it. Then every morning I end up banging on my sister's bathroom door, end up too late to pick my girlfriend up and get crabbed at all day in school and arguing with her every night.
Its just a terrible cycle that has kept going and going and getting worse and worse as it gets colder outside. I feel like i can yell and threaten my sister, kick and scream for my dad to make her listen and still never get any better off. Tonight on the phone, i was in tears trying to get my girlfriend to stop arguing about my sister and there was pure silence for like 2 minutes, then i asked if she was still there, and she just kept going on about how I don't have the guts to get what I want, how I can't get my sister to do what she wants me to make her do. I hung up. and havent heard from her in 2 hours.
And I think about how easy it would be for just one of them to change their habits and how hard it is for me to put up with them both. I just want to be a boyfriend for my girlfriend, but that doesn't stop the fact that my sister has to be my friend too, I really do get along with her when i'm not trying to make a point with her. And I am simply not the kind of person who can stand holding grudges against someone else, especailly someone as close as my girlfriend or sister.
Most of the time I decide it's better if i dont bother my dad at all with this crap, since all it is is a bunch of crap. To him, Its easier to make me take my sister and have my GF worry about getting to school because Sister raises hell every time anyone tries to deal with her. I don't want to try raising hell to get my way either, because then id be just as bad as my sister, and I have enough respect for my dad to leave him out of this. He has enough to worry about: He's our only parent and he needs a heart transplant.
I really just feel a need to be respected, not only by my sister, but by my girlfriend too, especially from her, actually. I just can't get any though. I don't know what the fuck i'm supposed to do. Its like im caught in this big argument between them, and I have to speak for both of them. yet either person I argue for, I really get nothing from it if I win.
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Okay, well i can see you are just trying to be the guy helping everyone but it's just gettign you stuck in the middle of a big fight. From how i see it (i may be wrong), but it seems to me that your girlfriend has many ways to get to school. Like catching a ride on the bus or with her mum or trying to defrost her car. But she wants to spend time with YOU! So you have to take your sister to school. But shes never ready. You've tried to show her you're serious by dropping her off but she doesnt care. I think the best way to show her you are serious is to just leave her the days she wont leave the house. This will show her that it's not a joke and she can't allways get her own way.
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some nights, i'm so tired but i can't seem to sleep. this only happens sometimes, not all the time. anyone know what i could do? (link)
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Well, it could possibly be that the days you don't fall asleep is because of stress and because you've got too much running through your mind. If it gets very bad, you can go to your local chemist or store where they sell sleeping pills. The one i have heard is good is night nurse but they may not sell it where you are. Good luck x
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i thank you so m,uch for your advice nobody has ever told me that before and i really appreaciate you and i'll definately take your advice and completely ignore him, i cant say it will be easy but he has hurt me so much i'll make it work lol thanx again (link)
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That's ok. Sometimes you just have to forget about someone becuase they're not worth it xx Good luck :) x
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ok alot has happend since my last question i just feel so nieve to him because in my eyes he does no wrong. i have recently learned that he has a girlfriend. well atleast thats what i suspect. he was on the phone with a girl and its just the way he talked to her...it was the same way he used to talk to me, and i'm not stupid i think they are dating just by his side of the conversation, it was just the same way he used to talk to me and it starting to all make sense now. the reason why he stopped texting and calling me. so now i kinda know my accusations are completely right he was using me the whole time.yeah i asked my friend to ask him and she did and she said he said he doesn't know why he wont ask you out. but i feel like hes been leading me on the whole tome. i dont know what to do now. but then again i feel like theres nothin really else i can do about it...but try to get over him...i just had my heart set on him and thats why its so hard for me to even think about getting over him...what should i doooo????? (link)
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I can't beleive he's done that. But, what you need to remember is that you don't need a boy to have a great time. If you are definately sure that he has a girlfriend and is using you, stay away from him. He's not worth it. You seem to be a really nice girl so hang out with your friends, try and forget about him. If you see him don't talk to him unless he talks to you. You'll find somebody else that won't use you and you'll wonder why you ever worried about him.
Email me back xxx
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i appreciate your advice so much because i really didnt know what to do...my ex and i have talked about our relationship on plenty occasions, and i told him i still had feelings for him since we really dont talk alot and we only flirt when were together i get mixed feelings because he doesnt txt me anymore like he used to...so i asked myself am i being used? does he really like me? and the biggest one should i move on? i understand he really likes me but this has been going on for two monthes now and still nothing more than flirting...can you help? (link)
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I can try yeah. So when you talked to him what does he say? Does he say that he agrees or does he just look a bit awkward? Since you obviously still like him a lot a good way to find out how he feels about you is to get a friend to talk to him. If he is only just flirting he may be trying to hint that he still likes you as well. Email me back. Good luck xxx
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ok so me and my ex went out for bout 2mon...and he broke up with me...at that time i found myself missing him and still having feelings for him, but i knew i couldnt do anything about it. well recently we both found out we still have really strong feelings for each other. its been 2months now and he hasn't asked me out, and he doesnt have a girlfriend. and eveyday he flirts and hug and touches me like we go out but, my thing is i like the flirting but i'd rather be with him. wat do i do...i wanna talk to him about it but i dont wanna run him off. plz help (link)
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Well, if he's flirting with you and hugging and touching you it means that he still likes you. I think he hasn't asked you out again because he thinks you've moved on and haven't said anything to him. You need to talk to him girl. Tell him you still like him. You've been out before so it shouldn't be embarrasing. Email me back if you want more help xxxx
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Hey ill try make this short and simple.
15/f
Theres this guy called blair. Hes really cute and hes SO cool.
This guy he is turning 18 soon.. we talk alot on bebo and stuff and we've hang out a couple of times with a group of people.
we are going to hang out by ourselfs after exams.. and i think i may start to like him. but im pretty sure hes just in it for the sex. im sexually active.. and we have plans to have sex.. :L sounds weird but hes soo hot :P
but what if my mum doesnt like him
he does smoke weed and drink most weekends so im guessing she wont like him :L
but she will wont to meet him first before we go out or whatever.
cause shes just like that.
and i feel bad if i argue to her about guys cos they are just guys and i want to make her happy as well as my self...
soo
idk
theres a couple of problems here.
my mother. and blair.
idk if he will like me or just want sex all the time.. which i guess i dont mind ..
and how do i get my mother to understand that i want to go out with the guys i like even though she dissagrees.
sorry that its long!
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Well, you're mum only cares about you but she's not always going to like the same people as you. So talk to her calmly.
And with him i'm not sure you should be hanging around him aswell. Drugs? Really? That's not a good influence at all. And i'd think about if he's really worth it and if he is using you.
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I'm TERRIBLE at keeping in touch with people. I had to do it all through high school because i switched to a private school so it was really hard to keep in touch with my public school friends but i struggled through it and mangaged to do it. but now that im in college its all happening all over again adn i hate it. I just "fb divorced my bf to be engaged to my friend here because she just broke up with her boyfriend and didn't know what to put her thing as" but now i feel bad about that (not that my friend really cares...its only facebook and we obvs weren't really married' but ugh i'm just so frusterated. (link)
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Trying to keep in touch with people when you've moved schools or house.
Like you said facebook is a good way to keep in touch and dont worry about the status, marriage thing. You didnt do anything wrong
Also texting, emailing and calling are good ways. And also just meeting up with people xxx
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