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made a boo boo
okay, i have a problem. there's this boy that i've had the biggest crush on ever since i met him. well he had a girlfriend starting in spring of '09 and back in september him and i were at our mutual friends' apartment. we were all drinking but before we started he was telling us how him and his girlfriend were on a break and he didn't think he could date her anymore (they had been having a lot of problems) anyways, we were drinking and he was being especially flirty towards me. one thing lead to another and we hooked up, but i stopped and told him that i felt bad and that i was trying to help him by stopping. then he proceeded to tell me he didn't know what i wanted. this confused me to no end. but later on i found out that he told his girlfriend the next day that he hooked up with someone (but i don't know if he told her it was me) she said she liked him too much to let it affect them, so they went back to dating for about 2 weeks and then broke up for good. they are still broken up, but i feel bad. i don't know whether or not i should apologize to her, but i don't want to in case she didn't know it was me because that would open another can of worms. I just don't know what to do.
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They were on a break meaning they planned on getting back together so it is slightly concerning that he would hook up with you. That is something you should think about if you want to date him. But something else to think about is that he told her about it which means he's honest and probably someone you can trust. That 2 weeks was just them trying one last time. It's obviously not going to work out and you two like each other so go for it. You have no obligation to tell her it was you or apologize. I know you feel badly about it but that would cause unneeded conflict and it is not your place. Take things slow. Hang out. Make sure he's someone you would consider being with long term. If not then it's not even worth it.
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I think that since you like him so much and have for so long you should go for it. Though, you did say you were drunk and he still kept going out with her so he seems a bit of a player. I think the best thing to do though is to talk to her because it is the only way to clear your conscience..... Email me back if u need more help.
Jazzy :) xx
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