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what should I think
Ok so my ex and i broke up last month because of a rumor that wasn't even true but we both still really like each other alot. we text each other all the time but he got grounded from his phone for about a week and when he got it back i asked him why he was grounded, he told me that his phone was calling his mom while he was getting a blowjob...... and im like what the heck!! I mean he keeps saying he is going to ask me back out but he doesn't if he does this when he is single Im scared to find out what he would do when he is in a relationship. But if he ask be back out idk what i would say. What should I think? What should I say? please help me. Im 14 and Female
and P.S. im to young to worry about anything close to that so if he thinks I will do any of that then I will say NO!
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Hey,
To be honest and so as not to lie to you, its obvious that he doesn't like you, or if he once did, he doesn't feel the same way anymore, and if you get back together, it might be just to get physically close to you.
And hey you were dating and you liked each other ,how can he be so blunt and honest so as to tell YOU that he was having a blowjob, he would've never told you if he was hoping to get you back. The only reason he could've told you is to tell you indirectly that he's not gonna ask you out again and that you're not gonna get back together.
Basically, that was so low of him to tell you that, and to actually do that, and if you still like him, then yes that probably would've really hurt you so much, cause i bet that really did upset you,but you have to know, that he definitely doesn't like you this way anymore, and you know, even if he does and is going to ask you out again, you should say no to him exactly as you would say No if he asked for sex, because he just doesn't deserve you and is not a good person.
Its practically as if he's telling you that he is so over you and has moved on and is even enjoying the single life of getting blowjobs, and the lowest thing, is that he's actually sharing that piece of info with you.
So here is the thing, get over him, move on, stop calling him and don't talk to him again, and if he tries to contact you, show him that you don't care and have no interest of getting back together, cause you shouldn't be used as this spare who he'd always have available when he's done with his blowjobs.
You are a good person, and you should be treated with respect, and you belong to someone who really deserves you and loves you, so don't waste your time here with this guy who would only just hurt you more, and he's not worth it.
Hope i helped, if you need anything else, please be free to contact me.Best of luck!
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You broke up over a rumor, and then he got a BJ even though he still really liked you? Something smells fishy there. It sounds like he wanted to brag about the BJ to you and maybe give you a hint that you need to match that level of sexual contact if you two get back together. I'm proud of you for being tough about that and not giving in! Just beware that it seems like that's what he's looking for. Go with what your heart says; if you're scared then you probably have good reason to be.
There are plenty of nice guys out there, guys that don't get blowjobs between relationships and then tell their ex-girlfriends about it. -__- Be patient and you'll find one. In the meantime, I suggest that you not get back together with this guy. :/
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is he 14? and he got a BJ?! oh well. i know many ppl like that..
and truthfully i dont think you should go out with him
even if he does ask you back out. i mean hes obviously kind of
a man whore. and he WILL pressure you into taht kind of stuff.. trust me.
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